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Capernicus
05-02-2006, 01:28 AM
I come online. Or hug a pillow. Or punch everything within reach.

Celes Victoria
05-02-2006, 03:16 AM
i just read a book, or draw, or think about how to sort out the trouble ahead of me.

Ensiferum
05-02-2006, 06:07 AM
Depends what kind of lonely we're talking about, in general...I just come online, or play video games...or eat ><

The Wing Man
05-02-2006, 06:12 AM
I think alot, I just make up stuff and and do so many things with my mind.

Damon R.
05-02-2006, 07:08 AM
Brood. Not think. Get violent and punch the wall. Make impulsive decisions that land me a detention or a nice week of grounding. Write stories. Listen to music. Lurk in the hallways to scare the hell out of people-- yenno, the usual.

German_Sniper9
05-02-2006, 07:13 AM
depends on where i am, and why im lonely

Tsuna Kadiri
05-02-2006, 07:57 AM
Annoy my parents/brother. Listen to music.

If they aren't home, then I'll listen to some more music. xD

Light Guardian
05-02-2006, 08:38 AM
Well...when I'm lonly, than I listen music, play games, be online, draw or I train with my sword...

Kit Katy
05-02-2006, 08:41 AM
I ether get on the computer or sing random songs in my
room. With my door closed ofcourse.

YoKu
05-02-2006, 09:36 AM
I listen to System of a down, HIM, My chemical Romance. I listen to music.Very loud music. Cause it makes me happy. :awe: :awe:

Kaze_Ookami
05-02-2006, 10:46 AM
I listen to music (while I), draw, write, go online, annoy my brother (though that's not a good idea...)

lorie
05-02-2006, 10:50 AM
Listen to music, go read, watch t.v , go on the computer or exercise.

Ayame_Sohma
05-02-2006, 11:15 AM
Hello

If im feelin lonely i just hug my bf but if his not here i got this little teddy bear him gave to me so i hug that

Keyasaffection
05-02-2006, 11:27 AM
dance,music and yoga......

Music Fiend
05-02-2006, 02:41 PM
Hmm, let's see:

~ Chill online (I live on this site! O.O)

~ Take a walk

~ shoot some basketball

~ play video games

~ Listen to rap, rock, industrial, R&B, J-Pop or whatever music (OMG, no country! >_<)

~ Talk on the phone (or text message someone at night)

Mutsumi Anami
05-02-2006, 02:46 PM
umm get online, watch tv, listen to my fave music, sleeping, I hug my 17 year old teddy bear hehe!

PigFarts
05-02-2006, 02:54 PM
hmm...when I'm "lonely" or "alone?" well, either way, I might listen to music, watch a movie, go on the computer, or read.

bafflequeen
05-02-2006, 02:54 PM
go online, play video games, watch animes, listen to music, draw

g0d_of_death
05-02-2006, 03:01 PM
When I feel lonely...
Call my gf. If I'm at school I'll skip class to have lunch with her. If I'm home and my gf's busy then I'll listen to HIM most likely. But on very rare occasions do I feel lonely... (that doesn't mean I don't skip to see my gf though; just like today XDDD)

My friends can't make me feel too much better when I'm feelin lonely... they just annoy me. When I'm sad though, it's a completely different story... so again, lonely I need my gf :)

Sasaki_Kojiro
05-02-2006, 03:07 PM
drink all my sorrows away

Srien
05-02-2006, 03:12 PM
I don't really get lonely.

1. I get on the computer.

2. I go play basket ball.

3. I find someone to play or talk to.

4. I go to the mall.

5. I find a game to play.

fluffy-love
05-02-2006, 03:19 PM
Ahm, I've never been terribly lonely so I'm only stating what I do when I'm bored.
1. Go on internet (for like, five zillion hours. @o@)
2. Watch T.V.
3. Play PSP
4. Draw
5. Read

The usuals, ne? ^-^

Trinity Muse
05-02-2006, 03:24 PM
1. I go online and talk to Sayoran. (Thanks, bro <3)
2. I eat yoghurt.
3. Talk to mah teddy bear...(Or write my diary.)

ZG~

Baka
05-02-2006, 03:34 PM
I go online or talk to somebody. If I can't do that then I will read manga or watch television.

Marie2007
05-02-2006, 03:42 PM
I usually write,play guitar,browse the web,draw or play videogames

Chaux
05-14-2006, 03:59 AM
i go find some bordom buster,
or typically, go climb a tall tree.
and then i will very lkely fall asleep. XD

Seldrima
05-14-2006, 05:01 AM
When i'm lonely I...

1) Phone my friend
2) Talk to my online buddies <3[If they're online of course xD]
3) Cook random things[Usually cakes brownies etc. :D]
4) Read non stop
5) Hug my pillow and think
6) Do my tarot cards or read my palmistry book =D

The Kid
05-14-2006, 08:51 AM
go on the compy
talk on the phone

ichorous
05-14-2006, 09:03 AM
._. hm.
I read, and go on long walks.
I'm alone pretty often (read always xD) so i don't really know what I'm doing when I'm not. Uh.
...That sounded beyond pitiful. -.-;;

Capn_Stikkie
05-14-2006, 09:08 AM
i Come online and listen to music or i read a book or i just sit on my bed and think

Sailor Lunar Eclipse
05-14-2006, 12:50 PM
I listen to music
Draw
Go online
Think
Read
Sleep
Cry
Whine
Complain

Cerise Citron
05-14-2006, 01:05 PM
I'd have to say that when I'm lonely, I lose myself in thought. I think about the ones that make me feel so lonely and whatnot. Also, I sing or write. Normally, for writing, I write journal entries or poetry. Sometimes songs. But normally, I'm lonely feeling at the late hours of the night when I'm in bed... so I close my eyes and let myself cry.

souske
05-14-2006, 01:27 PM
Well I go upstairs to my attic and meditate for while. I'll also draw while i'm at it. But mostly I'll just stay quiet and think about my past.

Hinata767
05-14-2006, 02:20 PM
well I know how it feels to be lonley...anyway when Im lonley I go online and chat with my friends*if there on*or I just draw out my feelings on paper..I do many more things to....

KRPrincess24
05-14-2006, 02:30 PM
I would either go on the computer or listen to music draw or write a story yeah pretty much those things

MSCBrock
05-14-2006, 02:34 PM
-listen to music
-go on the computer
-write

stuff like dat i guess

Ganerien_5
05-15-2006, 09:53 AM
oh i when i be lonely....of course i draw.Because when i draw i by happy:D :D :D :D

Martherus
05-15-2006, 10:27 AM
When I'm lonely;
~ I go online and talk to my friends (if they are online)
~ I listen to a lot of music (even those I don't like xD)
~ I draw..
~ Myeah, take long walks jep ^^

Kira_yamato69
05-15-2006, 10:28 AM
I site on the couch and eat Ice cream!

PleilA
05-15-2006, 09:12 PM
when u are lonely and cant talk to anyone, all u need is a computer, talk on forums , or on chat, that simple

Opinionated
05-15-2006, 09:16 PM
Either I start plotting out my next RPG post, work on stories, sit around the forums waiting for something interesting, or just think. I know, it's a bad habit, but it's the thinking that's addicted to me.

Sifter
06-04-2006, 11:57 AM
Well, when I'm lonely I'll read a book. If it's a good book it'll ingulf you in it's plot and you won't seem to remember your own problems. (I think that's why I read so much)

If I've read everything in my house, then I'll go for a long walk or bike ride (unless it's winter time, then I'll go to my room and sleep for long periods of time)

Sagat
06-04-2006, 12:18 PM
I have to keep busy. I cannot stand having too much time.. I was bored for awhile but the future looks promising.. archery, jiujitsu, Ironman training (6-9:30am every day) with maybe some weights after work, moving into my house soon that's going to occupy me... And of course, video games, tv, internet and reading - just picked up Da Vinci code and that other one ... Angels and Demons or something?

Type A personality I guess?

Crimson Phoenix
06-04-2006, 01:23 PM
lets see...when lonely I start thinking.. then I start reading... then I go into my AMV's.... then I go into my animes.... then I start wandering around town (even though if youname a spot in town I can tell you the fastest shortcut).... and if that all fails, I find onee of my friends to yack with for awhile... and if that still fails, I come here....

IceDragon_1552
06-04-2006, 02:04 PM
I usually go online, read, or just lie down on my bed/couch and think. Or stare at my bedroom ceiling (it's blue! =D).

ChaosAlchemist
06-04-2006, 05:36 PM
I either draw or just sit around and think to myself

Zoma the Forsaken
06-04-2006, 05:42 PM
I usually mope or sit and think

chiifanloversis
06-04-2006, 05:46 PM
it depends on what kind of loneliness it is...if its a depressing lonesome thing then i cut myself or cry in my closet
regular lonesome i draw go online or call my bf on the phone and listen to him telling me he loves me lol ^ ^

chii-fan-lover
06-04-2006, 05:50 PM
i darw, punch things, or cut my teddy bear open

Kagami67
06-04-2006, 06:07 PM
I usually have a marathon of some sort. It's usually Batman: The Animated Series, anime, video games, or I just get on the internet.

Lucidian Dyne
06-04-2006, 07:39 PM
Some of these posts sound like things people do on a regular basis rather than out of loneliness.

When I get lonely, I sit outside on the porch and look out into the woodland scenery. Not actually soaking it in, though -- I use the time to think about anything, or nothing at all. Something close to like... life's big questions, scandalous government issues, how my nieces and nephews are doing. Stuff like that. Or, I shut myself down and just sit. It's righteous.

Eris
06-04-2006, 07:44 PM
I contemplate.

greenfalloutdude41
06-04-2006, 07:47 PM
Oh, well there's that thing dudes do when they've got no girlfriend and also I listen to music.

[Boolean]
06-04-2006, 08:37 PM
First of all...lonely is practically a foreign word to me, because I'm just fine by myself until weekends. But when I do feel so, I just call someone, go on the computer, draw, or play videogames.

_Anonymous_
06-04-2006, 09:45 PM
Hm... brood, draw, write, read, get online... go outside and think... and then get scared of the evil tiki men in the grass :confused:

LittleMomo
06-04-2006, 09:54 PM
Go online, listen to music, meditate, sleep and dream, play Devil May Cry 3/ video games. ^ ^ Pretty much, if there's homework, I'll do that and finish it.

horo-horo
06-04-2006, 11:26 PM
I go online but if there is nobody online too,I'm getting sort of depressive.I think about deep question.I listen quiet music and i sleep.

Cat_Demon
06-04-2006, 11:37 PM
Ahh...this would depend on what type of lonely, if I purposely did this to myself to isolate me i would take my anger out on something, but if i was lonely lonely (lol sorry if that makes no sense) i usually talk to the few people on here who i care about (dont get me wrong i love you all and everything but i care about someothers more) or i talk to my best friend

____
06-05-2006, 12:17 AM
I either:
1.) Space out
2.) Read
3.) Write/Draw
4.) Play my musical instruments
5.) Come online and talk to people

/Aifa|
06-05-2006, 04:23 AM
I just deal with it. If i need help then ill just surround myself with things to do and some friends.

You get used to it i guess. Some people cant handle loneliness as much as others.

Kurumirina
06-05-2006, 04:49 AM
Well If I'm alone then....
1.Read a Book
2.Go Online to Play Games
3.Chat
4.Sleep

S o l o
06-05-2006, 05:50 AM
Draw or read

Uno_Caste
06-05-2006, 06:07 AM
Random things depending on the cause of loneliness.

VARLY
06-05-2006, 06:16 AM
do anything I can do
But most of the time I do things alone
yet I don't feel lonely
so maybe that's not it ^_^"

Usagi18
06-05-2006, 09:45 AM
I write poems.

dna_angel
06-05-2006, 10:08 AM
uHmmm. ^_^

+waLking tiLL i get tiRed tHen i sLeep... it'S wEird
+taLking/textiNg with my bEstfriend
+i taLk tO my seLf... bUt i'M nOt CRAZY, i juSt waNted tO pUt away aLL thE LONELINESS
+i sHout... wHere tHerE iS nO pipOL aRound mE...
+i huG mY piLLow...

THAT'S ALL...

animeangellover
06-25-2006, 05:18 PM
dont know im usually never lonley, but i guess read manga

Beautiful_Disaster
06-25-2006, 05:23 PM
Um...just go on the internet or aim if no one is using the computer

Warrior5thelement
06-25-2006, 05:27 PM
draw or listen to music

yami hatake
06-25-2006, 05:42 PM
when I get lonely I either get on the computer..draw..or sleep..

Faceless111
06-25-2006, 06:04 PM
If I enjoy solitude, then am I truly lonely? I consider it a blessing.

Usagi18
06-26-2006, 01:08 PM
Read, read, read, read, read, read, read

Vel
06-26-2006, 03:26 PM
I watch anime, talk to online mates, listen to music, play video hames. Nothing special. Sometimes I write my own stories or fanfics about anime characters.

lex__luthor
06-26-2006, 10:33 PM
i go online think about cough cough girls

Cantelope
06-26-2006, 10:39 PM
Do you REALLY want to know?

Yasha San
06-26-2006, 10:44 PM
hey what i do is play vidoe games and try not to think about how lonely iam ! try to forget that im never there ,i go online and mess with people or kill someone online go listen to music , and i hope anytime your alone you can pm me and i'll hangout with you and be your friend around the forum i kno whats it like to be alone and i hate it! >.<

lucky leprachaun
06-26-2006, 11:14 PM
i play DDR to keep my mind off stuff... like being lonely.T.T

inuyasha_lover7089
06-26-2006, 11:41 PM
watch anime

Prophet of Death
06-27-2006, 12:33 AM
watch anime
Same

Sinnaku
06-27-2006, 02:35 AM
Aha! i'm never alone. I always have a mysterious monkey making me laugh.

But when i'm by myself I work on my manga project, write a riff on the guitar, play some video games or sleep.

Or I just watch Viva La Bam.

Daimasukí
06-27-2006, 07:48 AM
I snuggle with my sweetness and keep each other warm.

Capernicus
07-26-2006, 03:34 PM
(bump)

Watch anime? Like romance anime? Because that never helps me...

Sasuke is God
07-26-2006, 03:41 PM
Play my guitar or train...hard!!

Raye_Chan
07-26-2006, 05:37 PM
Ill Read a book, play video games or listen to music

Riyokin
07-26-2006, 05:41 PM
When I'm lonely I usually work on my story, or email my girlfriend. Go online and play MapleStory, yeah I know its kinda childish but its a break from blood and gore games. I also write... ALOT... So im usually lonely if im by myself

FierceFeli.
07-26-2006, 05:55 PM
1. Stay by the computer
2. Draw
3. Play piano or flute (I dont like to practise when there are many ppl in my house)
4. Clean my room
5. Make up myself as bad as I would never be able to walk out with it ^^
7. Try my clothes and mix up some different styles for the coming days

Sega saturn x
07-26-2006, 08:40 PM
Alone you say? Hmmmmm...*fap fap fap fap*

None of the above
07-27-2006, 04:40 AM
watch anime
I do the same, and play a game, read a book or do something else

Rin!
07-27-2006, 04:43 AM
I look for a new song that just says to you 'Its not depressing sad but its happy and it makes me cry' Listen to it over and over until I know every single word.

Linegod
07-27-2006, 04:49 AM
I usually make games and reading books ... hepi with my life, I am...

Death_Princess
07-27-2006, 10:09 AM
I write poetry, songs, and sometimes I write in my journal. It helps to write how you feel, I should know...Anywho, writing, drawing, talking, and typing. Thats what I do.

Paloma_chan
07-27-2006, 11:25 AM
When I feel lonely,I surf online,listen to music or play with my little cats.

Katrina_Survivor2
07-27-2006, 11:35 AM
I usually just get on the internet. Or listen to Reel Big Fish. Ska is my feelgood music.

pyrothunder336
07-27-2006, 11:37 AM
I just work out or play video games. Basically anything that can keep my mind off of it. It never works for long though.

ShadowtheWarWolf
07-27-2006, 03:46 PM
I'd lay in bed and listen to depressing music. Either that, or find someone to talk to.

Daimasukí
07-27-2006, 08:30 PM
get online and roam around, work out, take a nap, go for a walk, play soccer or the b-ball, go out side and sit on the porch and just look around.

Dun Loireag
07-29-2006, 01:49 PM
Music + drawing = Love.

Aurion the Fallen
07-29-2006, 02:34 PM
Watch or read Elfen Lied, write, workout. Something to keep the mind occupied off of thinking. Thinking makes things worse. When I get really lonely, crying may happen.

~Emma~
07-29-2006, 02:44 PM
- Write another chapter of my fanfiction
- Practice some Karate moves (I've got a tournament coming up soon :crossfing)
- Lie down and think about stuff
- Ring friends up
- Try and add more stuff to my forum
- Listen to music
- Draw
- Read
- Sit outside and chill XP
- Watch TV

Those are a few things I might do when I'm lonely.

Thousand Eyes
07-29-2006, 04:22 PM
I'm almost always alone, but rarely lonely. However, when I do get lonely, I just play video games or study.

`*({Ai Mimori})*
07-30-2006, 08:17 PM
just think or listen to music or like go outside and take longg walksz nd idk

Master Wu
07-30-2006, 08:21 PM
No..... No, you don't want me to put what I do when i am lonely on here.

Athena
07-30-2006, 08:35 PM
When i am lonely...i listen to songs and dream that im the singer in the songs...i also read or go on the computer...

Tetsanosuke
07-30-2006, 08:52 PM
When I'm lonely, I either pull out my bokken and train, or I play a videogame. Maybe call up friends at times....

I don't like that feeling...

Beowulf546
07-30-2006, 08:58 PM
when im lonely i play a game or go hit the punching bag. Or go back to the gym.

deathelf
07-31-2006, 07:14 AM
sometimes i would practice kendo or call my girlfriend or play video games... lately tv sucks there isn't anything good on when i feel like watching tv.

Uno_Caste
07-31-2006, 07:21 AM
When feel like lonely, I try to imagine and fantasize of something really cool and fun. But, sometimes I end up thinking deep(an image of her, mah :love: pops out)and then whats strange is a mix emotion of loneliness and happiness strikes out! Freakin' weird, right? But, that's just what happens. xD

Grim Scythe
07-31-2006, 07:30 AM
i make something out of twist ties (dont ask )
read
draw
video games
tv
ummm music
sleep
think

Uno_Caste
07-31-2006, 07:47 AM
And usual times when I'm lonely I do either one of these:

Turn on music and play my fave songs.
Watch my anime dvd's.
Find someone to chat with either on the phone or internet.
Play video games.
Eat and eat until I'm full. xD
Go to my friends house.
Take a nightwalk!
And like I mentioned imagine of something fun and cool and even weird thoughts.
Or go to sleep.^^

Usagi18
07-31-2006, 05:55 PM
Read

iSaBeLiTa
07-31-2006, 07:13 PM
i use to listen some music in a dark room and think about millions of things

sadida
07-31-2006, 07:35 PM
I listen to music (how original), but first i try to call a friend, but that never works cuz when i'm feeling the suckiest is when i can never reach her. Figures. So thats where the radio in my room comes in.

Bucky Katt
07-31-2006, 07:49 PM
When I'm lonely, I imagine how I feel if I were with him...And if that doesn't work, I take my BB gun and go out for a little rendezvous with a coupla empty Coca-Cola cans.

Warning: Do not be with Sayoko while she is in the prescence of a BB gun and Coca-Cola cans! Side effects may include bleeding and having the pain of removing a BB from your gut.

virginanimelover
07-31-2006, 08:45 PM
I hate it that people have to go through lonliness. :( But everyone feels it at times, and a lot of the times I'd want to help someone through it, but I'm not sure how. And whenever I'm feeling lonely, I just end up thinking a lot. Or I go on the internet. But if you're talking about the kind of emptiness that someone feels when they just want someone close to them; to be able to just share all secrets with them without having the worry of being judged (I guess like a soul mate), then I definitely end up just thinking.

As for lonliness when you just want someone to talk to, I either go on-line, or I harrass my friends :P , or I keep my mind occupied by doing little inane things. These range from housework (yes, that's how bored I've gotten. ^^) to writing, singing, and ....thinking some more. :\

Having a pet helps the lonliness, too. I don't know what I'd do without them. They're like family to me. <3

<:*sakura~chan*:>
07-31-2006, 09:09 PM
i just listen to music or go outside and play b-ball.

Sagat
07-31-2006, 09:14 PM
When I'm lonely, I imagine how I feel if I were with him...And if that doesn't work, I take my BB gun and go out for a little rendezvous with a coupla empty Coca-Cola cans.

Warning: Do not be with Sayoko while she is in the prescence of a BB gun and Coca-Cola cans! Side effects may include bleeding and having the pain of removing a BB from your gut.
I have three rifles and a composite bow.. It's time to upgrade to a new expression of rage, Sayoko

XSelymSivadX
07-31-2006, 09:24 PM
i go online and talk to girtastic or beutiful disaster. other than that i take the time to think about my life.

hameht
07-31-2006, 10:51 PM
Many things...


1. Listen to music.
2. Watch TV
3. Go on the interweb.
4. Rent a movie.
5. Take a walk.
6. Eat.
7. Go to the arcade.
8. Dance.
9. Think.
10. Write.
11. Call someone to come over or do something.

Slayerfan
07-31-2006, 11:27 PM
When am i not lonely *sigh*:|

Listen to music over and over
Draw
Watch vidis on youtube
Go on the computer
Think to myself
Go out to eat something
Watch some tv on the floor until i fall asleep
Read old e-mails my once gf sent me
eat ALOT
Buy stuff, cd's, clothes ect
Lay in bed and sulk
Memorize lyrics to songs
Look for bands to listen to
Put in some of my rock tapes and watch the concert footage
Read a couple of my Punk Rock Confidential Magazines

Sinnaku
07-31-2006, 11:51 PM
Slayer buddy, cheer up my man.

Master Of Shred
08-01-2006, 12:29 AM
Listen to music, practice guitar, watch TV, watch some concert DVDs.

"lotus alchemist"
08-01-2006, 12:52 AM
When I'm lonely.. I look up and see my beautiful star above me and talk to that star^_^ *clear throat* not exactly, what I mean is just talk.. whisperin.. like that^_^ or inside my room.. reading, drawing, playing my guitar.. things that keeps me busy^_^..

der Scharfschüt
08-01-2006, 01:07 AM
Actually I work out, I'm not sure why but I always feel better after I do, I know its wierd but it works for me.(I'm telling random people on the internet stuff I won't even say to my closest friend lol)

Luzifer
08-01-2006, 01:23 AM
I've gotten used to it... but on those brief spells I do work. Be it physical training or studying...

Bucky Katt
08-01-2006, 12:23 PM
I have three rifles and a composite bow.. It's time to upgrade to a new expression of rage, Sayoko
Oh, how I'd love to upgrade. But, I have to wait a while longer 'til I get a license to have a -real- gun. -.Stupid child protection laws.-

The Governator
08-01-2006, 12:53 PM
I just do what I do all the time because I'm lonely all the time.

deadman
08-01-2006, 12:56 PM
I just pot in a game and play to my hearts content.

Ami~chan
08-02-2006, 12:10 AM
Umm, well, I just try to talk to someone. If all else fails, I'll play a video game, or read a book.

There's always something to do.

Mumitroll
08-02-2006, 10:50 AM
I almost never feel lonely..too busy for it :)

When I do, I usually go out for a nice run with some sprints and shadowboxing...like any substantial physical stress, it helps free happiness hormones like endorphines, and makes one feel much more hyper after :)

blackjak007
08-02-2006, 11:11 AM
Sleep... or come online... or fall asleep when Im online.