Broken Heart?

[Digimon_Sommelier]

Q: When was the last time someone broke your heart? Or are you the one who did the heartbreaking?

[Kagakoko]

Im the one who tends to be dump/rejected, feels like trash and just recently told a certain guy i fallen for him but he prefer to be just friends

[Tycke]

I've broken 3 hearts (that i know of) and had my heart broken 3 times as well.

[Digimon_Sommelier]

Shattered when my ex cheated on me over a decade ago.

We're talkiin' big time Bullwinkle, for lack of a better term.

[Immoral]

I was cheated on once. After which I just started doing one night stands. Currently I have become quite a hermit.

[Tycke]

Are we specifically talking cheating here? I've never cheated or been cheated on but I did turn down guys who showed interest in me (one even moved to a new school) and was also turned down after crushing pretty hard.

[Blackmagezero]

Never had a relationship so no broken hearts for me.

[Immoral]

Are we specifically talking cheating here?

I don't think so.

I've turned a few girls down. I don't ask girls out. I let them ask me, so I have never been turned down... Unless you count trying to get laid at the bar. I've seen my share of slaps and other turn downs there.

[DOOM!]

Had my fare share, broken a few.
Last time was yesterday, when i had a political argument with a friend and got the silent treatment.

[Lost247365]

Never had a relationship so no broken hearts for me.

This.

[Wio]

I've been dumped and I've ended a relationship as well. I don't know if those situations counts as broken hearts, though. When I got dumped, I didn't feel like my heart was broken so much as I felt betrayed. I think both of us had failed to put effort into the relationship, though I was being mostly blamed for it. I was too cowardly to tell her the problems I was having with the relationship, and her complaints came off more like an attack on me and who I am rather than criticisms for me to consider and work on. If my heart was broken, it was probably during the relationship when she was saying a lot of nasty things about me. So by the time it had ended, I felt a bit relieved and somewhat betrayed.

In the case when I ended the relationship with the other person, I was doing that preemptively because it felt like things would not work out in the future. She was a bit slow mentally, and my mom thought it wasn't going to work out. Even though she was a good person, but I figured she wasn't being open with me, because she hadn't really complained about me to my face. Maybe I was just being paranoid.

[Harorudo]

My heart is broken still however it's trying to mend itself but at a slow rate right now. I got let down and severely hurt by so many people over the years who said they where my friend and one ... relationship experience I wish never happened that did a lot of damage to me. I can admit I'm not close to people anymore by having no friends or even a relationship. I'm not sad about it anymore though being human I'll have times still I'll feel lonely. That's just part of human nature the wanting of human contact, or at least I think. I'm alright with never experiencing what true friendship is and what is it like to be in love and someone love you again.

I've been through a lot of things no one should ever go through however I've changed and I'm a extremely stronger women than I once was because of what I've been through. Sometimes some people just have it harder than others and prehaps not lucky. I'm doing my best to reach out to socialize more to get used to people again. As well hold onto the thought there's still good people out there somewhere but just harder to find sadly. So for now what ever happens happens if I have any relations with people in any manner.

[Digimon_Sommelier]

EDIT: I had to do something so difficult, but it has turned out okay.

~My heart is full of joy~

[Howling Star]

Sucks, I had my heart broken as well. Out of not knowing what to do with all my free time I decided to log on here, looked trough old private messages but everyones gone... Haha I had all these contacts here in 2010, I wonder what everyone is doing now. Sadly they will never login to this site again I think.

Life is strange.

[Digimon_Sommelier]

Sucks, I had my heart broken as well. Out of not knowing what to do with all my free time I decided to log on here, looked trough old private messages but everyones gone... Haha I had all these contacts here in 2010, I wonder what everyone is doing now. Sadly they will never login to this site again I think.

Life is strange.

You're a user from '06, I see. Welcome back to AF!!

[Nekogami]

Once, high school sweetheart my donkey.

[Digimon_Sommelier]

Your high school sweetheart was a donkey?? Ew!!

[Clayton_n]

Hey, leave Tijuana prep and the donkey shows alone. Hmph. Judgmental. You'd be surprised how many women you know personally have done it with a dog.

Anyway...

My cat died last thursday after 15 years...

[Digimon_Sommelier]

My cat died last thursday after 15 years...

I'm so sorry. R.I.P. to your cat.

[Nekogami]

Your high school sweetheart was a donkey?? Ew!!

Well I meant to say something else entirely.

I'm happier now though.

[Digimon_Sommelier]

Well I meant to say something else entirely.

I'm happier now though.

Oh-ki-dokes!

[aishiteru333]

Currently heartbroken.
I'm in a relationship, but the trust is gone. It just doesn't feel the same and I wish it did.

[Howling Star]

You're a user from '06, I see. Welcome back to AF!!

Thanks but I'm afraid your topic cursed me... Got my heart broken for real like 4 days after that post....

---------- Post added at 09:43 PM ---------- Previous post was at 09:43 PM ----------

Currently heartbroken.
I'm in a relationship, but the trust is gone. It just doesn't feel the same and I wish it did.

That's a though one... I don't think it will go back.
My ex gf wanted to remain friends but we are like business partners when texting. Damn it all.

[Digimon_Sommelier]

@Howling Star : Aww. Feel better.

[CapnJack]

10 years ago; right around this time actually.



Long story short: went to strong measures to help protect someone, and was greeted with a cussed-out phone call without a word spoken by me before being hung up on.


Heart break can make you cold and void of feeling anything rather quickly. Although, it makes it easier to delete and throw away things. Its just a matter of time filling that void with anything other than stuff related to what you went through. I wouldn't say I'm "over it" as one would say; more like it's just another page in a slightly dusty book deep in the back of the library that's opened once in a while as reference and reminisce.