Hey there are some cute real guys out there ( but ofc they will never be as cute and sexy as anime boys hehehe :3)
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Hey there are some cute real guys out there ( but ofc they will never be as cute and sexy as anime boys hehehe :3)
In my opinion, it may be a better choice for you understand that most people on the forum seem to not agree with you. I am not dissing you and I would love to be your friend (: I just do not want to see you get yourself into deep for no reason, since some people here will bash you for it. I am not agreeing OR disagreeing with anyone, just trust me. Better to move on.
Nonon Jakuzure - Best Kill la Kill baePretty damn great! #spoke2soonOta "The Cutest Otaku" 2016 - Lol, how's your account doing lately? Oh wait.
Really? I saw quite a few girls who did agree.
The majority of posters in this were males who took my statement as an insult, they directly felt the sting of "you're not as attractive as an anime boy" therefor they attacked. Also a handful of females made rude comments because of... well, reasons I won't state here to avoid confrontation.
Uhm, yeah don't worry about it, at the end of the day you're all a bunch of random internet people (as am i) and no one should really take anyone too seriously.
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hehe yesh :3
@lairefaerie
To be fair anime guys can be quite unrealistic (not that anime girls sometimes aren't).
For example all the guys who I think are supposed to be "cool" and attractive in Karneval are drawn with this weird crossing hair thing between their eyes that I presume girls are supposed to like.
However the only one of the main male characters that I'm confident is straight is the one from airship one with the whip, and he's not drawn so attractively.
Anyway something I figured out in college is that what people find attractive is largely influenced by how they feel about that person. Both males and females actually. Since you find anime guys attractive I don't think you're asexual. So it's probably just a matter of finding "the right guy" and the attraction will kick in. There's no need to rush that, especially in high school.
Putting aside the fact that the beauty of japanese animation makes ALL anime characters beautiful, anime boys are naturally more attractive just because it is a fantasy where ideally perfect yet unrealistic characters can exist and fill whatever role is desired. In any work of fiction (especially of the romance genre), the main cast is generally unrealistic and cliche yet perfect in each their own way. Only in a fiction would a lover send his beloved a thousand lover letters just thinking of her or threaten to let go high up off a ferris wheel just for the chance to go on a date with some cute girl. What's wrong with having an attraction to that sort of romanticized character?
I really want to feel bad for you, but comments like this make you come off as a provoker and not a victim. For some reason, I doubt most of the males took what you said as an insult. Unless of course you can provide screenshots of the posters saying that. Anyways, that aside even if some girls agreed with you, I still feel more people disagree than agree. Not sure if this thread would get 100+ replies if that was that case. Lol, but okay. I really do accept your opinion on anime guys and if they seem attractive to you. Fine! (:
Nonon Jakuzure - Best Kill la Kill baePretty damn great! #spoke2soonOta "The Cutest Otaku" 2016 - Lol, how's your account doing lately? Oh wait.
I never stated that I understood your main problem. But from some posts I saw - I caught extra problems. Those being, doubtfulness and a lack of courage. No worries, can always work on it. I'm no psychologist, but i'll tell you that.. The world is depressing. Life is actually depressing, but those who are happy have worked for it, So what i'm trying to say is that you're not alone, Everyone is depressed because of totally different reasons.
Excuse me for my lame suggestions. Sometimes happiness can only come from yourself. Anyway, Hope you figure it out, wish you all the best.
also sorry about grammar in my other post, it was typed on a potato
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Also...
I understand why you would feel like this. Truth be told,
anime guys ARE ridiculously attractive. I also find myself
having difficulty being physically attracted to the guys irl,
but then again, I try to go for a good personality when it
comes to guys in the real world.
Anime guys = One of my guilty pleasures.
Real guys = A possible future with them and therefore I need
a strong and kind man.
I guess that's just how I grew up to see it.
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Fruits Basket
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Hourou Musuko Wandering Son
Sora to Hara
Kuroko no Basuke
Shingeki no Kyojin
Currently reading: Bleach and Naruto Ship, Shingeki no Kyojin, Kuroko no Basuke.
Currently watching: Space Brothers, Golden Time, Kuroko no Basuke, Silver Spoon, Magi and Mobile Suit Gundam.
LOL crossing hair thing
and Jiki? Nah he's drawn attractively, for sure.
I <3 glasses on anime boys *-*
I am a sophomore in college but thanks :3
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thanks and dw about it
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btw guys i just watched the world god only knows and i was laughing so hard bc i'm very nearly the female version of keima katsuragi
seriously though hilarious anime owo
I've been compared to anime characters before.
Physically; I'm practically albino, I never get any acme or blemishes on my skin, straight black hair... hmm what else... I have giant *** eyes?
That pretty much covers me physically I really don't want to go deeply into my personality because this is not a dating site, buuuuut I think I'm a pretty swell guy... OH and I love anime which is all that really counts anyway. ~.^
I'm not going to lie though I have had anime crushes over the year, well I don't know if you could call them a crush more like I wish I could find someone similar irl. Ex. Mamimi - Flcl
Last edited by KingArt; 07-19-2013 at 04:02 AM.
I used to have a phase like this. All my life revolved around 2D bishounens. When I meet boys, I'd immediately find an anime character comparable to them. My boyfriend and I used to fight all the time because he felt I kept comparing him to my anime crushes. ^^;
^ Well, actually, my boyfriend sort of gave me an ultimatum. Something like, if I didn't "grow up" and stop comparing him to anime characters, he'll leave me X( That was really scary for me and I forced myself to really keep myself from ogling at all those characters. At one point, I stopped watching anime and forced myself to watch live action instead. The thing is, I began to have crushes on Japanese actors but strangely enough, I didn't feel like comparing them to a real person. I guess I finally grew up?
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Most guys can handle the fact that there are other guys which are more attractive, smarter, or superior to them in some way. Any self respecting guy is not going to accept being treated as inadequate though. If you make a guy feel replaceable or unnecessary, he should leave you.
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an introvert attracted to anime characters, pretty common thing these days. nothing to be ashamed of. i was never solely attracted to anime characters as a guy generally wants to screw everything that moves from puberty on (despite whomever may deny it) but i do find anime characters attractive. their idealistic design makes that pretty easy.
you just need to open yourself up to people and allow them to understand you, allowing you to know them in return. eventually you'll find someone you connect with, and attraction will follow regardless of whether they look like a pale demi-god or not.
i like playing relationship therapist
It's okay for you to express your opinion but when someone else expresses their opinion it's called crossing the line? This is the 21st century, don't expect people to say "Oh I totally agree with you 100%!" If you're going to rant about something, then get ready to take on someone else's opinionated rant.
There is a difference between disagreeing and saying something that crosses a major line. For example, if a woman was raped and you proceeded to call her an inappropriate name, she has every right to tell you to piss off. I would be fine with someone telling me to quit talking to them if I invaded their boundaries and crossed a major line.
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i see
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Irl i hate cute boys because the more physically attractive you are the more horrible you are inside
Call me biased all you want but this is true in 90% of cases (with both men and women)
So i'm really making it impossible for myself. Cause even if i did meet someone I found attractive I would automatically hate them and assume the worst of them.
Haaahahha oh well I've got more important stuff to do anyway, I'll go be a vet and take care of sweet little animals <3
At the end of the day, this wasn't just an opinion about something general like "gay marriage". This was an opinion on lairefaerie's personal life. Yeah, she made a thread on it, so I responded as I had a right to do. There came a point were she felt uncomfortable and she asked me to stop discussing her personal life, which I have. Since the thread was on her personal life (and not something general), she has every right to ask me to stop.
I'm not a dog with a bone. I'm not going to chase her on this. As far as I'm concerned the matter is over with and I have no hard feelings with lairefaerie. I'll happily discuss other matters with her on the forum. We just won't talk about her personal life, unless she specifically requests it of me.
At least you admit that you're making the situation worse for yourself. Honestly, believing that a person has a bad personality because they are attractive is just weird. I'll admit I'm not the sharpest looking guy in the world, but I can be a real crappy person to people at times. On the other hand, I know plenty of attractive people [at least attractive in my eyes] that have personality traits that I envy: optimism, patience, hard-working, truthful, etc.
Who knows, maybe they got me fooled and are really terrible people, but like I said in my previous post, it comes down to trusting people, and allowing people to become close to you. I admire you becoming a vet if that is the path you choose. I love animals, but humans beings are meant to be social. I know there are people that can go through life with minimal human interaction, but honestly, where's the fun in that?
Last edited by Velvet_Nightmare; 08-02-2013 at 05:30 AM.
^^My life. I am having fun XD
I only have a few friends, but I have five pets and I am happy that way. Just because humans have a social psychology, it doesn't mean that you can't live a fulfilling life where being social with other humans is on the back burner.
~Favourite Anime/manga~
Ouran High School Host Club
Death Note
Sekaiichi Hatsukoi
Junjou Romantica
Naruto Shippuuden
Bleach
Hetalia
Code Geass
Fruits Basket
D-GrayMan
Hourou Musuko Wandering Son
Sora to Hara
Kuroko no Basuke
Shingeki no Kyojin
Currently reading: Bleach and Naruto Ship, Shingeki no Kyojin, Kuroko no Basuke.
Currently watching: Space Brothers, Golden Time, Kuroko no Basuke, Silver Spoon, Magi and Mobile Suit Gundam.
I'm so surprised how long this thread has become. I genuinely understand your position OP, but I do not sympathize you. You dont have a 'problem,' you just want to avoid loss and the pressure of being rejected/judged by another human being, and that's hard to do. Animals obviously will not reject you if you feed them or give them attention, but humans are harder, so you find comfort in humans who wont/cant judge you in return.
Like I said before earlier in the thread, there is a reason why these characters are idealized; its to get you to watch the show and that's it. That's why shows like K-on, Lucky Star, etc are popular. Here's some cute girls they say, they're perfect in every way, if you dont like one, there's others to pick from, like fruit in a produce isle. Its standard operating procedure, but you're trying to refuse reality here.
If you dont want to engage in contact with an imperfect guy, perfectly fine. But please dont count out 50% of humanity because they dont meet the standards you created for yourself watching anime.
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