How Are People You Know At Planning?

[Aleyna]

ok i am very pist off at the moment
i get very bad anxiety whenever i plan to hang out with someone

and i have a friend who for a few, no MORE then a few times, has said they would call me to hang out
cause at a place such as school we would make plans to go do something and then call eachother to see when we can go and stuff

and you know what? today is freaking homecoming!!! and i made plans with her to go do things
and she told me she would call me at 4:30
its been 3 hours now and the homecoming game has already started
i am sitting at home doing nothing
we were suppose to go to the homecoming game
and she never freaking called me
and i have been calling her the past few hours

at this moment i feel like i can't depend on her for anything rite now
i wish i could strangle something rite now
what pisses me off even more is that i told them today that they better call me and i told them i get very bad anxiety when it comes to making plans
i freaking told them!

and now i can't even go to the freaking homecoming game now!
cause if i go ill feel very hostile from being enraged about my friend that ill end up being rude to others about it

all this person had to do was freaking call me!
and im missing out on homecoming that only happens once a year

[sa5m]

Wow, the same thing happens to me. It really annoys the heck out of me too. >_> People think that I shouldn't be too sensitive about it, but it really makes me mad.

[angelic_assasin]

uhhhh i hate it when something like that happenes >_< it ticks me off soooo bad. its okay though i guess...i get over it really quick xDD

[Buruku]

I think it has to do with your age group, not that people are much better a few years down the road. (where I'm at) In high school everything was always at the last minute and unorganized. Often times you'd be invited to do something, then once you're with your friends you never get to do what you thought you'd be doing because of poor planning. Also, you have to learn that you can't depend on people, because most just aren't dependable.


Anyway, yeah its annoying.

[Gizoku]

Yeah, that pisses me off too.
Not as much as it used to, but it still does.
It happens often.

[-Kitsune-]

This happened to me just yesterday o.o
I was going to ride the bus home with one of my friends because my grandma needed to borrow our car for a few hours or something >.> And then my friends mom was supposed to drive me home from her house. Well I got over to her house and she had never even asked her mom if she could drive me home >.< Turns out, her moms car was busted so she couldnt -.-' So I had to call my mom and have my grandma come pick me up and drop me off at home... I got in a huge amount of trouble for my friends irresponsibility
So yeah, it gets me pretty ticked off when my friends dont plan ahead or anything >.<

[KuroTan]

Personally it hasn't happened to me yet. Usually when we say we'll meet somewhere we'll just go straight to the meeting place and see who comes. If no one comes then there are other stuff to do. There's timezone, the movies, the food court (because I like eating.lol) and I think I just went off topic there. Sorry 'bout that. I think if it was a pretty big event I'd be slightly mad because they're making me wait for nothing. Maybe.^^'

I symphatize with your position though, don't get me wrong. Some people can just be too irresponsible.

[CrimsonMoon]

Yep, it annoys me too. I can't understand someone who promises then breaks it. It's just irresponsible.