so, you think that in love it's based on trusting each other, or being almost all the time with the person you love or something else?
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so, you think that in love it's based on trusting each other, or being almost all the time with the person you love or something else?
I won't answer love, cause I am yet to experience it. I will however say in a relationship the most important trait to have with one another is the ability to converse.
You can be as hot or as sweet as you like but unless you can converse about your problems it won't work out.
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good point, glad to hear that
other oppinions?
In loving a person, don't love him/her in outer appearance...
It's important the inner appearance..
"and love seeks for no reason..."
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to me, the important thing in the woman I love, she must be a great cook, and very fertile
Commitment. (This word answers a lot of questions, actually)
The most incompatible couple will outlast the most compatible couple if they commit to it.
That your spouse stays in the kitchen and is kept analphabetic.
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In my opinion...
It should have:
1. Trust
2. Loyalty
3. Understanding
4. Kindness
5. Openness
But what would I know. I was betrayed by it with my significant other!!!!
T-T
"As the blood starts to boil, the flow of crimson splendor will act like a flood" ~R
Aizmov, you always think at food, that's why you want women to cook?
Betrayal is something unforgivable especially if it was done by the person who were loyal for. Who you devoted to and gave your almost everything but ends up deserting you. It's too cruel but then again we live in this pathetic excuse for a world with the trash we call people... What is there to expect. But F@&K! Why can't I bring myself to hate her and everyone else who betrayed me. It' F@*^#n nuts!
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"As the blood starts to boil, the flow of crimson splendor will act like a flood" ~R
hmm... if you think so...
I believe a relationship is based on 4 Things.
1: Trust: If you can not trust someone, there's no relationship with me, break my trust, break my heart, that's the way I work, I don't get emotional or anything over it, but trust is your BIGGEST Factor in a relationship.
2: Space: Everyone, though in a Relationship,needs space to be to themselves sometimes, a Crowding of a relationship will kill you on the inside: For example someone said up there, I believe it was in the question of, should you be with them all the time?: I don't think so, because the more you are with someone, the more I believe you grow to resent them: By which I mean, yourself as a person should come first, if you need time alone, you take it.
3: Feelings: Obviously, if you want a romantic relationship with someone, that "fire" of passion should be there if it's not, the biggest problem you'll have is generally NOT Caring about the person you're with. Which will immediately Ruin a relationship
4: Understanding: Not EVERYONE is going to be perfect, if you're looking for a knight in shining armor, or you're looking for someone who's a damesel in distress, you're setting your goals way too high. The fact is, in relationships: People will make Mistakes, People WILL Screw up, the biggest factor in a relationship is trying not to change the person you're with.
Waking up one day and saying "I think I'll try to convince James not to swear as much" is trying to change them"
"Or I think I'll get Julie to wear what I want her to wear today" - is Trying to change them - A Relationship is taking a person for whom they are, not molding them to be someone you want them to be.
Holy crap: I never knew i was so opinionated on Relationships.
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To me, it's a combo of what you said above, without being too posessive.
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To be open with one another. I learnt that from my ex. She was so closed off and we ended up fighting over the same stuff for months because of it.
Well I think In love you have to actually feel like you're being loved...
Some people can have the coldest exteriors and yet people still feel like they're loved, But there are some people that are open to you in every way and say "I love you" all the time, and you STILL feel like you're not loved...
Call it a feeling...(a weird one at that)
Yep another never experienced love yet person but I don't believe in it anyway.My fav words "Love is just another crack-pot word"
Theres no such thing and even if there is,Love is really just eternal hatred.
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I have a quote for you: "'I Love You' is eight wonderful letters. Then again, so is bullcrap" >.>
Anywho, I can't say I've had very much experience but the most important things in love/ a relationship is:
~Trust (If you don't trust the person you're with, you'll just keep pushing each other away)
~Ability to share ideas freely
~Commitment
~Silimar views/opinions
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I find it's best to be able to put yourself in your lovers shoes and to treat them just as you'd want to be treated.
Other than that, all relationships are different, but those two basic ideas can go for miles for any and everyone.
I think its trust, although I'm still young i can't say much but trust is the first thing for me.You will find time to be together but trust is something you don't get easy!
The most important thing in love? Well obviously the love. Whether it's love in conversation, love in friendship, love in looks, love in making love, love in the other person, love in getting along etc etc.
As for the most important thing in a -loving- relationship, is conversation. The person you love can be as hot as hell but if he can't even spell "superfluous" what's the point? When you're old and gray, he will be too and you'll be stuck with a crabby egotistical airhead.
eeeehhhhh? love... what is that?...
and trust... honestly i think its more of an excuse to some to stop working on improving themselves like... oh i trust him or her that no matter what i become he or she wont cheat on me.. so ok... i wont work at all let him or her feed me... or ill be as fat as i want to be and he or she wont look at or for another one who is sexually more attractive than me... or oh i can treat him or her like crap and geez.... behind the complexities.. there really is no such thing as trust... its just logic applied to a balance of worth and effect...
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