Do you evet find yourself comparing yourself to a friend? Like if your flat and they got big boobs you yell "no fair!" or if you score higher on something they go "no fair!".
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Do you evet find yourself comparing yourself to a friend? Like if your flat and they got big boobs you yell "no fair!" or if you score higher on something they go "no fair!".
You find life unfair? Try being and egg. You only get laid once, you only get eaten once, it takes four minutes to get hard, but only two to get soft, you share a box with eleven other guys, but what's worse was the only chick to sit on you is your mom!
Well life's not fair. And I don't do that, really. I think it seems a little childish to complain like that. No one is grateful anymore. Appreciate what you got.
I'll think that when I want something that someone else has. I don't say it out loud though.... Usually if another girl has really pretty, long hair, I'll think that.
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I'm only jealous when people get perfect grades and get to travel a lot. I'm extremely jealous of my 2 cousins that are around my age, because they have perfect grades and get to travel to places like France and Italy. I feel like I'm the failure or loser of my extended family sometimes, because I feel like I have to be compared to them which I'm not close at all, but honestly I'd love to be better then them, more better when it comes to traveling.
The grass is always greener right? I only compare myself to myself. Sounds funny I know but I like to compare myself to where I want to be as a goal. It's something to strive for!
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Well everyone is gonna have something that you don't have which can make you jealous but then again, you'll have something that they don't which might make them jealous.
I think that jealousy is just an obstacle that happens to be in your way to the road of pure happiness. You cannot be truly happy, while wanting what others have. And as for comparing yourself to someone, if you feel so inferior to another that you would compare yourself to them, although it may be common, it's still just an esteem problem. No worries, everyone has them, but the less you have, the happier you are. Be confident and love who you are.
Being the otaku that I am, I've had my fair share of resentment towards the more illustrious kids in my school days.
I suppose I've grown up a bit, it seems, because the people around me now that I truly envy have earned the skills they have through hard work.
"If a person who indulges in gluttony is a glutton, and a person who commits a felony is a felon, then God is an iron."
-Spider Robinson, God Is an Iron
It has been my personal philosophy that if there is something in your life that you feel is not satisfactory, then it is your personal responsibility to go about doing.. whatever it is you need to to bring about that change.
Complaining about things not going your way just seems like laziness. (unless you're venting, but that's different)
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Of course. In my senior year of high school, there was this 'friend' (Honestly, we weren't really all of that much of friends, but sort of...) who played the bassoon, and played it much better than I. Now, at that point I had only began playing it, but it still bothered me because she disliked playing the bassoon, and she just too good at it for being somebody that didn't care. She was better at it than I thought I would have been if I had began playing it at the same time she did.
She was also very pretty (in my eyes).
So I was envious... and being a child about it. I was a senior in high school, but my attitude was stuck somewhere back in elementary school.
Now, I've grown up. Still not too happy that somebody who doesn't care is (was... I don't think she plays anymore) so good at it. However, the main issue was not her having natural talent and me failing at life like I thought, it was me running into a wall because I didn't understand where I really needed to improve.
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There will always be someone who has something that you do not and there will always be someone who can do something better than you.
There is no point in saying, "OMG its not fair." Because guess what, life is not fair. If you want something to be better or you want something, get up and do it or try be better or just be happy with what you have.
It's my personal opinion that if you want something enough you should get your butt in gear and just take it.
Of course, it's easier for those like me that don't have any fancy aspirations, most of the things I want are a little companionship and things that can be bought with money, a resource I'm rarely short of thanks to my job.
Want a holiday? Save money. Want skills? Keep training. Want money? Work for it.
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Sometimes I am. But I try to be content with what I have.
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I've never been jealous of anyone's looks, possessions, etc. There are some aspects of myself I would like to change, but they are over written by the fact I would hate being anyone but myself
Naw, I'm pretty easy to please as long as I have music. And as soon as I get a flying rocket boat, my life will be complete.
Everyone has at least one good thing going for them, right? I'm happy for other people, not jealous. ^^;;
I use too...but not so much anymore. I stopped because I realized that those certain things are what make me..me.
I'm happy for other people and even more so if I wish I could do that myself but haven't yet.
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I don't get jealous because growing jealousy is a waste of time. You should be focusing more on what you hope to achieve, or even the nxt gathering of friends. I have a few quirks I don't like about myself, but I deal, knowing that the more I linger on those little "I wish my boobs were like that" or "I wish I had a family like that", I lose valuable time to be doing something productive. I'm content with what I have, no matter the circumstance. ^_^ Huh, I'm sure in a happy mood today...
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^ This. This all the way.I don't get jealous because growing jealousy is a waste of time. You should be focusing more on what you hope to achieve, or even the next gathering of friends. I have a few quirks I don't like about myself, but I deal, knowing that the more I linger on those little "I wish my boobs were like that" or "I wish I had a family like that", I lose valuable time to be doing something productive. I'm content with what I have, no matter the circumstance. ^_^ Huh, I'm sure in a happy mood today...
I do this all the time. "Dude, how are you so handsome?" "How are you so smart?" "That was hilarious, wish I could tell jokes like that ( ._.)" But then I realise I'm talking to a mirror so it's all good.
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