WARNING: THERE IS A TON OF SWEARING IN THIS POST. CLICK BACK IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO READ IT.
Around this time last year, my father for the third time in his life had a tumor on his neck near his thyroid. We got kicked out of our house in Pittsburgh (one of the first to lose their house to Bush) and had to seperate. While my father & mother were up here in Massachusetts, my father saw a doctor and that tumor went into remission. Then he got another in his knee, then another right behind his right ear. He's been on chemo therapy almost a year now.
Now fast foward a little bit. The tumor on his neck doesn't really change in size, just shrinks a little. He's been going through chemotherapy since August of last year, the cancer in his neck is now beyond hope. He has a few weeks left and I AM ****ING PISSED OFF BEYOND ALL DAMN BELIEF. I don't give a **** how many I swear damnit. I' ****ing pissed off. Life was FINALLY looking good for my family for once, and this has to happen. My father has a few weeks left to live. Now, it's upto me and my mom to get all our papers togher with dates and so forth so we can talk to a doctor attorny and see if we got anything. He had a power port that got infected back in January or December. He was told that the cancer has gone into remission.
I'm sure there are other malpractice things that happened to my dad. Me and my mom gotta get everything in order. I know they want to feed him through his mouth, but he'll likely get amonia (SP?) which would be bad and give him about 2 weeks to live. But if they put a feedin tube in, it'll give him 4 weeks to live. Not much I know. Right now his SSDI is helping us pay our rent. Hopefully my cold aunt & uncle will see this as a cry for help and actually help their dying baby brother. Otherwise I know exactly how cold my so called "family" is. I already called my sister and she's in tears. The real ***** there is she just got into college. We were so proud of her. I know she can do it. She has to. I on the other hand, probably cannot goto school now. I'll try and find an electrican school or union taking apprentice ships and hope for the best there. Gotta call my older sister and tell her the news.
There are tims I feel God is out to attack us. But I KNOW that's not true. I KNOW no matter how much me and my family **** up, God LOVES us. Jesus LOVES us. No matter how bad we are. I'm always trying to repent for my sins. I just hope my fathers soul can be saved. I hope I can afford the Greek Orthadox burial he DESERVES. This just really sucks. My parents celebrated 25 years of marriage too, and if I'm doing my math right, he'll die around my birthday. Which will forever make my birthday suck badly for me.
I don't know, I need someone to talk to. Someone to chat with. I need to get this off my chest. I just feel TERRIBLE like somehow it's all my fault. I'm not going to hurt myself or pull my name (I REALLY want to change my name BADLY) by killing my mother so my father and mother can be togher forever then take out myself. I'm just feeling down right TERRIBLE. My IM names are...
Aol IM: RealGateGuardian
Yahoo IM: darkmagicianinyourhand
MSN: ****[email protected] or Push Push Lady Lightning
Please, someone say something either here or on IM. I'll answer you. Has anyone else faced this problem or is facing. Mods I'm SUPER sorry for the language, and if you edit this post to remove the language, I'll completely understand. I do appologize again for the language. I normally don't do this on a forum inhabitted by children, but this is the first. Show me some mercy.
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