How Do You Deal With A Broken Heart

[Aki no iko]

You can't [do] anything to get over a broken heart. It simply takes time...and laughter!

[King_Shadow89]

Just when I was just getting over her, she calles me a day latter and begged me back. I wanted to say yes so bad but I lied to her and said I can not talk and hung up in her face.

[Sagat]

So you wimped out and didn't have the guts to tell her no, she screwed up and now she has to pay for it? Gotcha.

Even if you wanted to make her suffer a bit by making her beg, you can never trust her again. If she did it once, she is capable of doing it again, and you can sit there and feel all the little feelings you want but that is going to be in the back of your mind always if you're dumb enough to take her back.

[King_Shadow89]

Your right, I didn't want to tell her no, thats why I hung up. And to the whole trust thing, she has desroyed all my love and trust for all these girls. She asked that if I still loved her and again I said even if I got back with yo I would never trust you, be on you, or even love you, thats how bad you destroyed me! Then I hung up. I said this all in a nice way.

[Masali]

pretty lame and corny. "HOW MUCH YOU DESTROYED ME! Q_Q"

Yeah, bro, you're not destroyed. You'll get over it. You're what? 18? Probably not but ok, I'll believe you. You have you're entire life ahead of you. College even, you'll find someone there. You're like one of those clingy girls...just a guy. I dunno, lemme alone.

[setsunameyou]

I think that if just crying a week u forget everything, it was not really love...
I suffer of an impossible love, it's been more than a year!
I think I don't cry anymore because my tears are over XD

In the end I become the ice queen...

[King_Shadow89]

LOL well I am 18. But yea pretty corny. I know that I am not desroyed besides I have my whole life to find someone who will apreciate me for who I am. I just said that because it sound cool at that moment. You know to make things more dramatic lol.

[Masali]

Yeah, I gotcha. Good tactic.

[setsunameyou]

indeed.
When its about love I'm veeeeeeeeery dramatic! ^_^

I think I have a serious problem when it's about give up... +_+

[King_Shadow89]

indeed.
When its about love I'm veeeeeeeeery dramatic! ^_^

I think I have a serious problem when it's about give up... +_+

Hang in there don't give up too soon it took my mom many years to find the perfect guy.
I would give you a good reputation but it wont let me give it to you.

[Shintory]

I don't think you can heal a broken heart. You can say to your self "sure I will get over it" or I will be ok without my love or family or whatever your reason is, life will go on." Sure it will but that wound in your heart will never go away no matter how much you try to fool yourself into thinking it will. So how do you get over it?Like I said you can't. You just got to move on and learn from it so you know what to expect in the future and know who to find if u are seeking love again. As for deaths just keep their memory alive and think of them from time to time, and know that they are watching you and happy that u care for them even after they die. well at least thats what I think.

[TheAsterisk!]

If your heart is truly broken, and not simply on the fritz, then you are doomed. If you survive (as I'm fairly certain you will), it merely shows that your heart was no broken but merely bruised. If it's a bit more than that, it'll heal but you may sport a scar for it.
Bruises eventually go away, but you're asked all types of questions when they're so visible. For the same reason you should try to avoid wearing a scar.
By being this melodramatic and by reaching to the internet for emotional help you have made it worse for yourself. Your current actions could:
1) land you a spot on Dr. Phil's show
2) subject you to ridicule (as seen here)
3) solve nothing
4) make you look like a small quadripedal beast of burden
5) only give you superficial responses
- If you have friends in the physical world, speak to them, not wise guys on an anime forum. You'll likely recieve more help.
- You will grow past this fairly quickly. It may not seem like it, but it will be so (if things proceed per the norm).
- While you should not necessarily avoid frivolous contact with others (works for me but not for most), and you should not think that everyone is an evil, kniving manifestation of hell, you should be prepared to deal with failure in such endeavors.
Like any trade or study, the ability to deal with failure or percieved failure is essential in one's social and love life.

(Sorry I sounded so cold there.)

You'll be fine in time.

[King_Shadow89]

I don't think you can heal a broken heart. You can say to your self "sure I will get over it" or I will be ok without my love or family or whatever your reason is, life will go on." Sure it will but that wound in your heart will never go away no matter how much you try to fool yourself into thinking it will. So how do you get over it?Like I said you can't. You just got to move on and learn from it so you know what to expect in the future and know who to find if u are seeking love again. As for deaths just keep their memory alive and think of them from time to time, and know that they are watching you and happy that u care for them even after they die. well at least thats what I think.

Man you are so right many people including myself always try to convince theirselves that everything is okay and their over it.

Note: How come you have such a bad rep with your smart responces like in this thread?
Note: I don't have any phisical friends because they always get killed by gang fights, they're big mouth or they commite suicide. So thats the reason I run to the internet. No I am not messing wiht you. My last friend got killed yesterday because a gay guy came out of nowhere and took her then slit her throght because she wouldn't do what he said.

[xxnytr0xx]

School Days! School Days! School Days!

jk!!! on the other hand hehe based on alotta the responses seems like things are taking a turn for the better? @.@

"Fight-o!!!"

[King_Shadow89]

Yea! I feel much better now that I have whats her face out of my mind I am so wild now. All it took was a death of a friend and a broken heart now I was finnaly able to shut my feelings off where nothing can penitraite my heart.

[Baka]

Emo thread huh? lol

Alcohol works wonders.

[King_Shadow89]

Sorry never drunk befor or done drugs I am very clean in everyway...hopefuly.

[xxnytr0xx]

Emo thread huh? lol



Alcohol works wonders.

rofl!!! well dude...u kno waht they say about that...

"Your Troubles Are Always At the End of the Bottle...."

and i take that to heart.... Its never helped to cope with something serious using a momentary anti-depressant... Cigarettes, Alcohol, ..........(errrr for the sanctity of this forum) its only made me feel worse after the effects gone.... so Ive always faced my troubles with the help of a friend or by trying to move on.... it all passes with time ^^

[King_Shadow89]

Anyways back to the main subject. This thread is not about me just to clear things up. But either way is fine if thats okay with the andmins.
But my question was how would you all deal with a broken heart or something bvased on those lines.

[Baka]

I was joking about the alcohol thing(sorta). But seriously, it just takes time to get over it.

[xxnytr0xx]

aye i second that...time.....

[King_Shadow89]

on whith the show.

[Nephthys]

how to deal with a broken heart? eaisy become a sociopath. that way you don't have emotions. and nobody will ever be able to hurt you again because you care for no one.

[niKopol]

Two shots of Vodka one shot Tequila... I got out of the dating scene back in 2004 and during late 2005 I got dragged back in. Thinking, I really like this girl, she's my other half. Blah blah blah. Brody remembers cause I went off the deep end and maybe even Internationl 4-8818 remembers. But I am fine only a few psycholigical scars. Hehe, I am not crazy*pulls on hair*. It hurts like hell, it will always be in the back of your mind but its a part of growing up. My best advice I can give you, be sure its love and not lust. Don't want to build a relationship if one member is only after one thing.

[King_Shadow89]

This is how I delt with my broken heart. I Made my heart cold again and then I called Heather and told her I want her back. An hour later I called her back then smashed, crashed,mashed that girls emostions all over the floor.
She cried out to me," baby don't do this to me I am sorry for what I done just give me another chance."
I responded like I said its over you had your chance.
" No baby I know know that I love you! Please don't do this to me," she cried.
Now you know what I feel! Don't call me ever again, I respond. CLICK.