View Full Version : Rejection... do you hate it?
DeMoNoFtHeFaLl666
09-16-2009, 04:52 PM
not sure if something like this has been made before but here it goes. How do you feel about being rejected by someone, how do you cope with it? Me i usually listen to pure death metal and no other genre of music. Another reason for making this thread is because i infact got rejected today. I really though she liked me but i was wrong. So as a final question how many times have you been rejected and how many times have you gotton into a relationship. Personally ive been rejected 4 times and accepted 1 time. You dont have to respond to to that last question if you don't feel comfortable saying it.
Cobra Commander
09-16-2009, 04:57 PM
Two relationships, three rejections. That's about it. I don't do anything special to cope, I just move on. If she's not interested, then there's nothing to be upset about.
What I hate more than rejection is girls that won't approach guys. Sometimes we're shy, oblivious, etc. Sometimes we need a nudge.
My first relationship was that way. I thought the girl was just a friend, and didn't think she was interested in me, and then [i]she[/s] took it to the next level. I liked her a lot, but didn't think I had a chance, so I didn't go there.
3pleT
09-16-2009, 05:12 PM
i never really cared.
also, reps up for epic troll that is the op
So this is specifically relationship rejection?
I wouldn't know. Never been rejected before cuz I never asked anybody.
Gero50
09-16-2009, 05:18 PM
Well I have never been rejected before but If i was for some reason. I might sit alone and think for a day or two about it if it were a relationship issue anyway.
Inactive Account 0061
09-16-2009, 05:34 PM
Since I got rejections all my life (lol I fail \o/ ) I kinda learned to get used to it.
Sir-Nemesis
09-16-2009, 05:47 PM
Depends...
In some cases serve to grow up.
Blixium
09-16-2009, 06:04 PM
I've been in 5 serious relationships and never got rejected once, I turned them down after a while(not straight away). So, I don't know what it feels like to be rejected really. I can imagine it's rather awkward and depressing though?
Then again, I find it confusing how people even get rejected. o_O
Do you just go up and physically harass them or something retarded like that or actually have an in-depth conversation about how you 'love' them?
blueangel06661
09-16-2009, 06:05 PM
How I deal with it?? Simply put. I don't ask anyone out. Therefor I won't be put in a situation like so. :]
Miss Moonlight
09-16-2009, 06:07 PM
Rejection... do you hate it?
Well, there's nothing much to like about it. I'm personally not a fan of it.
Shwayze
09-16-2009, 06:13 PM
I don't do anything special to cope, I just move on. If she's not interested, then there's nothing to be upset about.
Exactly; if shes not interested, just move on and continue life. But to answer the question, Ive been in 6 relationships and got rejected twice. Longest relationship Ive been through was about a year. Im currently taking a break from relationships and focusing on other important things.
RaShayRitto
09-16-2009, 06:24 PM
"rejection....do you hate it?"
what a weird question. NO! I THRIVE ON REJECTION! it charges my rejection powered rocket skates!
Acnologia
09-16-2009, 06:27 PM
I've been rejected from things many times, and it still hurts.
Teddy2116
09-16-2009, 07:00 PM
its never a good feeling but you just gotta move on. as for you other question, I've been rejected 13 times in high school due to me being sweet and only accepted 4
lilminx
09-16-2009, 07:07 PM
well i know it feels awful but i cant say ive been rejected. i only had like 3 relationships and thankfully they worked out fine, well we got along.
nekosenshi
09-16-2009, 07:53 PM
A long time ago I was infatuated with a boy who didn't feel the same way, and it hurt terribly when it finally got through to me, though I was in denial for a long time that he did feel the same way. He always said he only liked me as a friend but my ability to deceive myself was really strong.
Anime Forum
09-16-2009, 07:57 PM
Dang I need to get on more lately, I'm becoming such a loser on here.
Anyways yea rejection hurts, mainly because in relationship terms you have your heart set out for it, then you find out it will never be meant to be.
I just after a while get over it, but it indeed hurts for a while.
Forgotten Show
09-16-2009, 08:32 PM
I'm with RaShay. Rejection rox.
Bad Memory
Seta Souji
09-16-2009, 10:03 PM
Well, there's nothing much to like about it. I'm personally not a fan of it. Exactly.
I haven't gotten rejected before but when one of my ex's and I broke up I was sad about it for a couple of days then got over it. Didn't listen to any specific kind of music or went soul searching or what not. Just thought "this sucks, a lot" then went on with life.
Shinn Kamiyra
09-16-2009, 10:12 PM
There's really not much else to say other than that it happens, so there's really no sense in letting one's self getting depressed over it. It's quite a big world out there after all, and there will always be other chances for you so long as you don't stop yourself from seeing them.
LOVE STUFF
09-16-2009, 10:59 PM
Well, once someone gets use to it doesn't really matter anymore.I'm used it already.People say that I'm too active.What ever that means!
reikalee
09-16-2009, 11:04 PM
It's the other way around for me. I'm a girl so I find guys wanting to date me instead. I've rejected many men already even the most stubborn ones. It might be so thrilling to have the "power" but it actually sucks.
I hate to see the pained reaction of the guys I've rejected. The guilt eats away your conscience. It's disturbing to think that you're the cause of someone's suffering.
Megamind's Minion
09-17-2009, 12:24 AM
rejection hurts,...
especially if the one who rejects you is someone you know feels the same way but tries to deny it...
RaShayRitto
09-17-2009, 12:53 AM
guess i'll do a serious reply before the OP REJECTS ME! i know i know, i gotta stop XD
I've never been "rejected' cuz i guess i've never formally "asked" anyone before. Usually i'll meet someone and we hit it off but i just coast for a while and enjoy the hanging out. and then all of a sudden its like "whoa, did we just have a date?!" and then things go from there. Its pretty fitting for my slacker approach to life ^-^
i think i've only "confessed" like thrice but in each case it was kind of a given she was down for it too. Maybe i play love on Easy mode and avoid all the challenging chicks O.o?
PerfectParadox
09-17-2009, 01:28 AM
I actually tend to do the rejecting..
Not that I've had to often.
I certainly don't do it to be mean, either..*shrugs* I just didn't like the people who asked me out in the way they desired.
I've never been rejected because I'm far too shy to put myself on the line...
Also, I don't get crushes very often (thinking someone is 'cute' isn't the same thing..) There was only one guy that I had a HUGE crush on..and I never got to tell him how I felt because he moved. *sigh*
Kingmelo15
09-17-2009, 10:06 AM
I so far have never been rejected so lucky me, but i did alot of rejections so far the must brutal was on valentines day, the poor girl had a flower as in 1 for me with a card but i turned her down and she ripped them up i felt bad but she got over it and we are still friends so its all good.
Pyro Stick
09-17-2009, 10:26 AM
Me i usually listen to pure death metal and no other genre of music.
lol thats probably what i would do, although i would take it to the next level and listen to purely black metal and cannibal corpse, particularly hammer smashed face and i will kill you off of Live Cannabilism. I say thats probably what i would do cause i havent been rejected yet.
I dont know how i would cope with having to reject someone though. Im too nice a person to be that harsh to someone and not feel super bad about it. But i guess thats where Home Brew comes in...
RaShayRitto
09-17-2009, 10:58 AM
here's the best method for rejecting someone:
after they confess, put on a chariming smile and invite them aboad your private helicopter (note: forgot to mention you need to aquire one of these). Hold their hand as you fly above the city with the lights creating a gorgeous scene. Look them in the eyes and say
you: I love you too!
them: That makes me so Happ-
you: just kidding!
them: o_o
you: ^_^ *attach bungee cord to the confessor's leg and push them out*
them: WEEEEEE I TOTALLY FORGIVE YOU AND HARBOR NO ILL FEELINGS!
TOTALLY works every time! The simulations i'm running in my imagination tell me so
~Mithrosent~
09-17-2009, 11:53 AM
Uhmm...I think that I feel like anyone else that gets rejected. Not good. I guess I cope with rejection by just thinking about why it wouldn't work out anyways. I also try and look for other people that I may be interested.
And it's always good to have friends :3
I don't remember how many times I've gotten rejected. But I've had my fair share of relationships.
DeMoNoFtHeFaLl666
09-17-2009, 02:27 PM
lol thats probably what i would do, although i would take it to the next level and listen to purely black metal and cannibal corpse, particularly hammer smashed face and i will kill you off of Live Cannabilism. I say thats probably what i would do cause i havent been rejected yet.
I dont know how i would cope with having to reject someone though. Im too nice a person to be that harsh to someone and not feel super bad about it. But i guess thats where Home Brew comes in...
good choice of music
Kingmelo15
09-17-2009, 05:08 PM
here's the best method for rejecting someone:
after they confess, put on a chariming smile and invite them aboad your private helicopter (note: forgot to mention you need to aquire one of these). Hold their hand as you fly above the city with the lights creating a gorgeous scene. Look them in the eyes and say
you: I love you too!
them: That makes me so Happ-
you: just kidding!
them: o_o
you: ^_^ *attach bungee cord to the confessor's leg and push them out*
them: WEEEEEE I TOTALLY FORGIVE YOU AND HARBOR NO ILL FEELINGS!
TOTALLY works every time! The simulations i'm running in my imagination tell me so
But won't they bounce back up on the bungee cord and get chopped by the propeller thing and cause you to crash.
the way i Reject people is by pulling a Napoleon Dynamite move and say gosh hell no i won't mary you and storm off with my hands flappin at my sides. THen i go draw some ligers cause thats my fave animal.
RaShayRitto
09-17-2009, 05:16 PM
But won't they bounce back up on the bungee cord and get chopped by the propeller thing and cause you to crash.
the way i Reject people is by pulling a Napoleon Dynamite move and say gosh hell no i won't mary you and storm off with my hands flappin at my sides. THen i go draw some ligers cause thats my fave animal.
actually thats impossible, physics says so
their fall begins from below the blades, even on the first bounce they wouldnt reach the same height they fell from.
but thats besides the point. go buy a helicopter so you can properly reject women. they deserve it
Yuuki Kurosu
09-17-2009, 05:21 PM
Well, I've only been in 3 relationships counting the one I'm in at the moment.
I've never been rejected, I guess I've just gotten lucky so far.
I have rejected people though..
But, being rejected.. I'd be kind of sad at first of course. But then I'd move on asap. Nothing you can do about it lol.
I love rejection, espesially when it happens to those "cool" guy wannabees who think they can get any women they want, seeing their faces when they get rejected is priceless, much respect for women who don't fall for those type of guys
Barcode.
09-17-2009, 08:41 PM
I wouldn't know because I've never been rejected before.
Seņor Nobody
09-18-2009, 08:18 AM
here's the best method for rejecting someone:
after they confess, put on a chariming smile and invite them aboad your private helicopter (note: forgot to mention you need to aquire one of these). Hold their hand as you fly above the city with the lights creating a gorgeous scene. Look them in the eyes and say
you: I love you too!
them: That makes me so Happ-
you: just kidding!
them: o_o
you: ^_^ *attach bungee cord to the confessor's leg and push them out*
them: WEEEEEE I TOTALLY FORGIVE YOU AND HARBOR NO ILL FEELINGS!
TOTALLY works every time! The simulations i'm running in my imagination tell me so
You forgot to add some supernatural being or firearms, thus it is doomed to fail.
Also, rejection is part of life. It may hurt now, but in a few years you'll forget the name of the boy/girl who rejected you.
Just hitch up your pants, adjust your arm-blades, and walk with pride.
SigmaSD
09-18-2009, 09:32 AM
Well I haven't really gotten rejected but I have been dumped (does that count as rejection?). Usually I try to talk it over and if there is a high chance that the relationship could continue, then I fight for that chance. If it doesn't work I usually just try to spend some time to myself and think things over.
Deathfinderxx
09-18-2009, 09:33 AM
Yea rejection sucks alot, i just delt with it like everything else and just slept it off. But now i got my girl and its all good ^.^ just keep trying ull find the girl sooner or later
Kingmelo15
09-18-2009, 09:55 AM
Dang it now i want a helichopter so i could try this new technique of rejection.
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