its totally fine if the girl takes the initiative, i mean.. grab the oportunity your not alone ^^
honestly i think there are 3 types of girls<
1.the shy one- she waits for the boy to make the first step..., at the end just starring on the ground with a blushy face wont get you anything
2.the(not so)shy/needs a little push type- thats the kind of girl who needs just a little push (i dont mean you should push her from the stairway or whatsoever.. -_-;...) ,like a friendly "hey" or "how are you" from the boy she's up to... ,more and more she is freeing herself till the shy goes up into an comfortable feeling
3.the "alpha girl -_-" - she doesnt know the meaning of shyness either she has not the time for goofing around... her natural instincts are telling her that there's a posibility...or risk that her loved one gets preyed by an other girl.... therefore, on the first sight she instantly grabs his hand and.... ..well the rest should remain silent in the deepest dark of our dirty minds -.-
with the boys its almost similiar, some are shy and some are more outgoing.... dont think now that just because youre shy your in disadvantage...i mean dude your not fataly wounded -.- ,,you shouldnt think too much about it, it comes with time and expirience.. just have courage it refers to both, girls and boys
and i personaly agree with one of the users before me ... one should never underestimate women... it just gives you pain and headaches -_-
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