Ever been on the giving/receiving end?
If so; giver or receiver? XD Sexual puns best left out; haha.
How'd the other person; or you; take it?
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Ever been on the giving/receiving end?
If so; giver or receiver? XD Sexual puns best left out; haha.
How'd the other person; or you; take it?
i've only been on the giving end. i've tried to coax them into dumping me, but only found them to take too damn long. sooo i always end up taking matters into my own hands. doesn't bother me really, i'm fairly insensitive so them crying or whatever really has little effect on me.
Does that make me a bad person???
as far as how they took it, well 2 cried, one didn't react at all (in front of me), and the rest just gave me attitude. regardless of their reaction however, i was happy. for i was a free man again
Hmmm... Been a whileSit back some time and simply ask yourself, [Link]->"Do you even lift, bro?"<-[Link]
In my last relationship it was quite abusive, and I was scared to leave him. He ended up dumping me on Christmas Day, because he couldn't get me drunk (I don't drink) and force me into sex. So instead, he cheated on me/dateraped other people, then dumped me. He was one of those guys who seems so great and nice at first, and you really like them, then they turn out to be daterapists T_T
I ended up spending Christmas Day fighting urges to self-harm (I used to have a self-harm addiction), and pretty much wanting to curl up and die. Thankfully, in January of the next year, me and my (now) fiancé got together<3
@RescueCat - wow, that's a pretty bad christmas. You poor thing!
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When I broke up with my ex of 5 yrs he proposed to me! Somehow he had the idea I wanted to get married?? I was like - dude! I don't wanna be with you for another 5 mins, let alone the rest of my life! Oh then there was the time I met a girl and found out we were seeing the same guy! So we joined forces and confronted him. She took it pretty badly and beat him with a broom stick!!!
I have been in my current relationship since 2005, so I havn't had so many relationships to talk about. Kind of the only experience I have with other guys when it comes to relationships is saying "Thank you but no thank you" while turning them down [these last years it has happened atleast 1-2 per year]. However, Im not sure I can call those for "break ups".... O__o No they havn't taking it so good, since most of them don't even talk to me anymore... But I guess thats' fairly common; especially when some of them used to be friends of yours. I think that after being turned down, it's hard to hang around as you used to. So I really hope I won't loose more manly friends like this... Losing friends is never something that you wish for. :(
Since I havn't had so many relationships to talk about the last guy who broke up with me was my 'boyfrieeeeend' during the 4th grade (he had a stong pokemon card = he was awesome = I became awesome aswell since he was my 'boy'). How old can I have been then... hmmm... maybe around 12-13? Anyway; he broke up with me [even after we had had this wonderful and romantic time over at his place when we played SuperMario together. He played and I sat next to him playing aswell (while staring at him looking like this:).
Attachment 58394 Oh kiss me!
*clears throat* Anyhow and anyway.. after some time he broke up with me, wanted to stay as friends (old childhood friend / same class), I cried a little, was sad for some days and then some years later I found out that he was gay. Poor soul, it can't have been easy being stuck in your room with a inloved childhood friend doing a "smooch smooch'y mouth at you", while you yourself are gay. HAHAHAH!!!! My latest boyfriend left me and became gay! :P If you look at it like that then I think it's funny, despise those tears that I ched during my childhood. ;)
Waiting for
Christmas
Season four of Sherlock
The new Hobbit movie
Season five of Game of Thrones
New episodes of Downton Abbey
Online pwned count: plenty.
In real life pwned count: none whatsoever.
Oh, Hi-deeki, imagine... your kind not eating raw fish! ^_^
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kE38SKRT4ak
hey, at least its over. and if you ever care to introduce me to him: 1 i've taken fighting classes for the last ten years. whooping his donkey would be less than no problem. 2. i'm a bit of a redneck, i have a lot of guns. its the first thing i started collecting when i turned 18 lol
Hmmm... Been a whileSit back some time and simply ask yourself, [Link]->"Do you even lift, bro?"<-[Link]
2 brakeups ago it happend because she didnot trust me and after the brakeup I foundout she was cheating on me. I still love her but we don't talk aneymore
live life to the fullest because you are not guarantied a tomorrow
No worries, my stores are short. Hopefully...
Ex 1:
-dated for a month
-dated when I was a freshman in high school
-he was the dumper
He dumped me during a school day at lunch. Before the break up, he was his usual-self. I didn't expect any break up on that day either, too until lunch he gave a note to my friend and she told me it was from him. He broke up with me over the note, saying he wants time to think alone.
My reaction: royally p*ssed, I didn't cry.
Ex 2:
-dated maybe a month and a half
-dated in the middle of the school year as a freshman
-he was the dumper, I almost dumped him first
He was a man wh*re. I hated seeing how he flirts around with other girls and avoids me all the time. But in a way, I didn't feel so bad the thing is that I thought I liked him. lol I was about to dump him and then he said he wants to break up. Well whatever.
My reaction: FINALLY. I didn't care.
Ex 3:
-dated for 2 weeks
-dated almost the end of the school year when we were freshmen
-he was the dumper
He's was one of the few good guys, he asked me out in the most funniest way ever. Check "yes" if you'll go out with me. There was no option but I wanted to know him more and I had a feeling he liked me for a while. The day of the break up, I won't forget it because it happened on my friend's birthday. I got on Myspace when it was awesome back in the day, I had a message from him saying he wants to break up. Worse of all he spelt my name wrong. x_x
My reaction: wtf, really...?
Ex 4:
-dated for at least 2 and a half years
-dated during the summer
-he dumped me for not meeting "his standards"
I thought I loved him, but he emotionally abused me, made me feel like garbage. Those stuff, he was the WORSE ex ever. To the point that I don't know why I liked him at all. It was pathetic that I wanted to get back with him. I'm glad I lost interest on him. He dumped me over AIM when he was on vacation and when he got home, I was so desperate to get back with him.
My reaction: felt like my life fell apart, not anymore until I got together with my now fiance.
Summary:
-best ex is No. 3
-worst ex is No. 4
My 5 yr relationship ended badly...funny how when you confront someone in the act of cheating somehow it's your fault. She cheated on me for over a year, this was while I was moving to the state she had moved too, a year prior with her family. I blame her elder sister for it though...she was the "loose morals" type of girl...and my ex would visit her sister's college every other weekend, and conveniently stay the night each time. Man, was I the chump...of course I didn't find til after I proposed.
Last edited by Jacob's Ladder; 02-23-2012 at 01:13 PM.
Been on both ends [lololol]
First time I was dumped I was depressed for a long time. Second time I took a shot of SoCo and played some Black Ops, 5 minutes later I was fine lol
When I first dumped someone, not sure how they felt. Second person I dumped three times, each time she pretty much made death threats against herself.
No power in the 'verse can stop me...
Don't judge me but,
I never had a girlfriend since elementary and middle school. Well, part of middle school. I went out with 2 people but they were really mean to my friends, also rude.
Now in high school. I have a girlfriend since October 4th - 2010. Her name is Lauren Gardner and she is my 3rd girlfriend.
*I don't play with humans like a game. I'm a straight up right person that doesn't screw stuff up. Players = Dumb @%$3$.*
@Nickasaur - umm... that's less cute
the relationship i was talking about i truley though i found true love. but it turns out she was not onley not trusting but i foundout she was also cheating on me. talk about a 2 timing female
live life to the fullest because you are not guarantied a tomorrow
Well I've had like a kabillion breakups... But realistically just one... But if you want my true opinion I'll tell you none...
A kabillion because from middle school to high school I've suffered through being the person who was expected to magically glue my best friends relationships back together.. Uhhh WHAT?? I know I'm your friend n all, but why am I treated like glue?? You don't need me in the middle to date each other.. So yeah, there was that..
Then there was this other guy in like 7th grade that I knew since 5th.. I stayed over at his house a lot since his family was a family friend.. Well one day him and his sister thought it was a bright idea to pin me to a bed and for him to start kissing me.. I wasn't at all happy.. He considered us to have dated and introduced me to other girls as his x.. But meh.. I don't consider him my x..
Been dating my boyfriend now for one year and 2 1/2 months. :]
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I've technically been in two relationships. My first "boyfriend" was an online relationship on Runescape. We started talking about MapleStory and he was saying that he couldn't sign in for some reason. He went offline to try again, and I never saw him again. The dude dumped me for Maplestory! My reaction: Mkay, I have better opportunities anyways.
My second boyfriend I have never broken up with<3 Been with him for over three years now, and there's too many people who think we're married or act like a married couple. Even though we're four years apart, we're insanely close. I've been waiting for him to get back from Mexico since November. It sucks since Mexico has been really dangerous and I'm worrying about him all the time.
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My first break up was incredibly diplomatic. We reached the decision together.
My second and last break up didn't go as smoothly as I wanted it to. I knew I was going to move soon. My girlfriend was way too close to me, and I thought it would be better to end the relationship before I moved. Bad idea... I made her cry twice, once by breaking up with her, and then once again by moving. I felt like sh*t... I honestly don't know if I would've done anything differently, though. I still think it would be pretty bad if we hadn't broken up before I moved.
Always on the recieving end.
Sure sucks doesn't it?
If each mistake being made is a new one, then progress is being made.
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