What type of lover do you prefer

[keezy.]

someone i can trust.... someone who'll keep me safe, someone who'll listen to me...

[Wio]

you want a girl don't you

They used 'he' though ?_?, unless they don't speak english well all the time.

[Alicaryn Silentread]

Ok. I have to agree with Sagat on this one. Come on people. You can't sit there and honestly say that appearance doesn't mean a tiny bit to any of you?

The first thing I look for in a lover or a boyfriend, is their hair. Then I go for the personality part of it. :3 Their personality has to fit well enough to mine that its like a second skin. Not necessarily exactly alike, because that would suck if all we did was agree on things, but I look for someone that contrasts me in ways, but feels the same in others.

Third is of course, loyalty and patience. Since I'm not a very patient person, I tend to need that to balance me out. And loyalty? I have to have that 100% because I've been hurt so much in the past, which is the same old broken record spinning I know. ^_^

[Pleiades]

Definitely personality.

[Sobriquet]

Someone who presents kindness and maturity.
Also, someone who I can communicate easily with. Physical appearance is important as well.

Others...
- Cool styles
- Outgoing

[bankai]

the type that knows when to talk and when to shut up...the type that gives me everything and demands everything...the type that can slap me if i make stupid things...the type that crawls up my mind and never leaves it

[~Mithrosent~]

I wan't someone who can deal with my attitude. I wan't someone who loves a girl for her personality. Not just what's up her skirt. I wan't someone who can kiss well. (I luff kisses :3)Scratch that. They can learn(Lol). I wan't someone who won't go so fast I don't rememeber it. Or Go so slow we never even move an inch. I wan't someone who is sarcastic. They need to be able to handle how sarcastic I am as well. They need to be able to deal with who I am not fret over everything. I wan't someone who can look me in the eyes and say things. Not a lier. It always ends up bad with me. Lying stinks butt. o.o; I wan't someone who is sensitive but not too sensitive. I wan't someone who can tune into my needs..and my wants. I can handle myself. Don't think I am helpless. I don't take stupid chances. I take reasonable chances. One's that won't have me waking up regreting. I think things out. Don't push me. I am me. Deal with it......


I think that's enough to chew over for now =)
~Gen~

[AngelQueen17]

For me...I never really had a lover, but all I can do is mention my kind of lover. Hmm....how about cute looking eyes, voice, and mind. How about creativity?

I don't think I am ever going to get a lover until College or High School, but I guess that is the kind of lover I will be looking for when I get older.

[Saiyan Destroyer]

Wait I'm confused, is this about the lover in question or the lover in bed? I'm completely lost. I'll keep the answer to second to myself, but for the first I noticed a lot of the peopel I've chosen to get close to me can namely STAND BEING AROUND ME for over five minutes. They tend to be the social outcasts like Goths (Though I freaking HATE goths), anime nerds, losers, etc. I'm not saying I'm not one of those. That's up to you. I play my field. I prefer lovers that have good personality and eyes don't hurt them either. I can NOT stand drug users and drinkers. Drinking as DESTROYED my family.

[LitleMoonDemon]

Well sey what ever you like,but I'm into Bad boys! Hot,sexy,bad boys!!! Then agene a normal guy is OK to,... What to sey? He has to be crazy as me,fun,determent,...Like Draco Malfoy from Harry Potter,eksept from that "yes fater,no fater" and chiken aut part! He has to heve his own mind AND to be a grait kisser!

[Demon-grl]

i prefer personality...thats how i can get to know them better.....or somethin like that

[Petrol Gas]

My lover would have to understand me, and what I mean (to some extent at least). They wouldn't expect alot from me, but they would still appreciate the things that I did do. Even when somebody else could easily outdo me. They would have to tolerate me when I'm stressed out and help me to relax when I freak out. They would have to appreciate my stupid sarcasm. They would need to be able to pick holes in other people's english. I guess that means they would also have to be smart, but they couldn't rub it in whenever they felt like it. They would have to be a little bit innocent, definitely a tease, and they wouldn't have to be pretty just not ugly.

[BEHIND THE MASK]

I am an odd person...

I would want my lover to be someone who I could love and hate, (vice versa for them)

I want a fun relationship, with someone who challenges me... not one where you just come home and tell you love, but someone you can torture, and them do the same.

I want love to be like a game. We both love eachother, but we wanan have fun... Its like friends who screw with eachother as jokes.

I want it to fun.

[The Dom]

What do you look for in a lover? Is it Looks,presonality or is it loyalty prehaps?

all of the above

[Anime_Freak7416]

all 3..

but looks not so much as the others..

personality and loyalty r the ones that matter most 2 me..

personality-
see i want my lover and i to have some similarites and some differences..i would want everything to go all willy nilly and not have atleast one argument..

loyalty-
i want my lover to be honest with me as i would with him..and i wouldnt want him to cheat on me either..

other-
also hes got to be funny..and have patience as well..he''ll have to be able to deal with somewat of an attitude...he'll have to be able to help me when im stressed..but also i would want him to listen to me..as in pay attention to me at times..i mean not base his life on me but atleast spend some time with me..

[Karel]

Personality isn't always everything..

I'd like a sweet face I can come home to after a brutal day at work.. and not Godzilla to scare the hell out of me.

a good combination of both.. but I always like a girl who can treat others nice other than myself.

Doesn't drink human blood.. scratch that.. any type of blood period

has an obsession with razors.. or knives

has a murder record.. mostly all consisting of past boyfriends

and is an alien

[Zhafhiey]

Someone who's...

Sensible
Mature
Has a good personality
Someone I can relate to
HAIR >:o
LOOKS. D:
Funny, humorous

Yea, you get the point. But I HATE OVERLY LOYAL GUYS. Once they start talking about marriage and how they imagine us staying together forever, I'll get freaked out and start HATING them. Unless I've been with that person for a long time... ^_^

And, I hate guys who don't love you, but is actually obssessed with you. Like, obsessed with me like how I'm obsessed with Gerard Way of MCR.

And they act as though they care for you, but they stick to you on the phone for hours to no end even though you already told them that you are extrememly busy. All they say is "Oh" and then start whining on how they miss you so badly.

EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWW.

[ben01]

I want friendly and romantic lover

[Erikai]

Hm, well lets run by all three shall we?

Looks: I don’t want an ugly person, but come on, I don’t want other people on my door step trying to get at my lover.
Personality: You can always be fooled by a personality, I always never get to choose a good one but in resent times I have, just as long as they’re not cocky about anything.
Loyalty: I’m going to vote yes all the was through on this, because when it comes down to it, I only want someone to be there. No one is perfect but when it comes down to loyalty you pretty much got the game if your lover is loyal.

But I HATE OVERLY LOYAL GUYS.

If you ever get one, I think you should hold on to him and just tell him sweetly, that he's in your space a little. Guys like that are VERY hard to find where I come from.

My last girlfriend wasn’t all that pretty but she had a heck of a personality and was very loyal. It’s all I could ever ask of a person.

[Buruku]

I like my men like I like my coffee..

Black and thick.

[Sasaria_Genei_Ryodan]

Well i do not really care bout his body shape face all i really care is that he has a heart ,
like wen am lonely hel come and make me feell happy
wen am cryin or sad hel make me laugh
wen am having a hard tim hel com and be by my side
and hel be a loving and caring person ^^

[mttsweeten]

lowaltey honesty conpassion personalety

[Anpan Hayase]

Heh, heh... My kind.

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looks and personality

[Eris]

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Heh, heh... My kind.

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