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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    its totally fine if the girl takes the initiative, i mean.. grab the oportunity your not alone ^^

    honestly i think there are 3 types of girls<
    1.the shy one- she waits for the boy to make the first step..., at the end just starring on the ground with a blushy face wont get you anything

    2.the(not so)shy/needs a little push type- thats the kind of girl who needs just a little push (i dont mean you should push her from the stairway or whatsoever.. -_-;...) ,like a friendly "hey" or "how are you" from the boy she's up to... ,more and more she is freeing herself till the shy goes up into an comfortable feeling

    3.the "alpha girl -_-" - she doesnt know the meaning of shyness either she has not the time for goofing around... her natural instincts are telling her that there's a posibility...or risk that her loved one gets preyed by an other girl.... therefore, on the first sight she instantly grabs his hand and.... ..well the rest should remain silent in the deepest dark of our dirty minds -.-

    with the boys its almost similiar, some are shy and some are more outgoing.... dont think now that just because youre shy your in disadvantage...i mean dude your not fataly wounded -.- ,,you shouldnt think too much about it, it comes with time and expirience.. just have courage it refers to both, girls and boys

    and i personaly agree with one of the users before me ... one should never underestimate women... it just gives you pain and headaches -_-


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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    I know it has been said before here, but decide it yourself. Just do what comes to you naturally, cause pretending to be something you're not is the worst possible action. I'll also give you my personal preference as guy, not that it interests anyone but at least you can see which answer is the majority here.

    Personally, I won't mind if a girl takes an iniative. In fact, knowing that she is interested would make things easier for me as well, since I'm not that courageous in the first place. I'm not an old-fashioned alpha-male, so it wouldn't make me see her less girly or cute either.
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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    Quote Originally Posted by Shinn Kamiyra View Post
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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    Girls are more dangerous than guys. D= That's a fact.

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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    Quote Originally Posted by Señor Nonentity View Post
    They are. An ex of mine broke my windshield.
    What on earth did you do? Lol.

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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    Depends, I'm not one to make a move, so don't expect me to ask you out, even if I like you xD
    But I've had bad experiences with girls asking ME out...I've had to reject a couple of people I didn't really like, and I reeeeeally hate being a jerk like that.

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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    Absolutely okie!!! I'm the only guy out of my friends that takes the initiative to ask girls out, but it took a long time of abandoned feelings and missed chances to get to this point. I feel if you want sumthing bad enough, you have to go for it. If you get rejected, sure it stings a bit, but you never know unless you try.

    To this day I've never met a girl who takes the initiative in a blunt form understood by modern man.... usually they leave little hints here and there, but guys tend to be.... how should I say this.... stupid. From personal experience, it's hard to read in between the lines.

    So just be aware, and if you can, test the water before diving in. I think it's a good idea for girls to take the intiative in sum cases, because if you really like a guy, don't let the opportunity pass you by.

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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    If the girl takes the first move, I give them kudos. Besides, when I go first it feels like I'm more empowered and that the guy would say "Wow, she's really independent!" XD

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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    Yes, I said girl's are stupid. Those girls are anyway. I'm not immature for thinking this way, but anybody who would rather go after someone who doesn't give them the time of day over someone who is always there for them is stupid. I'll say it again. They are stupid. That's why when I get rejected, I take the fricken hint. When someone ignores me, they probably don't want to go out with me. I don't care if they are mysterious or hot or whatever. If the person doesn't want to be around me, then ok. I won't ask them out. It seems like a simple concept to me. Oh and Kaitou. A guy can be confident and indepedent and be shy. I'm shy when it comes to asking people out, but I fricken exude confidence in just about every other aspect of my life.

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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    It's not a factor of what sex you are. It's all down to what person you are, nowadays. In olden days, tradition had it that men made the first move. But now, people are so absorbed in being their own independent person, free from traditions they don't like, or rules they don't need, that they make their own decisions based purely on whether or not they want to.
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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    I'll usually wait for any girl to make the move. Dunno why guess I'm just too busy.
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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    I think it's okay. Actually, I'd prefer a girl ask me - if she's interested in me and I don't know about it, then what could it hurt? And if she knows me and speaks to me regularly, if I don't like her at all, I'll have made it very clear. There's one I'm interested in now, but I'm waiting for the "green light" to ask her, since we work in the same building. I'd rather not ask her at all than risk awkwardness or complaints.

    My first girlfriend asked me out, actually. We were friends, and I was thinking that was all there was to it. We ended up doing a volunteer thing together for school, and one day while we were digging up some stage props [worked at a local theatre for a few weeks for extra credit] she came over to me, said "I've got two prom tickets and a dress, will you be my date?" And from there we were together for six or seven months. I'm still friends with her now, and it's been years since then.

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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    I think things go a lot easier and quicker if the girl makes the first move. Honestly, the chances of a girl getting rejected are a lot less than a guy getting rejected. Guys usually are just so flattered and stunned that a chick likes them that they start to like you when before they didn't (Actually this is true for both sexes; knowing someone is interested in you makes them somehow a lot more attractive. There have been studies.).

    Yeah there are those shy people, and if being shy is preventing you then there are ways to help get over that. But if you're not asking someone out because they're the "guy" and they should make the first move, that's just dumb. In the words of Beyonce, if you like it then you should put a ring on it. But not a ring at first... just a come on.


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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    It doesn't matter either way because they'll both be nervous no matter what. Though Capers is right, women are less likely to get rejected by men.

    And I still don't understand the second thing, I mean, isn't the point of being with someone to talk to them and get to know them better? Otherwise, why are you in a relationship if you're just going to get ignored?

    Also, if you're just doing it because you think you can change the guy, then you have another thing coming. If you're dating him then he will have no reason to change since he already has someone. And he will only change if he's willing to change.

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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    Why not?

    And women aren't always less likely to get rejected by men, but it depends.

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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    Quote Originally Posted by Miss Moonlight View Post

    And women aren't always less likely to get rejected by men, but it depends.
    Actually it is true. I forget who did the test (which I can't link it) but there was a test done on several college students. It consisted of a girl asking guys who passed in the hallway if they wanted to have sex in the bathroom. The participants who were between the ages of 18-24 mostly responded with a yes, I believe it was 68 percent, and the ones who denied the request gave excuses that they had a girlfriend or were late to class.

    Then the turned it around and did the sae thing with girls. This guy would ask girls out in the hall if they wanted to have sex. 34 percent of the girls agreed, some of them replied that they had a boyfriend and the rest felt offended at such a remark.

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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    Quote Originally Posted by Eris View Post
    I say do what suits your personality.

    If you're the sort of boring old-fashioned girl with no initiative who wants a knight in shining armor to sweep you off the floor, then wait.
    If you're the sort of modern go-getter girl who would take the first initiative, then do so.

    The same basic notion goes for guys.
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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    To be honest from my experience I wouldn't mind if the girl I liked asked me out rather than me cus then I know that the feeling is both ways


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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    Quote Originally Posted by ΣSD View Post
    And I still don't understand the second thing, I mean, isn't the point of being with someone to talk to them and get to know them better? Otherwise, why are you in a relationship if you're just going to get ignored?

    Also, if you're just doing it because you think you can change the guy, then you have another thing coming. If you're dating him then he will have no reason to change since he already has someone. And he will only change if he's willing to change.
    Lol, so THIS is what you mean. Well this wasn't what I mean when I told you about THAT THING. And this and that and blah. So, you thought this was happening? Lolz. (huh?)

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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    Quote Originally Posted by ΣSD View Post
    Actually it is true. I forget who did the test (which I can't link it) but there was a test done on several college students. It consisted of a girl asking guys who passed in the hallway if they wanted to have sex in the bathroom. The participants who were between the ages of 18-24 mostly responded with a yes, I believe it was 68 percent, and the ones who denied the request gave excuses that they had a girlfriend or were late to class.

    Then the turned it around and did the sae thing with girls. This guy would ask girls out in the hall if they wanted to have sex. 34 percent of the girls agreed, some of them replied that they had a boyfriend and the rest felt offended at such a remark.
    Makes sense after all they claim ('whoever they are the great mystical know-it alls') that the male brain is more centered around having sex


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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    Of course its okay....
    as long as that first move is not a Chuck Norris roundhouse to the face.
    ....

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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    Quote Originally Posted by xAl-san View Post
    Of course its okay....
    as long as that first move is not a Chuck Norris roundhouse to the face.
    lol that would be epic though


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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    Yea totally! I did 3 years ago and I'm getting married to the same guy next month. So its totally ok
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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    I hope it all goes well for you


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    Default Re: Is it okay for girls to make the first move?

    Personally, I think life's too short for going on long love chases, so I'm all for girl's making the 1st move as much as guys. Besides... to say that one gender should make the 1st move and not the other is rather sexist in my opinion.

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