Originally Posted by
Seung-li
Thats why theres a thing called point of view. The one you may consider "beautiful" isn't to your perspective and vice versa.
O_o W-what...? Ugly inside or outside? If you mean ugly in the inside, you got that right. But the outside...? It's more of an opinion for a person to decide if that person they say is ugly is ugly. idk Why you really think that way, it's a little outrageous to me to think that way.
Not to offend some others, but they need to have serious help. I don't know whatelse to really say, except they need help, love from family that (actually loves and cares for them), and support. If you ask me, I don't like a person that lack of confidence and spends time feeling bad about themselves. I admire a person who had a rough past and decide to change themselves for the better because they don't allow themselves to wallow on their misery and let it take over them. In other words, a STRONG PERSON.
"Well keep looking with your eyes, not with your mouth."
And I don't get your statement I bolded out. That is way too opinionated in my book. I think "most men" are "lonely" because it's either they want to be, unfortunately gave up looking, or any various of reasons. I doubt the theory you came up with is a major reason why it's this way and whatnot.
It's called a type. It follows with choice, preference, and maybe some communication is needed. My fiance wants to pay for my things when I want to pay things on my own. We talk it over and at times, we just give in to one another. Perhaps in some relationships that are downhill lack of communication and positive attitude.
My fiance felt this way, but if you love a person so much, no matter how much they think like that you need to respect it. I told him that love can be happiness and pain, but its no reason to allow it let it hurt you. There needs to be that certain thing to make a person change the way one person's view of love will cause pain.
No matter what, if you're willing to make things work together and vice versa, things will be fine. For an example:
Me- I'm Chinese and Filipino, I don't listen to my parents that much because my happiness matters, I'm raised well to know right and wrong and my traditions I use some of it, but not completely including my religion of being Roman Catholic. I don't shove my belief down my fiance's throat. I share my perspective of things though.
My fiance- He's Norwegian and Serbian-American, his family loves me and accepted me since day one and supports the relationship, he was raised in a good loving family even if they're rough on the edges, and he's not all up to religion because he has an Agnostic belief but he came from a Baptist family. He respects my beliefs and point of view on things, while I do with him.
There is a perfect partner for someone. Just quit giving up because it makes you look blah and it's no bueno. >:U
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