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    Question I need some advice from the boys!

    I know this is random, but can I ask the guys for some advice? I have this guy I've known and liked for 4 years now. A few years ago He was engaged and his fiance left him for someone else. Well I had thought about giving him some space and then asking him if he wanted to see where he and I could go out and see where things went, but he met someone else. He and i are both single and we've done a little talking. I'm thinking about telling him about before, maybe he and I could think about turning this into something. I know I risk losing him as a friend or possibly pushing him away, I also know if I try to wait for that 'perfect moment' I could walk right back into where I was and he meet someone new before I can say anything. Should I take that risk or keep waiting it out?
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    Default Re: I need some advice from the boys!

    I don't like the feeling of watching other people telling the person that I like how they feel.



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    Default Re: I need some advice from the boys!

    Quote Originally Posted by HydraPunchMan View Post
    I don't like the feeling of watching other people telling the person that I like how they feel.



    please explain?

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    Default Re: I need some advice from the boys!

    From my perspective, whether that be female or male, just tell him how you feel.

    If you're both single, why not?

    Waiting around for a 'perfect moment' will only hurt you in the end. Say it loud and proud!

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    Default Re: I need some advice from the boys!

    Someone else will get to him be fore you. Like hydrapunchman, the feeling that someone will get to them before you is bad, so unless you take the leap, you'll experience that feeling.. again. I think it's time to go for it. You've waited long enough.
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    Default Re: I need some advice from the boys!

    I'm not a guy but if you're ever really serious about anything.. One sided waiting typically does no good. If you ask and you agree to both wait a little longer then that's fine but I mean if you wait and wait and wait and he doesn't know and then finds someone else simply because he didn't even know that you could've really been a serious option then yeah. It'll suck big time.

    I'd just casually bring it up instead of just waiting for that one perfect moment. Cause frankly they don't exist



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    Default Re: I need some advice from the boys!

    Honestly, there will never be 'that perfect moment'. It only happens when you decide, and quite frankly, if you're worried about ruining a freindship then by not saying anything isn't really doing yourself any favors because most of the time the other person can usually tell anyways, and then its just akward.
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    Default Re: I need some advice from the boys!

    I think @Holocast is right, I confessed to Fei-chi straightforwardly, not even thinking about anything
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    Default Re: I need some advice from the boys!

    Start with some small talk over a cup of coffee, see how he is from the spilt, work him up to a date if he's okay. Go nice and slow from there.

    That's all I have for advice.
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