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~Shobu~
06-20-2008, 04:44 PM
I'm personally a yaoi/shounen-ai fan. I'd like to know who else in here is. If you don't like it then please don't go on a rant about it, pleasantly state the reason why.

+Namiko+
06-20-2008, 04:59 PM
I see nothing wrong with it, it depends on what you like. It is actually quite a popular topic amongst manga. I havent read any yet, I don't wanna get into any advanced romances. I like action, anyway. Plus, Shonen-Ai guys are hot. AND (added bonus) it's double the hottnes.

This is off topic, but who's on you avatar, it looks like Mello. Don't hurt me if I'm wrong, I'm a noob. Noobs are a protected species.

Mayonnaise-Senpai
06-20-2008, 11:02 PM
I hate yaoi. It should be illegal. Its annoying and dirty. Unless the characters are gay or bisexual in any way, thats when I'll do those pairings. But otherwise, I dislike yaoi AND YURI with a burning passion.

*Edit*: Just clarify things, my name doesnt mean Im putting Sanzo and Gojyo together. Ive seen that couple before and I find it awkward because Im a fangirl for both characters. So it wouldnt make much sense for me to do that. Just to make it clear ;D

Akihiko Yamamoto Hozagaki
06-20-2008, 11:37 PM
I hate yaoi. It should be illegal. Its annoying and dirty. Unless the characters are gay or bisexual in any way, thats when I'll do those pairings. But otherwise, I dislike yaoi AND YURI with a burning passion.

I like how your username is that of a yaoi fan girl's. Might want to be careful when putting Sanzo and Gojyo and <3 together ;3.

Anyway, I personally love yaoi. I'm not ashamed that I like it, but there is a part of me that is embarrassed. Not because of what it is, but because of what some of the fan girls are like. They sometimes make me face palm. Otherwise, I love the stuff. I used to be ashamed, like it was a n00bish thing, but now I couldn't care less.

Lavos
06-21-2008, 01:54 AM
I'm not a fan, but I am also a dude. Some of the yaoi fan girls are pretty darn scary. Others I have found to be really cool. Like all people, they come in many varieties.

Also, let's all play nice here. I'll be watching this thread.

>_>

<_<

law~
06-21-2008, 02:33 AM
I am open-minded :D
so I got nothing against it... even though I haven't actually seen or read any yaoi/shounen-ai anime/manga yet.

Well, I think ( I am sure :0) i saw some Loveless episodes before, but I dunno why I didn't finished the series.

Datenshi
06-21-2008, 04:26 AM
I'm not a fan of the genre, but I have reason to believe I'm fairly heterosexual so that's to be expected. I don't have any beef with yaoi/shounen-ai itself since a large number of males indulge in drawings of bishoujo, including myself, and it would be kind of like the pot calling the kettle black if I disapproved.

However, a lot of the situations and storytelling in BL tend to be even more outlandish than typical bishoujo fare bordering on outright stupid because of the unlikelihood of a coupling actually occuring. In short, like any other genre in any medium, there are a few quality works with a good plot and a plethora of utter garbage.

Haoie
06-21-2008, 06:03 AM
Not a fan.

I'll stick with regular porn, thanks.

~Shobu~
06-21-2008, 12:36 PM
I see nothing wrong with it, it depends on what you like. It is actually quite a popular topic amongst manga. I havent read any yet, I don't wanna get into any advanced romances. I like action, anyway. Plus, Shonen-Ai guys are hot. AND (added bonus) it's double the hottnes.

This is off topic, but who's on you avatar, it looks like Mello. Don't hurt me if I'm wrong, I'm a noob. Noobs are a protected species.

Yes it is Mello. ^_^ And don't trouble yourself with explaining the noob thing. I couldn't really tell either way. I love that last sentence you put. Hahaha!


I'm not a fan, but I am also a dude. Some of the yaoi fan girls are pretty darn scary. Others I have found to be really cool. Like all people, they come in many varieties.

Also, let's all play nice here. I'll be watching this thread.

>_>

<_<

Thanks ^_^() I didn't mean for this post to cause trouble if it is. Like I said before, don't lash out but pleasantly disagree with the topic. I'm not targeting you though SanzoGojyo, your post was decent.

Archaic Devices
07-02-2008, 04:31 PM
I love yaoi/shounen ai. It makes me all happy inside. =3

_Freddie_
07-02-2008, 09:47 PM
Yeah I'm a fan, in fact I need a favor.

I don't think it's topic worthy, and theres really no board to request it, so I'll just do it here.

Anyone know of a site that has some MelloXNear?

Dōjinshi is preferably what I'm looking for. Thanks.

Tsubaki Yoshikara
07-04-2008, 05:06 AM
I hate yaoi. It should be illegal. Its annoying and dirty. Unless the characters are gay or bisexual in any way, thats when I'll do those pairings. But otherwise, I dislike yaoi AND YURI with a burning passion.

*Edit*: Just clarify things, my name doesnt mean Im putting Sanzo and Gojyo together. Ive seen that couple before and I find it awkward because Im a fangirl for both characters. So it wouldnt make much sense for me to do that. Just to make it clear ;D

Just to make it clear...it's not illegal...it happens in reallife as well..It's just that they choose a guy over a girl...that doesn't make it illegal...
But if you can convince someone from the government or something to make it illegal, I'll go with you=.=" yeah..

For me, I think it's nothing wrong, and yaoi is supposed to be like that*you have to understand that yaoi is a bit more hardcore than BL/Shounen-ai. So ,don't watch it if you feel really uncomfortable with it...some people get really sick of it....but I think it's ok ...nothing wrong...It's just like falling in love with someone but it's just that they are of the same gender....

mississippibaby
07-09-2008, 06:12 PM
Im a big fan of it i think its ok it. but its not for everybody

LadyAssassin
07-09-2008, 06:17 PM
Personally i don't have a problem with it I'm open-minded about everything

Diocletian
07-09-2008, 06:52 PM
I'm not a yaoi fan since I'm a guy.I appreciate the stories.I don't watch the ones with sex.I watch the ones where they ACTUALLY have a STORY.Gravitation and Descendants Of Darkness,are the only ones I've seen.Venus In Love is a have love/gay kinda thing.

SSDynamite
07-12-2008, 01:52 PM
i don't have any issues with it. well, i don't read/watch any but I just prefer other series anyway. when my friend told me she read some i was a bit like o.o but once I got over it I realized it's not such a big deal. I mean, if it happens in real life then what's the problem with it being manga/anime?

jplaya828
07-12-2008, 09:31 PM
yaoi.... no thanks it kinda creeps me out....
reason:.. id rather not say

Evockzi
07-12-2008, 10:49 PM
Well blatantly I imagine straight men generally don't want to watch Men making out.. Can't say I really can put my self in Womens shoes since Yuri ( lesbian) is *drool* really really good... *cough* back on topic... So Ya cant really say how Women would feel Yaoi as Men may like Yuri, Generally speaking of course, at least from my Point of View.

aishiteru333
07-12-2008, 10:54 PM
I read my first two yaoi manga this past week and I've got to say the plots are awesome!
Manga fan now!!!

sataned
07-12-2008, 11:29 PM
No yaoi/shounen-ai for me thank you... im strait...
i dont mind a bit of the romance animes(i dont touch manga)... as long its male and female... not that im homophobe or anything... i just wouldnt want to get caught having or reading any of that stuff lol... my mother thinks im gay already because of meh gay friends...

Taikyo
07-12-2008, 11:34 PM
I say hell yes! <3 I'm a very big fan. Mostly all my friends are. (some guys, but they're not yaoi fans)
I know this is a touchy subject, but you just wanted to know, ya?
Glad to see another fan here. <3 <--- trust me there are a lot, from the old members when they were around.

Anuket
07-14-2008, 01:17 AM
Not a fan.

I'll stick with regular porn, thanks.



:yeahthat: That really got me laughing for 3 minutes!!!



Yaoi's not bad I have nothing against it.
Pretty open-minded here. Shounen-ai's really one of my fave!
But some fangurls sort of freak me out though.

Lamb's Lament
07-14-2008, 01:44 AM
Anyway, I personally love yaoi. I'm not ashamed that I like it, but there is a part of me that is embarrassed. Not because of what it is, but because of what some of the fan girls are like. They sometimes make me face palm. Otherwise, I love the stuff. I used to be ashamed, like it was a n00bish thing, but now I couldn't care less.


I feel the same as you, and yes some fan girls are very scary! :ninja:

Wio
07-14-2008, 07:07 AM
Yaoi inherently will have horrible plots with characters acting totally out of character. They tend to do the predictable "closet exit" stuff. I guess it's more effective to get wapan girls hot, but I don't see why normal hentai can't achieve this.

Atara Inferno
07-14-2008, 07:23 AM
Defo a YES!
Shounen-Ai is one of my favorite genre because they're usually sweet, so romantic and... so cute. And the guys... they make girls fall for them... I love Gravitation, Passion and Venus in Love. -Cough.- You could say I'm 'one of the fan girls' but I'm not THAT bad. Actually, I'm a big fan of Shounen-Ai as well as yaoi. Plus, I have nothing against yuri...

Cross Avantgarde
07-14-2008, 07:49 AM
Never heard of the stuff until I came here, but now that I've been "schooled" somewhat on the issue, I have to say that I totally disagree with it.

I don't mean to put out a double standard, so, for the record, I disagree with any kind of pornography, not just homoerotic pornography. I have been told that not all yaoi is pornographic; nevertheless, I still completely disagree with it.

Evockzi
07-14-2008, 11:26 AM
Yaoi would generally just be a male homosexual love story since Yuri is Lesbian, no Im not into it just clarifying but ya from what I know it would usually be sexually orientated, Shounen-ai on the other hand would be more of a Love story.

Memento Mori
07-14-2008, 11:34 AM
Yaoi has boys that are way too girly looking and flowery.

It's smut. It's bad. Young girls [Arrancar] should not be watching it.

Ok, I get you people all have different likes and dislikes.

But, I mean, come on. O_o

Two animated gay guys being animated gay guys?

Omgrofl tat's sooo kewl

~Shobu~
07-14-2008, 08:55 PM
I say hell yes! <3 I'm a very big fan. Mostly all my friends are. (some guys, but they're not yaoi fans)
I know this is a touchy subject, but you just wanted to know, ya?
Glad to see another fan here. <3 <--- trust me there are a lot, from the old members when they were around.

Oh sweet. ^_^ I didn't really know. To be honest, i thought this thread died but apparently not. I really did just want to know. I enjoy all this feeback I'm getting.

Aki_Saku
07-14-2008, 09:43 PM
I really don't like yaoi, but I don't mind shounen-ai.
Personally, I found yaoi a bit nauseating. I guess I really can't say much, since I've never read it, but the idea of two guys... Together... Really turns me off -_-

kaori_tenshi
07-15-2008, 12:10 PM
I perfer Shounen-Ai over Yaoi. Shounen-Ai just seems to have more of a meaning to me, though yaoi is okay.

I hate it when people say I am too young to have seen a yaoi anime. I mean, I am in high school now, and people my age already watch things they shouldn't...ah you know what I am trying to say. Well it's apart of growing-up. If you take it as a mature young adult, there is no problem with watching it. Ah whatever, I am confusing myself. -_-'

But shounen-ai for me over yaoi.

~Shobu~
07-15-2008, 01:19 PM
Never heard of the stuff until I came here, but now that I've been "schooled" somewhat on the issue, I have to say that I totally disagree with it.

I don't mean to put out a double standard, so, for the record, I disagree with any kind of pornography, not just homoerotic pornography. I have been told that not all yaoi is pornographic; nevertheless, I still completely disagree with it.


Respectable. ^_^ Thank you for your post.


Well blatantly I imagine straight men generally don't want to watch Men making out.. Can't say I really can put my self in Womens shoes since Yuri ( lesbian) is *drool* really really good... *cough* back on topic... So Ya cant really say how Women would feel Yaoi as Men may like Yuri, Generally speaking of course, at least from my Point of View.

Lol, that's true. We wouldn't expect you to. Thanks for sharing. ^_^

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So, I would just like to make it clear that I'm really appreciating the nice negative posts and positive posts, and that I'm not a crazy yaoi fan anymore. I still love both yaoi and shounen-ai but I'm not a rabid fangirl. Hahaha. Carry on! XD

Amray The II
07-15-2008, 02:44 PM
Being a male and all I personally dislike Yaoi, a lot. That is only natural. Although I absolutely adore Yuri. It's cuter, hotter, and you get some awesome scenes out of it. Ofcourse I speak of anime such as Strawberry Panic. That was just the cutest anime ever made. But Yaoi? No thankyou.

ichigoangel06
07-16-2008, 09:40 PM
i'm a very open person....so i personally am not disturb by it^^ i've seen Gravitation, Loveless, and some other ones.....i thought they were pretyy cute^^:p

lady_jesika
07-16-2008, 11:14 PM
im a fan of it, big fan if the truth be told, but i just dont think EVERY character of EVERY anime/videogame needs to be gay -.-

Faceless111
07-17-2008, 08:34 AM
I like neither. They are much too soft and pathetic, as much as anything having to deal with romance. And, being a male, I cannot see the appeal. It's not the fact that it deals with homosexuality, but I can't see why people like it. I would actually prefer more homosexual characters in a serious anime/manga. But I wouldn't like their sexual orientation or love interests to be the main plot. It'd be nice to see a gay giant robot pilot doing battle with a gigantic monster that threatens human civilization or a gay ninja slaying armies of hopeless soldiers that are protecting their territory.

Dxon
07-17-2008, 02:08 PM
Yaoi is wrong. Yuri is not.

Once again:
Most of the girls like yaoi.
Most of the boys like yuri.

Nuff said.

Dragonlady
07-17-2008, 05:03 PM
I'm not a fan girl but I do like yaoi/shounen-ai anime. In fact, even though it was only three episodes, one of my favorites is called Kizuna. It is one of the best comedy/romance animes that I have ever seen.

tenzo_groupie
07-17-2008, 07:57 PM
I dont mind reading Yaoi from time to time.

nekosenshi
07-18-2008, 02:22 PM
I think yaoi and yuri are both fine!

Diocletian
07-18-2008, 07:03 PM
I like Monochrome Factor so i can't judge.

Tsubaki Yoshikara
07-19-2008, 01:51 AM
*for everyone's information...
Yaoi-BL but including --- scenes....=="referred as hardcore.
Shounen-ai:BL...less ---kinda things...==

Girls are usually masterminds behind Yaoi and shounen-ai thingos. You see,girls will go like

Girl no.1:"OMG that guy is hot!!"
Girl no.2:"OMG that guy is hot too!!"
Both of them:"WHAT WILL YOU THINK THEY WILL DO IF THEY ARE TOGETHER?KYAA!!~~MAYBE-----"
okay...that's what my friends do.I am a yaoi/shounen ai fan but I'M DEFINITELY NOT I-IOTS LIKE THEM !!
Last time, i started a thread on Yaoi/shounen ai, Yuri/Shoujo-ai anime and manga recommendations. The Yaoi mangas were quite okay. As said by Amray, those are a few of his fav's. Anyway, just don't read or watch it if you aren't really comfortable with all those things. Just my little piece of advice xD

drm0ney
07-24-2008, 08:24 PM
I watch the ones where they ACTUALLY have a STORY.Gravitation and Descendants Of Darkness,are the only ones I've seen.Venus In Love is a have love/gay kinda thing.
:unsure: I'm sorry but I must correct...... Descendants of Darkness states in book one (runs off to room to check) page 69 and I quote "this isn't a yaoi comic". :closedeye

Anyway, after saying that, I LOVE YAOI!!!!!! When i turned 18 i had a BLAST getting stuff at cons.
I love BL, yaoi, shonen ai, all of it!!!! I have anime of it, manga of it, dojinshi of it, pc games of it etc. Not all of it is dirty smut stuff too, there are many that have great plot, Sukisho, Ai no Kusabi, Yellow they have great plot. Some are just down right dirty though. :D makes me happy.
And there are a who range of plots, any of the guys here know what kendo is? Kizuna(as stated) is a yaoi with the characters being very manly like, and just happen to like eachother!;)

hirokiaibalovex3
07-24-2008, 09:42 PM
I don't mind yaoi or shounen-ai, but I'm not a fan of it.

Otosu
07-24-2008, 10:29 PM
I personally love yaoi. The more hardcore the better. As for people who are obsessed with it, I think it is sad. Some of my friends have no life outside of yaoi and it's all they ever want to talk about. I find it not lawl.

As for yuri it's hard to find any good ones. But I don't mind them, either, though.

Some people frown upon both, and ridicule others for liking them, but whatever. I love it!

Sailor Mystery
07-24-2008, 10:51 PM
i'm a fan of it to a point. I dont go over board, but I have no problem with it. I mean it doesnt really matter to me. :)

Tomoyo01
07-25-2008, 02:40 AM
I don`t care. I`m not a fan of it and don`t mind it. I`m not interested in it

konata-dono
07-25-2008, 03:14 AM
hmm...im not so sure its like first you can't look at itthen you can't look away its hard to tell
BUT I HATE THE HARDCORE SEX!!
it bugs me
and i dont care its my opinion!!

Riina-chan
07-25-2008, 12:52 PM
Watched couple shounen ai anime... I think it's ok... XD Not really a fangirl or something... But sometimes the relationships are more interesting that straight ones... :P

But even though I love j-rock fanservice (band members kissing etc.) I don't love yaoi or shounen ai... XD Don't know why.... I guess it's the j-rockers... ;)

Exige
07-25-2008, 01:06 PM
I'm definitely not against it. ^^ Same goes for Yuri. Anime/Manga artwork is just beautiful, and male and female bodies are equally wonderful in general and I see no reason why not like it. Besides, like most guys like to see two hot girls together, why couldn't girls like to see two hot guys together? I say, Yaoi FTW =P

Screw
07-30-2008, 09:04 PM
yaoi....all set.

Yuri, i love it. The mellow stuff keeps me laughing and most of the stories are interesting.

october breath
07-31-2008, 01:16 PM
I used to think that I disliked it but recently found out that I don't. I just prefer muscline and muscline instead of the muscline and slim. It's hard to find stuff that has stuff like KOF or Street Fighter but I guess that wouldn't make it shounen ai anymore.

Akihiko Yamamoto Hozagaki
07-31-2008, 01:42 PM
I used to think that I disliked it but recently found out that I don't. I just prefer muscline and muscline instead of the muscline and slim. It's hard to find stuff that has stuff like KOF or Street Fighter but I guess that wouldn't make it shounen ai anymore.

If you like that, there's a genre of yaoi called "bara". Bara features masculine men if that's what you want.

Cellestro
07-31-2008, 01:44 PM
Hmm, I don't mind; I'm open minded...some of them are really cute/good, etc.

For example, Gravitation, which I LOVED and which was rather hillarious <3

Magelation
08-01-2008, 10:25 PM
What I was going to say was already stated by Pengin-san. Heh.


Anyway, I personally love yaoi. I'm not ashamed that I like it, but there is a part of me that is embarrassed. Not because of what it is, but because of what some of the fan girls are like. They sometimes make me face palm. Otherwise, I love the stuff.

SubarashiiNeko
08-02-2008, 02:14 AM
I love all the cute boys love stories. ^^ I've watched Gravitation and Loveless (Ritsuka and Soubi are probably my favorite couple) and I always try to browse through the boys love manga at the bookstore. The stories are just always so cute!

Lol.. I even have these. i couldn't help it XD
These (http://www.gesshoku.org/yaoi-boys-love-pin-set-p-66.html)

MomijiTMO
08-02-2008, 04:13 AM
Yes please with tomato sauce.

ria1
08-02-2008, 10:08 PM
I love Yaoi. So far, I've only seen Descendants of Darkness, which I thought was pretty good, if anyone would like to make any recommendations, please contact me.

Andrew Chernous
08-03-2008, 05:20 AM
compare to yaoi...i prefer yuri...
but i do like few story about yaoi...

SockChan
08-05-2008, 08:46 PM
*fangirl scream*

Aha, I just did that! xD