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Really if you approach me for relationship advise there is something wrong. However I do have some decent principles. Firstly, open lines of communication is a must. There cannot be any of this Hollywood style romance where the guy knows everything the girl wants at any given time. It isn't realistic. Secondly, I think you need to enjoy your own time. No one stays with someone 24/7. Finally I think people need to realise that the perfect guy or girl doesn't exist. You just need to find someone who has enough of those traits.
i do not mean to burst your bubble here bro but have you taken English classes? Life lesson when people say something like for example (wasted) it can be taken both ways "wasted as in drunk wasted" or "wasted as in too tired to do anything" and don't assume you should know the true meaning of assumption caz you did it!!! you should think before you respond!!!thank you.....
Last edited by dawnbreaks; 12-20-2008 at 09:51 AM.
some girls are like that control freeks are what you have to look out for they can mess things up man
Check this out. Entertain this situation for your brain. My boyfriend, whom I've been dating for four years, is in like 2 punk bands. He's a bassist and he's pretty good for a thrasher gutter punk half Irish half Scottish kid. I must say, I have no problems with reds heads. But lately I've been feeling kind of lonely. Rather than me playing the role as the evil smothering girlfriend who doesn't let the guy have any fun, hang out with friends, and play his blasted music, I do the exact opposite. I go to his shows, make his band flyers, make his album covers, and be as supportive as I possibly can. But I've payed the price. I'm not as alluring as the loud and obnoxious sound of punk rock underground. I currently can't play an instrument so I'm not cool enough to join the band wagon. It's clear that he's choosing the music over me, but what can I do really? I don't want to smother him, but at the same time I wish he'd come and see me every once in awhile.
okay well I'm done spewing my life. Any guys out there want to help me diagnose the problem with my punk rock hubby?
I think he knew that from the start but decided to take one of the options to see the reaction. You should think, period!!!
So instead of being the evil, smothering girlfriend, you decided to be theCheck this out. Entertain this situation for your brain. My boyfriend, whom I've been dating for four years, is in like 2 punk bands. He's a bassist and he's pretty good for a thrasher gutter punk half Irish half Scottish kid. I must say, I have no problems with reds heads. But lately I've been feeling kind of lonely. Rather than me playing the role as the evil smothering girlfriend who doesn't let the guy have any fun, hang out with friends, and play his blasted music, I do the exact opposite. I go to his shows, make his band flyers, make his album covers, and be as supportive as I possibly can. But I've payed the price. I'm not as alluring as the loud and obnoxious sound of punk rock underground. I currently can't play an instrument so I'm not cool enough to join the band wagon. It's clear that he's choosing the music over me, but what can I do really? I don't want to smother him, but at the same time I wish he'd come and see me every once in awhile.
passive fodder for his band, right?
You're also right about a couple things.
-Music is better sounding than any woman.
-Punk Rock in general is obnoxious.
"hubby" = "husband"Any guys out there want to help me diagnose the problem with my punk rock hubby?
You = not married yet
Solution: Shut up and deal with it. He could be getting on the right track with his music as long as he doesn't do anything stupid. Do you honestly want to ruin his chances of actually being famous?
I know I am way to nice but i also dont like hurting girls it brings pain to me even I would need help but i would help my lover alot you know make them happy but at the same time guard your heart and go for your dream never lose pride in yourself as well
Well, i'll try to be helpful and add some "dear abby" advice.Check this out. Entertain this situation for your brain. My boyfriend, whom I've been dating for four years, is in like 2 punk bands. He's a bassist and he's pretty good for a thrasher gutter punk half Irish half Scottish kid. I must say, I have no problems with reds heads. But lately I've been feeling kind of lonely. Rather than me playing the role as the evil smothering girlfriend who doesn't let the guy have any fun, hang out with friends, and play his blasted music, I do the exact opposite. I go to his shows, make his band flyers, make his album covers, and be as supportive as I possibly can. But I've payed the price. I'm not as alluring as the loud and obnoxious sound of punk rock underground. I currently can't play an instrument so I'm not cool enough to join the band wagon. It's clear that he's choosing the music over me, but what can I do really? I don't want to smother him, but at the same time I wish he'd come and see me every once in awhile.
It's good you are a supportive girlfriend, and not a smothering one. I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting him to spend time with you, but you should also consider that if this is his passion and what he does, it's something you will just have to deal with.
If you feel he is choosing his music over you, maybe you should talk to him and see how he feels about that. There should be a fair amount of compromise in any relationship.
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That's the thing. I am dealing with it, but the guy doesn't really care about being famous. That's the beauty of the punk scene. They don't care what anyone thinks and they play their music because they want to do that kind of thing. It's about the lyrics and the message and all that jazz. If he wanted to become famous, I could really care less. It's his life and that's fine with me. I totally understand that.Solution: Shut up and deal with it. He could be getting on the right track with his music as long as he doesn't do anything stupid. Do you honestly want to ruin his chances of actually being famous?
I didn't really decide to be the passive fodder, that's just what happened I guess.So instead of being the evil, smothering girlfriend, you decided to be the
passive fodder for his band, right?
I still think this could be a big break for the guy. He could make some serious cash on this one. Sometimes sacrifices need to be made for something of yours to go correctly.
Wait, wait, wait...there's a message to punk rock? I thought the music was all filth and denied it both in my home and at work. I will not listen to that crap. I also fixed your error.That's the thing. I am dealing with it, but the guy doesn't really care about being famous. That's the beauty of the punk scene. They don't care what anyone thinks and they play their music because they want to do that kind of thing. It's about the lyrics and the message and all that jazz. If he wanted to become famous, I couldn't really care less. It's his life and that's fine with me. I totally understand that.
It happened because you let it happen. You should have stood up for yourself and said, "I'm not going to be the band's lapdog."I didn't really decide to be the passive fodder, that's just what happened I guess.
Last edited by Dr. Hax; 12-20-2008 at 10:56 AM.
Man i was born alone and i know for sure that im gona stay alone till i die .............but any ways as reply to the topic, Any boy searching for girl should search for a girl with great understanding and patience and kind hearted soul and guys intern should be ready to make any sacrifices they can and love that girl till the end of time
You can bash the punk scene all you want. I really don't care. It doesn't really effect me in the least. Some people like it, some people don't. Whatever.
Also, all I did was humbly ask for some advice. Sorry about you know, the fact that I'm a girl. Apparently you don't like my kind very much, which is understandable. I don't really like them either.
Some people are just bitter in this thread. IMO, if you don't have any good advice to give, you probably shouldn't give it.
Which is why I always try my best to give good advice when it is needed. Not that i'm an advice expert, but I speak from my own experience and opinions, so hope it all works out. =)
Last edited by Miss Moonlight; 12-20-2008 at 11:13 AM.
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It's not your fault that you're a girl. Blame you parent's genes.
I place blame on one incident with my father as the reason for all my hate, anger, and callousness at times. My grandfather didn't have much trust in women so it must have gone over to me through my mother.
So all this stuff I have been saying...you know the reason why I'm like this.
well, not all women are evil succubae of doom. Although most are, you can't let them make you bitter. That's what they want. Women usually love it when they've pissed guy off after they've done something they didn't quite approve of. But, there are some girls out there who don't care much for sucking the souls of poor unsuspecting men.
Actually, I would love nothing more than for him to make lots of money and to be successful. He'd be better off than he is now, and his living situation sucks but I'm not going to rant about that. My point is that I love the guy enough to let him pursue his dreams and no matter what I wish nothing but the best for him, and yadda yadda yadda more cheesy sentimental crap. (I know, totally lame)I still think this could be a big break for the guy. He could make some serious cash on this one. Sometimes sacrifices need to be made for something of yours to go correctly.
Ranting is my job...Don't try to steal my thunder. ;D
Also, it's good that you want him to go far in life. You've learned one of Lord Rant's lessons: Hope a person goes far and try not to obstruct unless absolutely necessary.
Now I just need something to rant about as new material. I haven't made a good rant in ages.
Never had a boyfriend. xD but um...
Caring, attractive, taller than me, matches my intelligence, shows respect not just towards me but other people as well, Not shallow, Has a great sense of humor, respects my creative taste & uh.. loves music just as I do. :P thats my ideal boyfrield ^-^
Dude for the last time try not to be a hard head....trust me after a week of Biology,chemistry,physics,geography and most hated of all Trig trust me all u want to do is sleep....the topic caught my attention but i was too wasted to think anymore!!! mein honestly what do they teach u kids at skool these days...
Peter Griffin, ftw!!!
Indeed that is epic lulz.
Punk rock? English classes? Schooling? Education? Let me be part of some help~=]
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All these reminds me of the most important thing to remember while in a relationship. The important one is the communication between the boyfriend and the girlfriend. If you two speaks in different topics, and have different opinions but using arguements to seek for the answer, the relationship does not work out. So I would like to find one that can communicate well with me. I don't mind if we both have different opinions, but should be solved in a nicer way.
Girlfriends?
Do what ever they say or they moan
Heed my warning
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