have you ever felt like dying?

[Sympathy]

and by the way @darksky967 , thanks for making me literally shake with anger and ruining my day. i can see why you've never been in a relationship, who would date a loathesome fck like you? go to hell.

[Mystelinth]

I want to say something productive, something that helps to move this thread forward. But then again, i'm not really good at expressing myself.

So, keep up the good stuff, derail of the bad stuff. Know that'll be alright, it'll be alright. It'll be alright, ONEE LOVEE, ONEE HEAART, LEEETS GET TOGETHER AND FEEEEL ALRIGHTTTTT



This song is inappropriate here, but i like the catchyness, i'm gonna let it stay here if you don't mind.

[Sympathy]

Yes, there have been times in the past when I've wanted to take my own life. Now that I'm older though, I've come to the conclusion that since I won't live forever anyway, there's little value in taking my own life, even though there are still occasions when I wonder why I was put on this earth.

You might not like my answer, but please understand, I'm not saying this to be cruel or hateful. But I have to say, much as I understand how you feel, frankly you bought it upon yourself. You staked everything on love, so it's only natural that your world would fall apart once the person you fell in love with decided to pursue a goal outside an intimate relationship.

I'm not saying that love has no place or value; far from it. However, contrary to common belief, love is not infinite. You can either put all of it into one thing, or divide it amongst multiple things. I chose the latter, by which I mean, I divided my limited capacity for love evenly between my partner, friends and family. If circumstances arose such that my partner had to break up with me, sure it'd hurt, but I'd still have my friends and family; I'd still have plenty of reasons to live. You still have friends and family, don't you? Do they mean so little to you that you'd not even fight for your life if someone put a gun to your head? Did your capacity to love your girlfriend diminish your capacity to love others close to you?

Don't get me wrong; I'm not saying you're an inconsiderate person. What you're going through is quite common and perfectly natural. From experience I understand that it's easy to overlook the things you still have when the most overwhelming of human emotions are going off like sirens. I said what I said because back when I considered taking my own life (or not caring if someone else did), at the last minute I realised that I was about to leave all my loved ones behind--not because my "world" had collapsed, but because I allowed my desire for one thing to skew my sense of value on the things I still have.

Give it some time, and eventually you'll see that it's not the end of the world, pick yourself up and dust yourself off. There's a saying: "If you're going through hell, keep going.". That's what you need to do.

thank you. i do still have those i love, and i'd not leave them behind. however, it's like you said - i staked everything on my love for her. she was the most important person in my life, and losing her made me feel dead inside. but after a few days it's getting easier. i realize that i still have a lot to live for, and it's not the end of the world. it was the single most painful moment of my life, but a lot of people have given me the old anecdote, "time heals all wounds". and they're right.

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and by the way @darksky967 , thanks for making me literally shake with anger and ruining my day. i can see why you've never been in a relationship, who would date a loathesome fck like you? go to hell.

EDIT: i was going to down rep you for your disgusting comments, but it appears i've already given rep recently. damn. woulda felt good.

EDIT AGAIN: spread some rep around to all those that helped me get through the tough time, and down repped your sorry a$$. and it did feel good.



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woops, thought i was in edit post. my bad @.:neuko:. , didn't mean to make it seem like your comments were disgusting >_>

[.:neuko:.]

thank you. i do still have those i love, and i'd not leave them behind. however, it's like you said - i staked everything on my love for her. she was the most important person in my life, and losing her made me feel dead inside. but after a few days it's getting easier. i realize that i still have a lot to live for, and it's not the end of the world. it was the single most painful moment of my life, but a lot of people have given me the old anecdote, "time heals all wounds". and they're right.

You're welcome. I was worried that you might feel worse after what I said; but on the other hand, I don't believe in simply telling people what they want to hear if you know what I mean, and thought you might be able to take something from my experience. Glad to hear it's getting easier. Yeah, it's an old cliche, but time does heal all wounds.

my bad @.:neuko:. , didn't mean to make it seem like your comments were disgusting >_>

Lol, it's okay. I was writing a post myself at the time, so hadn't noticed the error anyway.

[Sympathy]

Dude. I am not miserable and I am also not jealous of you as I do not know you.. I am jealous that I cannot be like a normal person. I am happy that you got responses which made you feel better, but you have to expect a dissimilar opinion like mine as you were posting on a public forum.

i'm not a normal person you fcking weasel, i have bipolar, chronic depression, dissociative disorder and general anxiety disorder. these conditions have made forming relationships for me next to impossible. i have no irl friends to turn to and she was the only one in the world that i could rely on for comfort since my brother was put in jail. i'll say it again, FCK YOU.

When animedude makes a thread lacking substance we intervene right? This was the same case.. this thread annoyed me so I intervened, that's all.

lacking substance? it annoyed you?? it annoys you when a person is so fcking wrecked that they feel like dying? do you have a conscience you inconsiderate piece of sht? i think you're the lowest scum i've ever come across. die and make the world better off.

[darksky967]

you're being ignorant as you do not know who I am but yet you claim to! I hope you make the decision to move forwards however hard that may be, because it really is the best decision even if it doesn't seem that way. I didn't intend for my posts to be taken personally so I'm sorry if it seemed personal! I'm going through some rough times myself that I rather not even post about but I try to keep my head up. I think at some point everyone feels like dying because it is sadly a part of life like what was said. Insults have little to no effect on me. Keep your head up, sir.

[Yung A$$eroya]

Sic 'em, @horrendous

[darksky967]

I find it mildly funny that you took it personal, but when I look at my posts, I really look like an smart aleck. I'm sorry, man
I just think in a very robotic way sometimes, it's a problem I have

[Sympathy]

you're being ignorant as you do not know who I am but yet you claim to! I hope you make the decision to move forwards however hard that may be, because it really is the best decision even if it doesn't seem that way. I didn't intend for my posts to be taken personally so I'm sorry if it seemed personal! I'm going through some rough times myself that I rather not even post about but I try to keep my head up. I think at some point everyone feels like dying because it is sadly a part of life like what was said. Insults have little to no effect on me. Keep your head up, sir.

oh, you're going through some rough times? take your pain and shove it up your a$$hole. i never claimed to know you, clown. the only thing i know about you is that the world doesn't need you in it. disappear.

[Riverflower]

Hehe so did thread went from trying to help, well, to not helping. A funny thing, if you ask me. Looking at the bright side, maybe? :b

[Rocketpop]

I've deliberately held out on this thread because it hits a little too close to home. But you can totally PM me if you ever want to talk to someone who's been there, come back, then gone again.

[Sympathy]

I've deliberately held out on this thread because it hits a little too close to home. But you can totally PM me if you ever want to talk to someone who's been there, come back, then gone again.

i'm not the sort of person that starts conversations with strangers, but if they start one with me i'll gladly talk.

[Clayton_n]

I tend to figure either I'll live forever or i won't and in either case, my problems will eventually solve themselves.

Most religions agree killing yourself has serious downsides.

[Sympathy]

I tend to figure either I'll live forever or i won't and in either case, my problems will eventually solve themselves.

Most religions agree killing yourself has serious downsides.

awesome, good thing i don't follow any religions. in any case, i'm mostly over it.

[DeathBlade/13.666]

like literally wouldn't care if your heart suddenly went into arrest or someone walked up with a gun and shot you in the head? like you'd just say oh, guess i'm dying now, fancy that.

Every god damn day I'm awake... -.-

[Anime Forum]

When animedude makes a thread lacking substance we intervene right? This was the same case.. this thread annoyed me so I intervened, that's all.

You're comparing apples and oranges and are changing your initial response. This thread isn't boring, but annoyed you? How so? I can't see any logical reason to beat somebody down who is depressed. Now, if he made 10+ threads about his depression and acted more like VG I could possibly agree. Though, it was just one dang thread. Give the guy a break.

I once made a thread about my wedding plans with AF..

#memories

[Sympathy]

Every god damn day I'm awake... -.-

sorry to hear that bro. i'll follow the suit of so many generous strangers who have offered this to me since i posted this thread: if you ever need to talk or just vent, pm me. i'll listen and respond with whatever advice i can offer. pretty good deal, right? i might seem like an ignorant cock on the forums, but ask @Foxy or @Asseroya - i'm a pretty caring dude.

[Velvet_Nightmare]

Cheer up bud. I know things are tough, but (don't take this personally) when you break up with your first serious relationship it's natural to feel like this. I've been there. And I'm willing to bet a lot of others have also felt this way before. Just hang in there. There will be a new girl for you who fits you even better eventually. Have faith. : D

This. Can't agree enough with this.

When I finally finished dealing with all the BS attempts at a relationship and settled into a decent one, I did just that, settled. So when it became abusive and just overall a load of bull crap, I shoulda realized that there's a butt load of people out there and not gotten so hung up on the fear of being alone.

Does it suck having to find someone else? Of course. The transition sucks, but it's a necessary process to being able to move on and find someone better. And it's even harder if this was your first, multiple meanings there. But trust me, it'll be worth it in the end when you find someone who is worth your time and efforts. Stay strong bruh. We got yo back.

[Yung A$$eroya]

sorry to hear that bro. i'll follow the suit of so many generous strangers who have offered this to me since i posted this thread: if you ever need to talk or just vent, pm me. i'll listen and respond with whatever advice i can offer. pretty good deal, right? i might seem like an ignorant cock on the forums, but ask @Foxy or @Asseroya - i'm a pretty caring dude.

No, Nick's a total--

Nick is a pretty sweet and caring dude, really. He just likes to be a semi-troll or whatever haha. I consider him a really good friend of mine

[Nanobyte]

No, Nick's a total--

Nick is a pretty sweet and caring dude, really. He just likes to be a semi-troll or whatever haha. I consider him a really good friend of mine

... Nick?

[Yung A$$eroya]

... Nick?

OOOH MY GOOOOD

I didn't realize that I wrote Nick instead of Tony ahahahhaa

I was talking to my friend Nick

[Nanobyte]

OOOH MY GOOOOD

I didn't realize that I wrote Nick instead of Tony ahahahhaa

I was talking to my friend Nick

Oh boy. :'D

This would be way more awkward if you were having sex bro.

[Sympathy]

OOOH MY GOOOOD

I didn't realize that I wrote Nick instead of Tony ahahahhaa

I was talking to my friend Nick

you are dead to me adiran.

DEAD.

[Kaleohano]

Nope. Can't say I have. I'm too busy to worry about that stuff. I have ladies to lay and, more importantly, cars to build. No time to think about or consider dying.