Q: Have you ever thought about getting married? Are you married, and/or what are your views on it?
I'm 28, so I've been thinking about it a lot.
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Q: Have you ever thought about getting married? Are you married, and/or what are your views on it?
I'm 28, so I've been thinking about it a lot.
My Wi-Fi, it's gone out . . .
I have... I've even had people ask me if I thought about it...
All I can say is, "NEVER! //15 It's a trap! Don't do it!" XD
Nah, for some folks it's worth the while. I know several that are happily married and enjoying every minute of it. Alas, it's not everyone's cup of tea. I'd rather stay single, really. Surely if Mrs. Right came along, I'd think long and hard about it. Otherwise she might have to get ready to chase me like Inspector Zenigata chases Lupin! lol
Studies have shown that every couple which has gone through a divorce was first married.
How about a thread on divorce in anime?
OK. Maybe best married anime couples. Let me think about that one. Don't start posting people here. Let's make it a separate thread.
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I'd like a nice white dress and a veil.
My Wi-Fi, it's gone out . . .
Thoughts? First, don't ever get married to someone you're in love with. Easier said than done of course because one isn't exactly rational in that moment. This is one of the many factors contributing to the divorce rate.
Secondly, let it just.. be. Don't plan on it. If you meet the right person, marry them. If you don't, that's ok too. It's not inherently a sad thing to go through life solo, despite what society may have you believe. There are many advantages to the single life, and to the married life. Many challenges as well. Both are valid paths through life.
It is best for a man to be married to his wife. And visa versa.
Feed your cat!
I'm not paying for my wedding; you can take that to the bank!
My Wi-Fi, it's gone out . . .
Cool. You're not invited.
My Wi-Fi, it's gone out . . .
Pity. You should see the girl I hired for your bachelor party. Oh, well. I can make use of her.
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First question nowadays is: can you even afford to get married?
Cause if I could, I definitely would.
I mean I've thought about it, but it seems a bit pointless in this day and age. It's a weird logic to form a contract to show that you love someone. It seems like something people jump into these day with little thought, either from fear of being alone or from desperation to save an already failing relationship.
I'd be open to it with the right person probably, but things are also always changing and if the worse should happen, divorce is a very expensive and stressful thing. As far as the religious aspect of marriage goes, I'm not really religious at all, so that holds absolutely no meaning for me.
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Yes and no, it depends now how extravagant you or the soon-to-be spouse wants to be. The cheapest (and best way for other reasons) is to go to the court house and have a judge or justice of the peace marry you. It's several hundred compared to several thousand to be nice and fancy.
Plus being married there's added benefits like joint taxes and such that could save money, but there's added risk as well like the credit rating being effected by the marriage. I mean if you knew how to play the Fiscal Game to save money and keep credit up, then yes it can be worth it and affordable for both short term and long term.
Yes, i want to get married.
I’m not sure when.
The fancier the wedding, the sooner the divorce, it seems. Of course that's over-simplifying and there are many factors involved in divorces, but the cost of a wedding does seem to indicate to some extent where people's heads and hearts are (not where they should be).
I lived with a roomie once who's brother spent around $20,000 to get married in Hawaii. Marriage lasted only a year, with the second half of it being filled with unnecessary drama. Then that roomie himself got married a couple years later.. not sure how much was spent but it wasn't exactly a subtle wedding. He was divorced 4 months later.
As with most things in the Capitalist States of America, weddings have become tainted with money. The wedding industry and in turn the social pressure from the people around us try to convince us that if we truly love that person, we would not spare any expense on wedding day. You know you've found someone special when they're able to see through that bullsh!t.
I think if you REALLY KNOW the person you are "in love with", marriage should be your end result. It is the ultimate stage of any romance. Pledging yourselves to one another fully and exclusively goes a long way if you truly mean it.
If you aren't religious, I guess it doesn't really matter. I haven't been to a wedding in a while, but I know every wedding I've been to was about making a covenant as one in front of God. A beautiful thing in my opinion. It really deepens the commitment for those that are religious.
I used to be married but I got divorced and I’m getting married again next year and I didn’t think I would ever get married again but I’m very happy that I am.
Im not religious at all, but I wanted to get married. Its not really a religious thing anymore, its more of a status [for me anyway]
While I did want a fancy wedding, the more and more we thought about it, the more we didnt want to deal with the hassle of dresses, decorations, suits, flowers, food, venues....weddings are a lot of work!!
My husband and I married at the courthouse. It was quick, easy, and overall ran us $300.
I love my husband, I knew for years I wanted to grow old with him. Its funny though, we dont feel 'married'. I figured afterwards Id feel more 'adult' and 'grownup' and switch into some kinda 'wife mode' or something. But no, we're still just us, and in the end Im really glad we didnt blow a bunch of money on some huge wedding. I do regret not getting pictures, but eh.
Im all for weddings, but I think people need to be in LONG relationships/engagements before finally tying the knot. Hubbs and I dated around 4 years before engagement, 3 years engaged before getting married, and now are approaching our 3 year anniversary. Several of my friends from high school had marriages and engagements fall apart cause things progressed too fast. Everyone seems to be in such a rush to get married in their twenties. Slow down, take your time, make sure the person youre with is someone you want to grow old with
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