only attracted to anime boys

[lairefaerie]

yep. pretty much what the title says.
i don't even really know why, i've only found 1 real guy attractive in about 2 years, yet i've had loads of anime crushes.
i get all "squeeee" over anime boys the way other girls get over real boys-- but when it comes to real boys, i'm like "ew gross".
it kinda sucks because all of the guys who are physically attractive end up having terrible personalities, they are unintelligent and crude.
it's not like i really expect some perfect guy inside and out to waltz into my life because, i know i'm not anywhere near perfect myself.
it just makes me sad sometimes that i can't experience any attraction to boys unless they're... 2d, out of my reach, no way i could actually get to know them because THEY'RE NOT REAL lol.

i think i've started to determine lately that it might be because with real human beings, you never know whether to trust them or not. i think anime boys seem trustworthy because their thoughts are all narrated and you know when he tells the female character "i love you", he's not lying to get in her pants because you watched his deep monologue with himself about whether or not to confess to her the night before.

idk. just my thoughts. little bit of ranting. anyone relate?

[Jasanime]

Cos 3D guys are smelly and gross. That's why.

[Zainox]

Cos 3D guys are smelly and gross. That's why.

It's true, we are. :3

Edit - Also, WELCOME TO THE FORUM!!!
*throws welcoming confetti* \o/

[lairefaerie]

Cos 3D guys are smelly and gross. That's why.

good point ;p

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It's true, we are. :3

Edit - Also, WELCOME TO THE FORUM!!!
*throws welcoming confetti* \o/

Thank you sooo much~ ^__^
if you were welcoming me not the quoted poster o:

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Well you never know what will happen in the future, all I'll say is don't completely ignore us guys as not all of us want to get in your pants. Just take your time and see what happens

That's true.
I mainly have those feelings because I'm your typical jaded teenage girl who has been literally broken up with because I wouldn't put out after a few weeks.
Hah. -__-

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Will you go out with me if I wear one of these

yes

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wut

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Anime girls are attractive, same with anime guys if you like them, but they are supposed to be that way! Nothing wrong with liking them in my opinion, BUT I still find real girls way more attractive. You know, a real relationship and you can actually hold them, unlike anime girls. I like both though <_< ..

I also feel anime girls are much more attractive than girls in real life.
But we girls have makeup to enhance our features-- make our eyes look bigger, etc.
I find females in general more attractive than males though I'm not lesbian or bi, not sure why, females just appear a lot softer and delicate and "pretty", whereas men often times go for that rugged look which I don't find too appealing.

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I am Len-sexual. Attracted Len Kagamine and Len Kagamine only.

Anime characters are pretty attractive if they're the bara-type, otherwise idgaf. I like to stick with real men the majority of time.

looked him up, i understand your feels

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Only long-haired anime guys get to me, like Gakupo, and Gakupo is my husband ♥

Otherwise, the only real person I have a crush on is Gackt, and he's even sexier because he's the voice actor for Gakupo ♥

I quite like Ukyo from Amnesia, plus his personality just makes me die inside. (His real personality, not the evil I'm going to murder you one)

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Only long-haired anime guys get to me, like Gakupo, and Gakupo is my husband ♥

Otherwise, the only real person I have a crush on is Gackt, and he's even sexier because he's the voice actor for Gakupo ♥

I quite like Ukyo from Amnesia, plus his personality just makes me die inside. (His real personality, not the evil I'm going to murder you one)

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only attracted to anime boys? well.. one does not simply find Daario unattractive!

he pulls off the long hair quite well

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You know they make anime boys like that for a reason, so you will be attracted to them and watch the show; the same principle is true of anime girls. And they have had a lot of time to perfect this craft.

yesh i know

[Zainox]

@lairefaerie - Yeah, the welcome was for you. xD

[aether]

good point ;p

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Thank you sooo much~ ^__^
if you were welcoming me not the quoted poster o:

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That's true.
I mainly have those feelings because I'm your typical jaded teenage girl who has been literally broken up with because I wouldn't put out after a few weeks.
Hah. -__-

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yes

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wut

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I also feel anime girls are much more attractive than girls in real life.
But we girls have makeup to enhance our features-- make our eyes look bigger, etc.
I find females in general more attractive than males though I'm not lesbian or bi, not sure why, females just appear a lot softer and delicate and "pretty", whereas men often times go for that rugged look which I don't find too appealing.

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looked him up, i understand your feels

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I quite like Ukyo from Amnesia, plus his personality just makes me die inside. (His real personality, not the evil I'm going to murder you one)

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I quite like Ukyo from Amnesia, plus his personality just makes me die inside. (His real personality, not the evil I'm going to murder you one)

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he pulls off the long hair quite well

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yesh i know

I hate it when guys just want the girl to be some sort of trophy

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Hello! :-)

Greetings there

[Xeyuzio]

looked him up, i understand your feels

That was a meme that has been floating around Tumblr for a while now, Len is too shota for me.

[aether]

yep. pretty much what the title says.
i don't even really know why, i've only found 1 real guy attractive in about 2 years, yet i've had loads of anime crushes.
i get all "squeeee" over anime boys the way other girls get over real boys-- but when it comes to real boys, i'm like "ew gross".
it kinda sucks because all of the guys who are physically attractive end up having terrible personalities, they are unintelligent and crude.
it's not like i really expect some perfect guy inside and out to waltz into my life because, i know i'm not anywhere near perfect myself.
it just makes me sad sometimes that i can't experience any attraction to boys unless they're... 2d, out of my reach, no way i could actually get to know them because THEY'RE NOT REAL lol.

i think i've started to determine lately that it might be because with real human beings, you never know whether to trust them or not. i think anime boys seem trustworthy because their thoughts are all narrated and you know when he tells the female character "i love you", he's not lying to get in her pants because you watched his deep monologue with himself about whether or not to confess to her the night before.

idk. just my thoughts. little bit of ranting. anyone relate?

Well you never know what will happen in the future, all I'll say is don't completely ignore us guys as not all of us want to get in your pants. Just take your time and see what happens

[Jasanime]

not all of us want to get in your pants.

lies!!

[aether]

lies!!

Well say hello to the exception here

[Jasanime]

Well say hello to the exception here

Hello! :-)

[DenjaX]

[Thefringedninja]

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OMG CRYING X'D
But technically, the Titans have no sex, as they have no reproductive organs XD

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Excuse me? You didn't read something fully because it was "too long", and you have the audacity to call the person who wrote something beyond your mental capacity (or at least your ability to focus) dumb? Thanks for the laugh ^__^

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Lol yes I completely disagree with that poster but it's not really worth responding to because those type of people and myself will never see eye to eye.

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Who says I want to reproduce? I don't really like kids, anyway. Plus there's always adoption.
I'm not saying I'd rather live my life obsessing over drawings than having real relationships-- If that were the case I wouldn't even be making this thread.

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hahahhahha
i don't like super femmy boys like say.. justin bieber or 1 direction, i don't find them attractive at all.
i'm just not into this whole massive muscles, rippling abs and just generally the whole super-macho look.

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didn't mean to imply that you haven't experienced those things. i was just speaking in general.
and why would i try to get you banned?

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Yes, I find non-anime boys in general physically unattractive. I mean, there's a lot of anime boys I also find unattractive hahah, I'm just generally an incredibly picky person and I could scroll through pages of photos of male models or those "super hot gay guys" you see girls reblogging on tumblr, and I just don't see what everyone else is making a fuss over. Like, I can look at someone and objectively think "Yeah you're a nice looking guy. I'm sure girls go crazy for that sparkling smile and your blue eyes. K." but as for my personal attraction to them... ? That's incredibly rare, and I definitely find that if someone's personality is awful, they are immediately crossed off the list no matter how good their looks may be.
I suppose this worries me because, when it comes to merely fantasizing, there's no problem with being attracted to dangerous type guys and having darker desires, but when acting on them irl, I worry that I will end up with someone extremely unhealthy for me-- I stear clear of those with obvious mental issues but since I am so drawn to darkness... I worry it's inevitable that something bad will happen. The prince riding in on his pristine carriage, offering me a future full of sunshine and rainbows? I may say yes out of nothing but logic and the thought of "This is a good opportunity, he's a good guy, has a substantial living, he's nice... I should love him... I'll try to love him." But my heart would always be longing for the mysterious and alluring knight riding a dark horse or something. I don't know, this making sense? It's not like my heart is full of infidelity, it's not just that I grow cold and am on a constant search for excitement (although this is very true, I break up with people when this happens, I don't cheat), it's just that I long for something deeper. Something dramatic, like you said. Something that makes me feel intensely, even if that feeling is pain.
Oh trust me, I don't want a guy who puts me on a pedestal. Rather, the opposite. I was just saying that I quite enjoy the idea of someone genuinely liking me so much that they'll never leave no matter what. I'd rather be slapped in the face than have someone tell me I need to calm down and walk away from me. I'd rather be chastised thoroughly than ignored. And well since we've already gotten pretty deep here I might as well just say that I know exactly why I am this way, it's because as a child I was not physically abused, rather I grew up neglected, completely ignored, just not seen at all, I wasn't worth bothering with. I was simply not loved enough by my mother to be disciplined, to be yelled at, to even be acknowledged at all. So now the one thing anyone can do that will drive me crazy is ignore me, I had a boyfriend who would always just do the "right thing" and walk away whenever I tried to pick a fight or was really torn up about something. I'm sure lots of girls would find that a virtue. I absolutely hated it.
Anyway that probably got off topic, whatever.

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^_^

Have you ever considered that you might be asexual? Cause you sound kind of like you are.

I know from experience, as I am asexual too. Meaning that I do not experience sexual attraction towards either sex, but I am able to experience emotional feelings for them.
Also, I have been know to develop what we call "squishes" for people, when you highly respect and adore someone, but you have absolutely zero desire to physically engage with them.

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I KNOW RIGHT? it was somewhat my intention i was thinking of anime boys i find attractive and remembered gareki, and then i was like wow, totally looks very similar to that guy. So, I do think I've determined I just have some incredibly weird fetish for... drawings, animations.
It may have to do with my subconscious associating human beings with pain. I'm trying to be objective though but i have a feeling my psyche has decided to label all real boys as "bad, dangerous, stay away". Things that are out of my reach pose no harm, because I will never get close enough to be hurt... Hm.

As long as you are satisfied with just watching anime and feel no need or want to be in a real life relationship I think your feelings are fine. Who cares what others think? XD
Personally, I am just happy to have my pets, my close friends and possible queerplatonic (EXTREMELY close friendships, which could be considered relationships, but with no sex or sexual contact etc.)relationships in the future. However, that could change if I have a strong enough emotional attraction to someone, but yeah...I'm aromantic too so... XD
I'm a very mixed up bag of emotions, as you seem to be. Welcome to the club

[DenjaX]

OMG CRYING X'D
But technically, the Titans have no sex, as they have no reproductive organs XD

Doesn't matter. He is still a hot bishounen.

[Kumagawa]

Will you go out with me if I wear one of these

[Eris]

I think your problem is that real late teenage and early 20s boys are emotionally immature in a way they're not depicted in anime. They're *boys*. Other than his mother, who the hell wants a "boy"? Nowadays it seems to take a while until they realize maybe they should grow up and act like a man.

Will you go out with me if I wear one of these

 

The best I can do are these racist stereotype glasses

 

:-(

[Xeyuzio]

I am Len-sexual. Attracted Len Kagamine and Len Kagamine only.

Anime characters are pretty attractive if they're the bara-type, otherwise idgaf. I like to stick with real men the majority of time.

[Anime Forum]

Anime girls are attractive, same with anime guys if you like them, but they are supposed to be that way! Nothing wrong with liking them in my opinion, BUT I still find real girls way more attractive. You know, a real relationship and you can actually hold them, unlike anime girls. I like both though <_< ..

[darksky967]

only attracted to anime boys? well.. one does not simply find Daario unattractive!

[xKMCK]

Only long-haired anime guys get to me, like Gakupo, and Gakupo is my husband ♥

Otherwise, the only real person I have a crush on is Gackt, and he's even sexier because he's the voice actor for Gakupo ♥

[Ayu 「あゆ」]

Only long-haired anime guys get to me, like Gakupo, and Gakupo is my husband ♥

Otherwise, the only real person I have a crush on is Gackt, and he's even sexier because he's the voice actor for Gakupo ♥

I second your notion on Gackt. Pure hotness.

[Rylingo]

yep. pretty much what the title says.
i don't even really know why, i've only found 1 real guy attractive in about 2 years, yet i've had loads of anime crushes.

I've heard this said a few times and I find it an interesting topic. I really do. I've never had an anime crush. I don't really have a character crush in any show.

it kinda sucks because all of the guys who are physically attractive end up having terrible personalities, they are unintelligent and crude.

I don't know if your profile picture is you or someone else. I'll make a guess that it is although you should feel free to point out I'm wrong. I can't tell your age. Partially because your face is hidden, part because it's something I'm terrible at. I've made age estimations 15 years off on people before. Lets just say there's a 30 year girl out there who doesn't like me! I estimate you are in your late teens. The personalities you are seeing are for show. I should know! I was a teenage boy. I pretended to be crude and unintelligent just to fit in. It's not easy trying to have friends in school. I tried my best and lost some of myself in the process. What I'm saying is the boys you are looking at are probably not as bad as you think they are. They are putting up a front and once you see beneath it, then the view may not be quite so depressing.

it's not like i really expect some perfect guy inside and out to waltz into my life because, i know i'm not anywhere near perfect myself.
it just makes me sad sometimes that i can't experience any attraction to boys unless they're... 2d, out of my reach, no way i could actually get to know them because THEY'RE NOT REAL lol.

Perfect boys are boring. Perfect girls are boring. Maybe I'm a mirror opposite to you but I find perfection disgusting. A perfectly amusing charming girl in any medium bores me. I want flaws, I want a history that can't be covered by any book or show. I want something with grains, wrinkles and issues. In short, I want a person, not an ideal.

i think i've started to determine lately that it might be because with real human beings, you never know whether to trust them or not. i think anime boys seem trustworthy because their thoughts are all narrated and you know when he tells the female character "i love you", he's not lying to get in her pants because you watched his deep monologue with himself about whether or not to confess to her the night before.

idk. just my thoughts. little bit of ranting. anyone relate?

Interesting. You worry that guys are using emotions to buy sex. It's a rather common situation. I've heard people Yoda that thought and state that some people use sex to buy emotions. Either way, I think we can all agree that neither are any good.
You want a guy who means it when he says, "I love you". Then hold back sex. Hold it back for a year. You think a guy who really wants to get in your pants will really pretend to love you for a year? There's easier prey out there sister.
Have you ever considered what happens when the show finishes? Every person falls in love on average 3 times in their life(or so I've been told). How do you feel about that?
In real life you can never hear another narration but even the narration itself is a lie. Someone saying "I love you" in a show and believing it does not necessarily make it so. Look at the Great Gatsby. Gatsby says he loves Daisy. He believes he loves Daisy more than anything. But is it true?

May I ask if you've had problems in the past with boys? I can try and offer insight if you wish. It's a rather personal question so feel free to wave it away.

Guys, girls, we are all human. The opposite sex is not something mystical. It's barely any different in the grand scheme of things.
Also thumbs up for a drunken post!

[Vintniv]

You know they make anime boys like that for a reason, so you will be attracted to them and watch the show; the same principle is true of anime girls. And they have had a lot of time to perfect this craft.

[Kaleohano]

yep. pretty much what the title says.
i don't even really know why, i've only found 1 real guy attractive in about 2 years, yet i've had loads of anime crushes.
i get all "squeeee" over anime boys the way other girls get over real boys-- but when it comes to real boys, i'm like "ew gross".
it kinda sucks because all of the guys who are physically attractive end up having terrible personalities, they are unintelligent and crude.
it's not like i really expect some perfect guy inside and out to waltz into my life because, i know i'm not anywhere near perfect myself.
it just makes me sad sometimes that i can't experience any attraction to boys unless they're... 2d, out of my reach, no way i could actually get to know them because THEY'RE NOT REAL lol.

i think i've started to determine lately that it might be because with real human beings, you never know whether to trust them or not. i think anime boys seem trustworthy because their thoughts are all narrated and you know when he tells the female character "i love you", he's not lying to get in her pants because you watched his deep monologue with himself about whether or not to confess to her the night before.

idk. just my thoughts. little bit of ranting. anyone relate?

Well, it seems like you have some personal issues to sort out. Feel free to talk to me at any time. Cant remember where i heard it, but there was a quote that went something like;

"Sometimes you gotta take a leap of faith first, then hope the trust part comes later."

Too bad though that you seem to have a prejudice against guys who's minds you can't read. Cuz (Assuming your avatar is a picture of you) you seem to be a very pretty girl who could really have the world as a smorgasbord. I used to have a hard time trusting people, and believe me when i say, the world is a much nicer place to be once you learn to open up more to it.

[Anime Forum]

Well, it seems like you have some personal issues to sort out. Feel free to talk to me at any time. Cant remember where i heard it, but there was a quote that went something like;

"Sometimes you gotta take a leap of faith first, then hope the trust part comes later."

Too bad though that you seem to have a prejudice against guys who's minds you can't read. Cuz (Assuming your avatar is a picture of you) you seem to be a very pretty girl who could really have the world as a smorgasbord. I used to have a hard time trusting people, and believe me when i say, the world is a much nicer place to be once you learn to open up more to it.

Lol, I thought that was some google picture. I may be wrong, but.. yeah.