My X barely knew me. I barely knew him.. We hung out all the time but our personalities crashed too much. Even now years after the fact I know hardly anything different than what I knew then.
Dating brings drama mostly.. It's blah..
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My X barely knew me. I barely knew him.. We hung out all the time but our personalities crashed too much. Even now years after the fact I know hardly anything different than what I knew then.
Dating brings drama mostly.. It's blah..
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Its not only dating, but marriage as well. Me and my husband have been together (married) for almost 2 years now. We fight occasionally but the difference between just being in a normal relationship is we hold onto eachother a bit tighter than if we were in a regular relationship. Marriage is deffinately the long hall, but VERY much worth it once you find the right person.
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Technically, we are still "semi available", when he asked me out again I said "maybe we can try again", I didn't give him an actual answer. I also did avoid him a few times the last 2 days and treated him more like a friend.
I was pretty much almost over him by then but he seemed serious about it at first, he was trying to spend time with me and would try to talk to me nicely even if I was trying to avoid him.... also surprise! He didn't freak out when I mentioned to him how cute I thought Megan Fox was (he was homophobic last year).
Last edited by oigrrrl805; 09-05-2009 at 11:09 PM.
Well I really hope things work out the way you want them too. Maybe if you give him a second chance you might see something there that you didn't notice before. Just from what you are saying he seems nice and you should go for it. Better for you to try again than to lose him to someone els.
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not really into relationships
I manage to have fun without them
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Yeah. This situation isn't too clear yet but I'm sure in the end I'll be happy with whatever I chose from it. Thinking about how he won't always open up (which leads to feeling ignored) and how he screwed up big once iritates me, but on the other hand I have a feeling it could be good if we just work things out first...somehow (he's not talkative when it comes to this).
See thats what was weird with my friend. It was almost like she had no sex drive or sexual interest in anything. It was like a child with the knowledge and understanding of a young adult. I really dont think she was even attracted to either sex in any way whatsoever. Was quite odd, I only met one person like her, and that of course whas her.
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I can see there she is coming from, I was like that for a short period of time (after I got crushed by my ex). But over time i got back into being interested in women again, tho I still can not fully trust them. So I doubt that she'll stay the way she is for long. Even 3 year olds have interests in the opposite sex.
Last edited by Teddy2116; 09-06-2009 at 07:13 AM.
It took me a very long time to get over my first heartbreak. It took a lot of Alice in Chains, bad poetry, video games, and friends to get through it. It felt like being kicked in the stomach. I didn't eat much, started losing weight like mad [I swear I need to get in that funk again for a bit] and just didn't give a damn about anything. My desire for human companionship lessened and I kept pretty insulated with my small circle of friends. Each of those people are still my closest friends today. I was dealing with depression around then too, and that contributed to the breakup. She shouldn't have had to deal with my issues, and eventually, it ended the relationship. My fault. But to get through that, I built such a shell...I've been told that I don't open up to people, and don't let them in. I didn't used to be social, and I'm still not, really. But I used to be far more of a prick to people than I am now. I not only didn't like anyone but my few friends, I didn't want to like anyone. It was easier to go through life pissed off, than risk any more heartache.
I'm still sort of that way today. But it's still not her fault.
I do talk to that ex periodically, it's been a long time, and she's married now. We can sit down and have a few drinks together at a party, or with her husband [went to school with him] and there's no tension or anything anymore. We're friends. But it took a long time for me to get to that point.
I miss having someone to be that close to. It's not about...gratification...it's about knowing someone very well, and caring a lot for them. I hesitate to use the word "love" but the feeling of being loved is wonderful, even if it's not "real". You guys and girls in this thread that brush that off may be more independent or grounded than I am, but I don't think so. I think, sometimes, by reading your posts, that you've not had someone that really cares about you. It's almost like abuse, to have a relationship like that, where you're not appreciated, cared for, "loved", whatever you want to call it. The connection cannot be one-sided. Some of us here have been hurt deeply, and some of us seem to be made of steel and teflon.
I've been single for a long time, and I've pretty much stopped looking. I don't have time, I don't want to look. I won't meet anyone at work, because of what I do. I won't meet anyone in my time off, because I don't go out, because I don't make very much money. And I don't care to drink in bars, which is the usual way to meet women after you're out of college. So I stay home. I like Texas, but I'm also not convinced that I will find someone for me here. I'm not church-friendly, and don't care to be. And that's a big deal for most folks around here.
Actually, you'd be surprised. In life, I'm quite shy. But as some can tell ya, on the forum I was quite the socialite, lol. There's a difference between face to face, and a cyber interaction. For me, I find it easier to be who I want to be online, then I do in real-life. Probably cause I'm TOO good at reading people and their reactions, so I tend to clam up and be more affraid to just be myself.
its true what you guys are saying. you do get back into liking the other sex but theres just this thing. ever since my last relationship, im not that into doing it. i can like a guy or find him hot but i wont thing of anything more. its really weird. but i think its because i had enough with my ex, maybe itll pass. well i hope it does anyways
im sure youll meet someone. i dont think you have to look for that person but rather if youre really meant to be, then youll just meet. its a random thing. thats what i tihnk anyways
Last edited by lilminx; 09-07-2009 at 11:45 PM.
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ARE YOU SMURFING SERIOUS?!?!
I mean I know how you feel, cause I was the same way after my ex told me I was just a toy to her (grr that word i can't say on here). But I had to get over that quick. I still kinda don't think of women in sexual way as I use to (grr the scar that wont go away). So I guess what I'm trying to say is that you'll get back into it again hopefully it'll be with some awesome guy and not an (another word I can not use here)
i think that when i do find someone i love then ill go go back to being myself. although its so hard to find a boyfriend that meets your requirements >.< and im not even that picky *sigh* i guess dating isnt for me
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don't beat yourself up. I rather not see another person suffer like I've been doing for the past year now. So just relax and take things slow and flow like. guys will flock to you like ducks (men are really simple). And you'll find that awesome guy and you 2 will fall in love and all will be good with the world
thats sounds more like a fantasy then the reality i live in >.< guys do come up to me, but i dont really like it. its annoying besides the guys that do come up to me are more into looks than anything else. im sure theyre like "oh wow shes cute , shell be good " sheesh....i want someone to like me for me and just use me for some activity >.<
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Well I could say that about you and like you for you. I mean I do live by this quote when it comes to relationships "when a lion see a rabbit, its not thinking , that looks taste, its thinking that looks cute and he eats it" I kinda think the same way. I see something cute I want it. but that's just me and most guys don't think that way
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that is true but the person has to want to change, which is rarely the case. even my ex said he would change, he didnt so i dont think people do. it takes a lot of effort and wanting and sometimes they just give up
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yeah but that only applies to a person with a weak will. Most people have a pretty good will power so change is easy for them. i guess your ex was just one of those weak ones
we was pretty pretty weak at everything, but thats too long of a story . i just hope people have better luck in finding that "special:" person"
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you will find that person also. trust me I had her once and throw it away like an idiot.
well youll find a better person, youre a great guy ^^ think positive XD ( i should too >.< )
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