Guys and Girls Feelings?

[Marie2007]

I am taking another risk here but oh well
I have always wondered about this.
Ok y'all i never said i was right about this it is just something i have wondered about due to my experience so please dont gang up on me here.

Why is that a guy cares when a girl hurts their feelings but when a guy hurts a girl's feelings that dont care?

[bms]

Now thats not always true. If I hurt anyones feeling I try to make it up to them.

[TodayIsMine]

marie...i dont think ur rite about that. when i hurt someon's feelings i end up feeling just as bad as they do. and girls seem to be the ones that are mean about hurting ppl's feeling...or at least the ones i know.

[Secret Asian Man]

Making a blanket statement that "all guys" care only for themselves and dismiss the feelings of others, especially girls, is not fair. There are plenty of good men out there who are considerate of other's feelings and do what they can to make up for what they did wrong. A few rotten apples should not spoil the whole bunch

[TodayIsMine]

well said asian man! lol. that right, guys arent all bad...im sure all my friends and family would tell you im a good guy.

[Myrcice Maeghym]

That's not always true, girls can be much more harsh and cruel than guys, sometimes.
Yes...girls are mean. o.o And I say this even though I am a girl as well.

[bms]

I couldn't say it better myself good job Secret Asian Man.

[TodayIsMine]

kuromaru, dont be so hard on your kind lol. we're all harsh people at time.

[Marie2007]

stop ganging up on me here please like i said i started this up because of my experience with it

[Myrcice Maeghym]

I'm not saying all girls are like that...Just many of the ones I know. c.c; lol
But yes, some guys are very inconsiderate of other's feelings, but there's less of them than there is of the ones that DO care, Marie.

[[BlackDeath]]

That's kinda stereo typing males, not all of us are like that.

So in your experience you have only met shallow guys then...

[~Raye Hino~]

Umm..that's not always true. If a guy is like that he's not worth your time. Everyone hurts someone's feelings, it's just good manners to own up and aplogise. It's not always easy, but it's the right thing to do. ^__^ I know a lot of wonderful supportive guys and without them I don't know what I'd do. And when any of us makes a mistake we always apologise for it. ^_^ Maybe I'm just lucky, but I think they're more the rule than the exception

[pyrothunder336]

That is not always true. Some guys, like me, hate it when anyone gets their feelings hurt unless its one of their enemies and their are some guys that just laugh at the sight of a girl getting their feelings hurt. I think those guys had some stuff earlier in their lives that causes them to be so pathetic that they have to get their joy out of other people's misery.

[TodayIsMine]

marie, im sorry if it sounded like i was ganging up on u with the others...i was just stating the fact that...everyone has some crap in them and everyone will let it out sooner or later...u'll notice that not only guys are mean...i know a girl who is quite mean. and im not saying that only girls are mean, im saying that everyone can be mean.

[DarkPrinceBman]

....I dont really like any thread of this tyoe....more gender related....I dont really care if you are a male or female...people will have their personality...and it doesnt have to be about there gender....A female can be as kind or as cruel as a male can be...i should know i have relationships with both....

[Lysander Cyric Korvein]

That's not always true, girls can be much more harsh and cruel than guys, sometimes.
Yes...girls are mean. o.o And I say this even though I am a girl as well.

i agree with Kuro here. and that includes, no racial offense meant, black girls. they are so freakin tempermental! yeah, some of them aren't but most of them are! now getting back to the subject, guys can be cruel and vicious plus souless. ask my friends what kind of guy i can be and they will tell you cruel and ruthless. guys have the same exact feelings as girls but we sometimes treat them like dirt. girls in turn do the same thing back to us and there goes the lawsuits of spouse abuse. everything we try to do ends up backfiring on us. let us try to understand each other in ways never heard of

[Marie2007]

thanks and so very true General

[Alien Sinn]

Hey, that's not true!

I might be blunt most of the time and tend to keep everything inside I still care about certain people in my life. Just because people think i'm all quiet and rarely mention anything about my... dare I say it.... feelings, that I don't give a rat's arse about anyone besides myself. Wich couldn't be further from the truth. So you should not go saying things like that without informing specifics. Not just throwing it around in total generallity.

[Darth Tyranus]

This thread is just a whole lot of usless generalizations, you can't judge a race or gender based on a few bad experiences.

[lordraziel]

it all depends usually (this is my thinking here) on how your raised and taught to be some people rebel and do what there taught not supposed to do sometimes it depends on gender sometimes not but i can see how marie2007 think most guys are like that cause over here there are guys that are the same way who dont care about ladies feeling when they get hurt or when they hurt them but this is just me viewin what happens over here where i live

[Shironosuke Takeda]

well to me, male and female doesn't kinda make a diffence for me(note : not gay) just saying that, i know there are alot of spoil male, and alot of spoil female >.> so they are no diffence then just a human, and beside, there are alot of good male and female in the world(still >.>)

but this is my view, so lets not argue

[ranma_my_luv]

wait what? guys having feeling? o.o omg! jk guys, i dont know, but i sorta agree w/marie, not all of the time, it depends on the guy ^^

[Shironosuke Takeda]

wait what? guys having feeling? o.o omg! jk guys, i dont know, but i sorta agree w/marie, not all of the time, it depends on the guy ^^

erm well duh and you donno male have feeling? they are "human" same race as female think there is any diffence? to me no, cept the looks lol

[hameht]

Some *people* are apthetic and some are compassionate.

[ranma_my_luv]

erm well duh and you donno male have feeling? they are "human" same race as female think there is any diffence? to me no, cept the looks lol

ok man it was a joke, but seriously, i have never seen a guy express his feelings in anyway ever, in my life