The Path of the Friendzoned

[marvelangga]

Would you take the risk or leave it as it is?

[Wio]

Take the risk.

[Ranshiin]

... What is it?

-has been indifferent about social networking before it was cool to be indifferent about social networking.-

[Konkulf]

Friendzoned is when you ask someone to be your GF/BF, but get turned down in the "I think of you as a friend" kind of way, i think that's what it is atleast...

[CrimsonMoon]

Take the risk. People's feelings can change.

[mrpineapple]

whenever I take the risk, it never pays off, so I gave up trying :'(

[Arrisu]

Take the risk. At least you tried right?

[SakuraKiss13]

Hmm. This is hard.

When you take the risk, it could have a possibility that you'll lose here even as a friend or end up getting hurt and hurt.
If you really love a person, then you'll wait. The person's feelings may change in time.

[Hanamaru Kunikida]

Take the risk.
:noworries

[Gyzra]

Take the risk but only if it's pretty obvious they feel the same way. Otherwise i'd prefer to not lose a good friend.

[Darkcobra]

i wouldnt risk it:

whenever I take the risk, it never pays off, so I gave up trying :'(

Sadly i suffer from this aswell so its not always worth the effort.

But truth is if i really liked someone i would stay the friend option, if your turned down though you say you will still be friends, its never quite the same, i dont wish to loose what i assume will be a great friend for a chance of something a little more (which might never work out anyways). If im honest i know of few times friend relationships work out anyways. But i would defo stay friends, who knows if they feel the same she/he might even approach you anyway (if there serious..) but i suppose you could say they will be in this thought process, i think if your meant to be with one another i would say just wait it out and see what happens next, you might start flirting anyways or at least getting somewhere

[mrpineapple]

i wouldnt risk it:

whenever I take the risk, it never pays off, so I gave up trying :'(

Sadly i suffer from this aswell so its not always worth the effort.

But truth is if i really liked someone i would stay the friend option, if your turned down though you say you will still be friends, its never quite the same, i dont wish to loose what i assume will be a great friend for a chance of something a little more (which might never work out anyways). If im honest i know of few times friend relationships work out anyways. But i would defo stay friends, who knows if they feel the same she/he might even approach you anyway (if there serious..) but i suppose you could say they will be in this thought process, i think if your meant to be with one another i would say just wait it out and see what happens next, you might start flirting anyways or at least getting somewhere

It's p tough when you're their friend, but yeah. I think it's better in the long run

Also <3 ur avatar

[Hakoshi]

mmmm, I'd take the risk
xD

[Velvet_Nightmare]

Take the risk.

What's the point of living if you don't take some risks for a better life?

[CrimsonMoon]

i wouldnt risk it:

Sadly i suffer from this aswell so its not always worth the effort.

But truth is if i really liked someone i would stay the friend option, if your turned down though you say you will still be friends, its never quite the same, i dont wish to loose what i assume will be a great friend for a chance of something a little more (which might never work out anyways). If im honest i know of few times friend relationships work out anyways. But i would defo stay friends, who knows if they feel the same she/he might even approach you anyway (if there serious..) but i suppose you could say they will be in this thought process, i think if your meant to be with one another i would say just wait it out and see what happens next, you might start flirting anyways or at least getting somewhere

I agree with this, yes, things will never be the same after you confess, cause it happened to me too. The good thing is that I got it off my chest. And you never know if they will return your feelings. Cause this happens to me too, and we're still together after more than three years. So it could be positive or negative, but I think if you don't say it, then they will not know. There are chances that they're attracted to you, but they're thinking like you, so they don't want to risk it. That's just my opinion. I wish you luck.

[marvelangga]

Wow. I'm actually surprised by most of the responses here. And I thought AF people would think so bitter that, once you were friendzoned, then it's game over.

I guess I was mistaken!~ ^^

[CrimsonMoon]

Wow. I'm actually surprised by most of the responses here. And I thought AF people would think so bitter that, once you were friendzoned, then it's game over.

I guess I was mistaken!~ ^^

Well, friendzoned isn't that bad, I guess. For me, it's not a game over. We're still friends but there's no chance of romantic feelings, that's all. Move on to someone new.

[mrpineapple]

I think if it's early enough in your friendship, it's okay to, and you'll recover your friendship eventually

[Darkcobra]

Wow. I'm actually surprised by most of the responses here. And I thought AF people would think so bitter that, once you were friendzoned, then it's game over.

I guess I was mistaken!~ ^^

yeah its suppringsing on how strong some people are personaily i wouldnt doubt the friendzone could be all to bad though, i cant speak for sure but i doubt its to bad as your still close to them in your own way ^^
@mrpineapple thankyou i love yui ^_^

[Screwby]

As a person who has a habit of being friendzoned (so much I was asked by the kids in my old boarding house if I was gay haha) I still say to take the risk. In case you get rejected just give it a few months and you'll most likely be back to normal especially if you were good friends.