Guys are oblivious. I believe males need to see things outside the box and try to understand why girls are acting the way they are. I'm sure there are reasons behind that. ;]
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Guys are oblivious. I believe males need to see things outside the box and try to understand why girls are acting the way they are. I'm sure there are reasons behind that. ;]
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Yes. For the most part, it's agreeable. But a guy can be sensitive too.
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That is a very much generalised and stereotypical viewpoint of guys. I think that the guys you hang around are immature and shallow, but you cant use them as a just representative of the male populace. . . . GRRRR
Anyway, I am the most emotional out of all of my friends.
Mostly everything people post are based on opinions and stereotypes. What can I say: that's life. =\
Why should a guy be "oblivious" for not "fulfill[ing a] females' wants and necessities." Maybe they perfectly well know a females wants and necessities, and don't care. Or maybe women like interjecting drama into simple things. Get this- Guys: We’re pretty simple. If men don’t live up to your expectations of ego-petting, switch teams or lower your expectations.
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Well yes if you don't have an opinion, there isn't much to post. But if you think guys are so bad. . . . . then don't hang around them.
Hm, who said guys are bad? ... I'm just stating my P.O.V. Take it or leave it. =)
(in general) women like to drop hints about whatever is on their mind, but guys need a strait foward answer. Or so I read in a psychology book. Personally, male or female, I find it easier when people are just right to the point then there's less chance of miscommunication.
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Personally, I'm honest about this and I will claim to be the oblivious guy. But actually I take great pride in my oblivity. because if i cared about the emotions of girls around me I might be in a romantic relationship right now and I neither need nor want that. As it stands I can't decipher hints that girls drop and just assume they don't like me and find that the price i pay by being a bit lonely is well worth the amount of extra work i get done. So I'm gonna happily go along not knowing what girls think about me and happily remaining the aloof and distant boy that i am quite content with my books and classes.
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I even have an example from real life now that I think about it... just about a month ago a girl asked me to prom and off hand and with a laugh I said "No way!"
It took me a week to realize she was being serious... i though she was joking!
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First, this is a really stereotypical question. But I'm daring to say that there are more over-sensitive girls than oblivious guys. Plus, some girls put to much importance in little and nonsensical things that is good that once in a while guys get to get thru their heads something like: "No, your chihuahua's birthday is not a memorable date for me."
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To me, girls are painfully obvious with what they want, their stupid tactics, tricks and facades are annoying and have never fooled me, (maybe because I am too, female) and I hate how their actions are almost opposite of what they're really feeling/thinking.
I think in general when men have problems they get it all out and then forget about it, while women will brood, get dramatic and not tell anyone whats the problem but try to make everyone play their guessing game. So, I really don't blame guys for being "oblivious".
ANd I know, because I've pulled the same crap with my bf- getting all butt-hurt about something and then acting like nothings wrong only to get mad when he doesn't figure it out. (lol I suck) but I always realize that I'm being a stupid girl so I knock it off and realize he cant read my mind.
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I think it's a mix of both, it depends on the situation really.
I find oblivious guys rather entertaining though, you go out to the pub and drop hints and everytime he doesn't get it you take a shot
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Your sex and gender do not decide who you are! There are plenty of sensitive guys and plenty of girls, I know more then I'd like, who have the emotional complexity of a jelly fish.
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well.. one could not really understand the other gender cause you dont know the feeling of being one..
my answer.. it depends..
guys are... guys! they are just like that... but if you look deep, in every guy you can see emotions. and... most of them weakness is girls... if there's cool guy that looks unbreakable and loves girl, do something to her and he will show his emotions
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okay... oblivity does not equal emotional simplicity... infact in somecases its the obvious. Somepeople, who I shall not referance, over-think things so much or are so stuck in their own heads and their own problems (like me) that they can't see whats going on around them and use the simplest method of interpretation (ie oblivity).
Also, yes there are sensitive guys but gender does have an effect on who you are... but who you are is who you are after the gender is decided. Basically its a manipulation of a certain path of logic which is summed up as this. "It is only because I am here to have this perspective that I see things this way" in essence gender affects you before you become who you are... so your perspective is that it doesn't since its before you are concious and since your perspective is completely dependent on who you are. This is also very Kantian and similar to the rotation of earth... it doesn't seem to be moving because we are moving with it.
Also, there is lots of scientific and antropological evidence that there are differences however these are ingeneral MINOR and have no major effect except in small trivial instances like this one
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both. girls get angry/upset/cry over the dumbest things
and guys just don't care.
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It's equal miscommunication on both parts. Naturally, each gender is raised differently, taking and looking at different key roles. Our mind sets act as a "language barrier", per say. Though it's not impossible to communicate clearly. Just occasionally harder.
The bolded- I agree with. Gender does not decide who you are, so more as act as a guide. There are plenty of people who don't "fit" into the stereotype or common thought of their gender. Myself, for example, I'm a girl. I don't do frills, heels and fluffy things. Those things are nice, but I'd rather play football.Originally Posted by Breaeden "Luzy" Swordwind
Your enviroment has a lot to do with how you grow up. I had three older brothers, I spent 95% of my time with them because they raised me. So, naturally, I grew to like more "boyish" things than "girly" things. Does this create a problem for me when I associate with other girls? Absolutely. I have a lot of trouble talking with girls because most, not all, like the fluff, frill and heels. I get along much better with boys, or tomboys, than girls.
The majority of this is, again, not what your gender is, but your enviroment. If you are a girl, raised in a primarily male household or raised primarily by males, then you're chances of being more masculine than feminine increase. And vice versa.
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