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ranma_my_luv
09-04-2005, 10:20 PM
now if ur a girl u can understand where im comin from. i have always wondered what do guys look for in girls. what do u like about us? what do u consider sttractive? i have alwaya thought of myself some what pretty, but no guy has, and i wanna know y. so help me out!!!:D please?
Yojimbo51
09-04-2005, 10:22 PM
Post a picture and i can tell you why.
ranma_my_luv
09-04-2005, 10:23 PM
i cant my lame computer wont work :( and thanx for the encouragement T.T
Masali
09-04-2005, 10:26 PM
what do we want? well the shallower of us want sex and good looks.
and the less shallow want a personality, sex, and good looks.
we're not to hard to figure out.
ranma_my_luv
09-04-2005, 10:28 PM
what do we want? well the shallower of us want sex and good looks.
and the less shallow want a personality, sex, and good looks.
we're not to hard to figure out.the question was more of a ''what do u consider to b 'good looks' "?
-Batman-
09-04-2005, 10:42 PM
What we consider good looks.... Well...i'll be honest with you.
Most guys like figures, and flawless skin(well..close to flawless, NO ONE has flawless skin). Not that the figure has to be flawless...but don't let yourself go either.
as for what i fine attractive? If i said i would offend most of the girls on this forum and most likly get myself banned.
sjøpølse
09-04-2005, 10:43 PM
I personally look for respectable rhetorical abilities, including both written and spoken aspects.
Marie2007
09-04-2005, 10:43 PM
i think really all we girls want is someone who can make us smile and laugh and be there when we need them most but guys dont do that they disappear right before our eyes
-Batman-
09-04-2005, 10:44 PM
@ dandy-chan:forgot about that... Most girls in my school are about as smart as a tree stump.
and not every guy will up and leave you when they finish with you. Only the total assholes.
pyrothunder336
09-04-2005, 10:45 PM
That's kind of hard to explain. I think long hair, (some can pull short hair off but not many) clear face(little to no acne), small nose, and nicely matured(if you know what i mean). Her personaily should be nice and she should be able to joke around.
Tragedy
09-04-2005, 10:46 PM
to answer the good looks
most men look for
close to perfect face
fit trim body
breast
firm butt
long legs
alot of guys like blonde hair too
anyway
hope that helps
Masali
09-04-2005, 10:47 PM
and girls in my school are nonexistant.
Im in a all boys school.
but girls in general have an IQ of slightly more than a treestump. I think we're talking "box of cereal" here.
ranma_my_luv
09-04-2005, 10:48 PM
That's kind of hard to explain. I think long hair, (some can pull short hair off but not many) clear face(little to no acne), small nose, and nicely matured(if you know what i mean). Her personaily should be nice and she should be able to joke around.THEN WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME?!?!!?! *cries*
lordraziel
09-04-2005, 10:48 PM
well me im one of the guys that dont really care about looks i would like a lady to just act herself you know one that can be cool fun to chill with u know a lady that i can talk and tell almost everything thats just me though some guys ok alot of guys dont think this but there are them out there but watch out for the fakes they play on like they do and that where you can get hurt as masali said some of us are shallow some os us are only after looks and sex always but thats just me and my thoughts on this and i would like to see alot more guys relpy to this thread
cowboydemon666
09-04-2005, 10:53 PM
That's kind of hard to explain. I think long hair, (some can pull short hair off but not many) clear face(little to no acne), small nose, and nicely matured(if you know what i mean). Her personaily should be nice and she should be able to joke around.I have a big nose and short hair XP hehe
And also, not all girls are as dumb as a tree stump... though I'm a very bad example... heh...
Lets just say I'm not the brightest bulb...
ranma_my_luv
09-04-2005, 10:56 PM
I have a big nose and short hair XP hehe
And also, not all girls are as dumb as a tree stump... though I'm a very bad example... heh...
Lets just say I'm not the brightest bulb...ZI don't know ur pretty smart, although at least u dont have esisopes, and u dont ask 'wheres the butter? wheres the popcorn?' lmfao sry ppl inside jokes
picano
09-04-2005, 10:57 PM
It would help if ya gave a bit of a detailed description on what you look like since ya can't provide pics.
But... your prolly not gonna find a one fits all description of what guys find attractive in a girl.
For me... I say...
-Long Hair (Sometimes short does work, have to be pretty cute to pull that off) Color don't matter.
-Breasts... not some giants... I kinda fear the large ones >.>
-Makeup... little if any, I hate seeing blue on the eyes and huge darkened eye lashes...
-Height... a little shorter if not on par with mine!
-Intelligence... can't say, no real stand point. Just not near SPED level I hope.
-Interests... Video Games, Anime, and Scifi!
cowboydemon666
09-04-2005, 10:59 PM
ZI don't know ur pretty smart, although at least u dont have esisopes, and u dont ask 'wheres the butter? wheres the popcorn?' lmfao sry ppl inside jokesUh... I guess thats true... But thats only 'cause Riley's just plain stupid sometimes.... hehe.
I might be pretty smart, but I'm not pretty... At least I dont think so. *sigh*
ranma_my_luv
09-04-2005, 11:01 PM
It would help if ya gave a bit of a detailed description on what you look like since ya can't provide pics.
But... your prolly not gonna find a one fits all description of what guys find attractive in a girl.
For me... I say...
-Long Hair (Sometimes short does work, have to be pretty cute to pull that off) Color don't matter.
-Breasts... not some giants... I kinda fear the large ones >.>
-Makeup... little if any, I hate seeing blue on the eyes and huge darkened eye lashes...
-Height... a little shorter if not on par with mine!
-Intelligence... can't say, no real stand point. Just not near SPED level I hope.
-Interests... Video Games, Anime, and Scifi!omg! i havelong hair! im not a double d, but im not an A either! i dont wear make up, maybe lip gloss!im 5' 2! im some what intelligent! and i like anime and scifi!
The bad language is not necessary. Thanks.
lordraziel
09-04-2005, 11:09 PM
well maybe ranma_my_luv the guys your around dont appreciate someone like you and you need to start lookin else where
Darrmyth
09-04-2005, 11:19 PM
Mostly the personality of girl and some degree of good look's but Beauty is also on the inside. so mostly the personality.
ranma_my_luv
09-04-2005, 11:42 PM
Mostly the personality of girl and some degree of good look's but Beauty is also on the inside. so mostly the personality.well obviously i have some personality if made this thread, im crazy enough xD!!!
Marie2007
09-04-2005, 11:48 PM
yeah see that is what ticks us girls off u guys base a girl on her looks not her personality
-Batman-
09-04-2005, 11:56 PM
You do realize however, that half of the times when a guy says personality, it's a lie that they tell you because they know it's what you want to hear.
ChaosShadow
09-04-2005, 11:58 PM
I like girls who are kind, honest and easy to talk to. As for the looks part, that doesn't matter to me cause it's who yuu are as a person that i care about. I know that sounds lame but you have these girls who are really georgous, but are too uptight and selfish because they think they are all that.
Marie2007
09-04-2005, 11:58 PM
that maybe true but they should base us on our personality but not on our looks
ranma_my_luv
09-05-2005, 12:03 AM
okay, well now im even more confzzled cause i am most of everything that has been listed (i dont like video games), yet no one has ever liked me as more than a friend :( i am so confused o.0
cowboydemon666
09-05-2005, 12:10 AM
Are you kidding??? I LOVE VIDEO GAMES!!!!! Eh.... sorry, sorta off topic there.... eheheh...
-Batman-
09-05-2005, 12:11 AM
well..do you invite them? i'm a very negative person(if you can't tell) causing me to drive everyone away...however you seem very spunky. Maybe your trying to attract the wrong guys, or perhaps you come on too strong. You could also be assertive...there are PLENTY of guys out there who like women who can kick their ***. Just find a guy you like, and get to know him very well...well enough to get into his head and know what he's thinking.You should have no problems at that point...just don't be so willing to do everything for a guy...
Edit: That was to Ranma btw
Keitaru-san
09-05-2005, 12:17 AM
everyone have different taste, but i guess i know your trouble it is becouse you are to nice they consider you as friend, i like girls...well im not gonna say but if you like a boy try to find out what he likes and also dont dont be very friendly, and keep some of your self to your self(i mean let him want more)(oh and i dont mean THAT i mean about your personality) let him come for more and dont reject him to much either or he'll give up.
cowboydemon666
09-05-2005, 12:17 AM
Yeah, actually I can be negative sometimes too... And a bit too literal and sarcastic... Thats probably why not many people like me... Now I understand everything... One year too late *sigh*
ranma_my_luv
09-05-2005, 12:21 AM
well..do you invite them? i'm a very negative person(if you can't tell) causing me to drive everyone away...however you seem very spunky. Maybe your trying to attract the wrong guys, or perhaps you come on too strong. You could also be assertive...there are PLENTY of guys out there who like women who can kick their ***. Just find a guy you like, and get to know him very well...well enough to get into his head and know what he's thinking.You should have no problems at that point...just don't be so willing to do everything for a guy...
Edit: That was to Ranma btwthats good advice! i think i will try that....mwahahahahaha..lol jk but i will try that and trust me i can kick manny a guys *** xD
DarkPrinceBman
09-05-2005, 01:35 AM
Well lets see what i look for person....I dont really preffere any gender over another....
I dont want a person that smiles alot....I want a person that seems to only say what is important...and will not lie to me. I know that helping words arent always kind so i base my prefrence to those that will give me a peice of there mind. Scars and tattoos are a plus for me but it doesnt really matter....in the end....its what i feel just looking away from you is what matters (if you dont get what that means im sorry but i speak poeticly way to much)
S_C_L-1
09-05-2005, 01:50 AM
Ok, but dont flamme me if any 1 gets offended!
as far as the body goes... for the breasts, if it doesnt fit in the hands, there's too much :P and your better off having a "big" *** than a boney 1 (seriously... it REALLY hurts when a girl sits on u with a boney ***...)
The anorexic look will make most guys sick to their stomacs... but then again... ok, lemme put it this way... all you girls out there that wear those tight shirts... but its so tight it makes fat stick out the sides... your not helping yourselves... wear something more comfortable and it'll already b a big improvement!
Thin girls + baggy clothes = bad
Thick girls + tight clothes = bad
with me so far?
personnallity-wise, thats more of a personnal thing... but as a rule of thumb, guys like women who are playful, have a sens of humour, are outgoing and confident in themselves... Ruff-housing with a guy will earn you lots of points! (and can get you into certain situations... :D)
but 1 thing that most women do that hurts their chances... is they all play hard to get... guys dont want to have to fight over you... and PLZ drop the knight in shinning armor fantasy! it'll make you alcoholic!
And for all you guys reading this, dont b sooo needy! when she's talking to you, dont look at her breasts, dont think to yourself "wow she smells nice"... listen! L-I-S-T-E-N!!!! daydreams are for alone time! And seriously, you have more to offer a woman than dinner at a restaurant and tickets to movies! so to hell with those! what do you enjoy more? being with her, or an overly-priced miso-soup?
ok i think thats enough for now... (ill quit while i still have a head :P)
bakakame
09-05-2005, 01:52 AM
hmm.... well, I don't know how many guys think the same way I do, but the traits I find attractive and not are.....
Skin - Attractive: Clear, smooth
Unattractive: Tan (slight tan is easy to overlook, but really all tanning does is add years to appearance. less is better)
Hair - Attractive: Shoulder-length or longer. Clean
Unattractive: Dying, heavy fragrance, excessive styling
Body - Attractive: Slightly shorter than me, maybe an inch or 2. Slender, but not skinny, and overall healthy appearance.
Unattractive: .... well I'll leave out this area to avoid sounding like any more of an *** than I already sound.
*sidenote* To me, 'size' doesn't have a great impact, but prefer less to more.
Personality - Attractive: sence of humor, lot's of kindness and forgiving nature, someone with lot's of energy but not outwardly hyper, and preferably someone who likes me for me.... probably why I'm still alone *tears*
Unattractive: snobby, stuck-up, overly hyper, excessivly flirty, and others I can't really put into words with my limited language skill.
Well, like I said, these are just my personal preferances. I'd immagine that they are rare, otherwise there would probably be very few guys out there with friends.
DarkPrinceBman
09-05-2005, 01:55 AM
Well honesty is a great factor that most people should either gain or nurish....S C L-1 is an example of the personalty i like there are different kind of guys out there just take time to know
S_C_L-1
09-05-2005, 02:09 AM
Well honesty is a great factor that most people should either gain or nurish....S C L-1 is an example of the personalty i like there are different kind of guys out there just take time to know
Honesty is a gamble really... ive had my nose broken for beeing honest...
Now, if your IN a relationship, thats a whoal other thing... and the mistakes made IN relationships are even dumber and more numerous than when trying to get a relationship...
dont you hate it when ppl change when your in a relationship with em? well guess what... you change 2. case in point, deal with it. or better yet, talk about it! and communication is only called talking under a certain # of Decibels (was gonna put DB, but thats not a good idea in an anime forum :P)...
give each other some room... if your bf/gf wants to go c his/her friends, let them... go c your friends... you wont break up because you spent 1 day apart! stop beeing so scared that the relationship will die and enjoy it! if your affraid of it falling apart, you'll subconsciously make it fall apart...
And PLZ!!!! dont make a common friend a refferee for your lil fights! for 3 years straight i was the ref for 2 of my friends... every single day... if you cant talk to each other without some 1 keeping counting points and waving the yellow card... then either learn to talk to each other or just stop the relationship! cuz if you dont, you'll not only destroy the relationship, but your friendship.
Hmmmmm........ Interesting question........
Mental:
Intelligence around if not higher than mine.
(Good) Sense of humor
Similar interests as me (anime, ninja, sci-fi, gaming)
Physical:
Medium Length Hair, Color doesn't really matter, but a darker color would be nice.
Grey or Blue eyes (Not overly important)
Decent sized breasts. Not tiny, but I get scared by the big ones :sweatdrop
Height maybe 6'0" to 6'3" (Around my height)
Long legs
Clear skin
Thin
[BlackDeath]
09-05-2005, 05:11 AM
Your looks only plays a small part, though looks are generally the first impression, so looking attractive does help to some degree. What I look for is more personality-wise than appearance. I like someone who is easy to talk and communicate with, someone who knows how to have a good time and fun. Down to earth - open person. Sense of humour always helps and so does common interests.
Loljoke
09-05-2005, 09:27 AM
yeah see that is what ticks us girls off u guys base a girl on her looks not her personality
really?
I would never base my opinion of a girl by her looks.
nouff said..
When I look at someone I look at the there faces, then I study there personality.
ranma_my_luv
09-05-2005, 10:57 AM
alright well thus far i have yet to determine what in the hell is wrong with me so someone help me! im 5'2'' i have long red hair. i have a cute face, im told, im not a model, but im far from being obesely fat. i can b funny ok! i am considered 'the funny' amoung my friends (nell shut up) so someone plz what is so wrong with me?
picano
09-05-2005, 11:03 AM
Prolly nothin then.
Could simply be that noone you currently know just has any interest in your type or that anyone that does just can't admit it.
Loljoke
09-05-2005, 11:05 AM
theres probably nothing wrong with you, theres not that many that likes me in that way either.
Lysander Cyric Korvein
09-05-2005, 11:13 AM
alright well thus far i have yet to determine what in the hell is wrong with me so someone help me! im 5'2'' i have long red hair. i have a cute face, im told, im not a model, but im far from being obesely fat. i can b funny ok! i am considered 'the funny' amoung my friends (nell shut up) so someone plz what is so wrong with me?
there is nothing wrong with you or the way you look. having a personality is more important than looks. there is a saying: Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder. it is not true in all guys (this is coming straight from a guy). most guys, especially jocks, only want a good looking female just to have sex with. that is not the point of having a girlfriend. the point im trying to make is this: who gives a damn about how u look, as long u have a great personality, ur great to get along with and you have feelings for others, u can't say there is anything wrong with you cause there isnt!
Marie2007
09-05-2005, 11:14 AM
cant believe i am about to say this but general is right but 99% of the guys in highschool or anywhere just want a girl for sex and then they forget all about them and the girls find out that he just went out with me for sex or just out of pity and i hang out with a lot guys and they are alike they are your friends/boyfriends out of pity and nothing else which is the only reason certain
people not naming anyone still hang out with me and always have.
you guys have a lot more to learn about us girls and i mean a lot more
S_C_L-1
09-05-2005, 11:19 AM
alright well thus far i have yet to determine what in the hell is wrong with me so someone help me! im 5'2'' i have long red hair. i have a cute face, im told, im not a model, but im far from being obesely fat. i can b funny ok! i am considered 'the funny' amoung my friends (nell shut up) so someone plz what is so wrong with me?
well, if theres nothin wrong with you, what about "him"? you might have a dozen guys that have their eyes on you, but are too shy or something... its always a possibility...
cant believe i am about to say this but general is right but 99% of the guys in highschool or anywhere just want a girl for sex and then they forget all about them and the girls find out that he just went out with me for sex or just out of pity and i hang out with a lot guys and they are alike they are your friends/boyfriends out of pity and nothing else
hey! give us guys a lil more credit! we might have stronger sexual impulses, but were not soul-less monsters!
99% of the guys in high school isnt quite right, 99% of the guys that are actively dating in high school are like that. in high school, all the "good guys" are too shy. wait until college and ull c what i mean...
Lysander Cyric Korvein
09-05-2005, 11:39 AM
well, if theres nothin wrong with you, what about "him"? you might have a dozen guys that have their eyes on you, but are too shy or something... its always a possibility...
hey! give us guys a lil more credit! we might have stronger sexual impulses, but were not soul-less monsters!
99% of the guys in high school isnt quite right, 99% of the guys that are actively dating in high school are like that. in high school, all the "good guys" are too shy. wait until college and ull c what i mean...
too shy? i think not. most guys dont want to say how they feel about a certain girl. i should know. i was like that once. but you ppl didnt come here for a history lesson? no. most guys only want to have sex. i didnt say all guys. i give us guys some credit but some of us are soul-less monsters that deserve death for what they have done to those poor girls. we guys need to control our sexual impulses and our tempers. some of us guys are abusive (let me know when i get off the subject) towards women cause we think we are God All-Mighty and that our wives should wait on us hand and foot. us guys want a good looking female that can cook and clean, not a sense of humor or a loving attitude. I have found a once in a blue moon find and im keepin her.
Marie2007
09-05-2005, 11:48 AM
yeah but still 99% of guys just like us and hang out with us because of pity i know from experience and y'all treat us like we are the stupidest people to ever step foot on earth so what are we suppose to think.
ranma_my_luv
09-05-2005, 11:50 AM
there is nothing wrong with you or the way you look. having a personality is more important than looks. there is a saying: Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder. it is not true in all guys (this is coming straight from a guy). most guys, especially jocks, only want a good looking female just to have sex with. that is not the point of having a girlfriend. the point im trying to make is this: who gives a damn about how u look, as long u have a great personality, ur great to get along with and you have feelings for others, u can't say there is anything wrong with you cause there isnt!ack! -hugs u!- u r so right man. i have never been into jocks really (ok once but i liked him in 1st grade) so im good for now, and i know which guys just want some, i mean i am a girl, and damnit all *****! i think the part about me i like the most would be my personality, how im so outragously out there and yet how intriguingly weird i am xD ok u can stop me now...be4 i hurt myself....oww! my eye! hurry! someone stop me! ouch! lol.............god im lame xD
Loljoke
09-05-2005, 11:56 AM
yeah but still 99% of guys just like us and hang out with us because of pity i know from experience and y'all treat us like we are the stupidest people to ever step foot on earth so what are we suppose to think.
now I'm hurt...
there are many people that't not like that..
cowboydemon666
09-05-2005, 12:11 PM
give each other some room... if your bf/gf wants to go c his/her friends, let them... go c your friends... you wont break up because you spent 1 day apart! stop beeing so scared that the relationship will die and enjoy it! if your affraid of it falling apart, you'll subconsciously make it fall apart...
And PLZ!!!! dont make a common friend a refferee for your lil fights! for 3 years straight i was the ref for 2 of my friends... every single day... if you cant talk to each other without some 1 keeping counting points and waving the yellow card... then either learn to talk to each other or just stop the relationship! cuz if you dont, you'll not only destroy the relationship, but your friendship.YES! THANK YOU FOR SAYING THAT!
I had a boyfriend once that wouldnt leave me alone.
I would be hanging out with my friends at lunch and he would always be there. He wouldnt let me be by myself!! It drove me crazy... (Hailey, you know what I'm talking about)
And then at the end of the year that "friend being the referee" thing happened. I hated all of it. So once again, I thank you so much for saying all of that because, guys, it is important to give your girlfriend some room.
Trust me on this one... I've had first hand experience...
ranma_my_luv
09-05-2005, 12:14 PM
YES! THANK YOU FOR SAYING THAT!
I had a boyfriend once that wouldnt leave me alone.
I would be hanging out with my friends at lunch and he would always be there. He wouldnt let me be by myself!! It drove me crazy... (Hailey, you know what I'm talking about)
And then at the end of the year that "friend being the referee" thing happened. I hated all of it. So once again, I thank you so much for saying all of that because, guys, it is important to give your girlfriend some room.
Trust me on this one... I've had first hand experience...wait nell wh wouldnt leave u alone and who was the ref? im so lost other than this one little post ppl can we stay on topic? just a reminder for future refernce so far ppl have done a good job at keeping on topic xD so just yeah.....god i need to stop being so weird am i right?
cowboydemon666
09-05-2005, 12:18 PM
wait nell wh wouldnt leave u alone and who was the ref? im so lost other than this one little post ppl can we stay on topic? just a reminder for future refernce so far ppl have done a good job at keeping on topic xD so just yeah.....god i need to stop being so weird am i right?Well, to answer your question, I was talking about Adam in 6th grade and the refs were like You, Riley, Melina, and Dulce.... You dont remember that?
It was like the "big" drama. Lol.
Sorry everyone.... I was just answering her questions.
Now you all may continue staying on topic... heh.
Zingo
09-05-2005, 05:08 PM
Personality! Looks are just an extra point. There are a bunch of good looking girls out there but maybe 1 of 10 has a nice personality. Atleast that's my experience. Maybe if I get to know them better, I dunno. But like we say in Norway. "Smaken er som baken. Delt i to." Everybody has their own taste.
ranma_my_luv
09-05-2005, 05:17 PM
i still cant figure it out :'(
Lysander Cyric Korvein
09-05-2005, 05:31 PM
Guys are out there looking for good lookin girls and they really dont care about personality. if guys looked for personality instead of looks, the world would be perfect
Marie2007
09-05-2005, 05:33 PM
maybe but at least the girls wouldnt feel hated by the guys and u know from my experiences general it hurts and never leaves
ranma_my_luv
09-05-2005, 06:24 PM
maybe but at least the girls wouldnt feel hated by the guys and u know from my experiences general it hurts and never leaves
i agree with u marie, guys can b so shallow at times u know? -hugs my friend-
ranma_my_luv
09-05-2005, 07:40 PM
ok ppls i was given bad reps or w/e that is because of my language. what r u 3? does anyone really care? well here and now i am apologizing to whoever is offended by it. it is a bad habbit. sry. but u need to just chill out man, whoever u r. ok, back to the topic xD
Naruto711
09-05-2005, 08:01 PM
Girls who have an easy goin attitude and a nice personality. Those are the best to me but if they have looks too then fine. Added bonus if they have looks. Most of the girls at my school are hot but there all prepy [removed]. If you are easy goin youll find someone......i guess.....hell i dont know. But thats wat i find attractive.
ranma_my_luv
09-05-2005, 09:09 PM
MARCH:
Attractive personality. sexy. Affectionate Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Loves to serve others. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Observant and assesses others. Revengeful. Loves to dream and fantasize. Loves traveling. Loves attention. Hasty decisions in choosing partners. Loves home decors. Musically talented. Loves special things. Moody.
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i saw this in another thread. my birthday is march 17th read the first line. T.T omfg!!!!!!
picano
09-05-2005, 09:15 PM
Only thing that bothers me about that description is...
moody
>.<
What thread did ya find that in? Would be interesting to check on myself.
ranma_my_luv
09-05-2005, 09:18 PM
ok well im a girl what do u expect? xD
S_C_L-1
09-06-2005, 12:32 AM
-_-;
...
(i use alot of sarcasm in these posts, plz do not b offended by it)
Ok... so all guys are ... switch to girls then... but seriously, not
all guys are as forementionned... there are dishonest women...
the kind that will date 5 guys at a time only to empty their bank
accounts and ride around in their cars... then dump them once they
arent of any value to them anymore......
can i ask a question to all you ppl? how many of you... are you parents
still married? how long have they been married? were they ever married?
The point is, that our parents (in most cases) are the 1s who raise us...
if your parents do nothing but yell at each other, then you are most likely
to subconsciously simulate that kind of situation with your gf/bf...
Good relationships are very rare these days... 90% of marrages end in
divorce... most of which divorce after 2 years...
The following is something that really pisses me off... im sorry for any
offensive language that might b used...
all those fairy tale fantasys,DONT EXIST! ok? there is no "brady bunch"
familly! there is no knight in shining armor! you want to know who cares
less about your personnal problems than you? everybody. if your gf/bf
makes you miserable and you break up, why should you b sad? really?
if he/she dumps you, GO OUT AND MEET PPL! "But ill look like a slut/perv
if i go out with some 1 else so soon!" THEY DUMPED YOU! dont wait for
them to call and say how sry they are! MOVE ON. YOU DONT LIVE IN A SOAP OPERA!!!
if you start to yell at him/her, guess what they'll do?
YELL AT YOU! nothing gets fixed by yelling. NO-THING.
I didnt want to, but i had to. that was a virtual slap across the face...
dont b offended, wake up!
If you are going out together, you dont have to impress them...
they already said yes. have fun!
Kyo Kusanagi
09-06-2005, 01:16 AM
Okay. Don't let anything fool you, looks play a big role on whether or not a guy will approach you or not. Only the reserved guys will (at first) look beyond your looks to see what you have to offer in terms of character.
This by no means says that you don't have a chance if you don't have the looks. You just have to improvize. Wear clothing that brings out the good features in you. Or better yet, try approaching the guy and having a conversation! Getting past "hi" is the main hurdle in this situation. Once you establish repetoire, its only a matter of time before interest is sparked.
Me being shy for a good part of my life, I always left it up to girls to start conversations. Worked well until college, where I have to make moves now. ;__;
Well this is a little uneven. Both guys and girls are that way. In my old middle school, Preps (Not offending all of you.) Were just as bad as the jocks. They didn't care about personality either, nor did the jocks. But that's life, it's uneven and cruel. Most of the people at my old school over looked the personalitys. *Should know by experience.* It was terrible, there was a lot of people left out because of it. Anyway my point is, us girls are just as bad as then men. Though maybe some guys think they're more powerful. We have the same thing, just not all of us. =3
Kyo Kusanagi
09-06-2005, 01:20 AM
Good relationships are very rare these days... 90% of marrages end in
divorce... most of which divorce after 2 years...
Come on now. Don't go stating something that isn't true. Last I checked, the divorce rate was 50 percent (still kinda high). But there is hope, earlier in the year the divorce rate was seen as dropping. People are also seen waiting longer before marrying (which goes hand in hand with the divorce rate dropping. No rushing into marriage = lower divorce rate)
S_C_L-1
09-06-2005, 07:05 AM
Come on now. Don't go stating something that isn't true. Last I checked, the divorce rate was 50 percent (still kinda high). But there is hope, earlier in the year the divorce rate was seen as dropping. People are also seen waiting longer before marrying (which goes hand in hand with the divorce rate dropping. No rushing into marriage = lower divorce rate)
ok... globaly, its 50%... but in north america its 90% ... 90!
Princess Minako
09-06-2005, 07:14 AM
You're information is incorrect, as of 2002 per the national census the divorce rate in the USA is 50%. Please stop the sensationalism.
The Goddess has Spoken
Girls that are truthfull and have a nice personaility and are just fun to be with..
Shironosuke Takeda
09-06-2005, 08:33 AM
for me
personality
looks(optianal,i won't mind but if the girl is cute and all..its a bonus -:P-)
hmm she would act like herself, who won't try to act like these hilary duff or ashly or whateveryoucall these singing stars
who don't go hook with other guys while im not with her
who is royal
taht is enough to me i guess
MistaCloudStrife
09-06-2005, 08:55 AM
Okay what were we talking about??? Was it looks or divorce rates... wha?
Well I'll just go start off whereever...
Ummm... I suppose most guys go for looks... It's only natural, right... Even animals do this, either the male or the female(Depending on which animal) goes off in search for it's mate... or whatever... When they go off searching they look for the most attractive... Female fish usually look for a male with the best color and fins or something... And yeah... I'm too lazy too look up how other animals go attracting each other...
But yeah... what I'm trying to say is... I don't know anymore... Lol... But I think I made some sort of point in my above paragraph... Haha...
S_C_L-1
09-06-2005, 10:05 PM
for me
personality
looks(optianal,i won't mind but if the girl is cute and all..its a bonus -:P-)
hmm she would act like herself, who won't try to act like these hilary duff or ashly or whateveryoucall these singing stars
who don't go hook with other guys while im not with her
who is royal
taht is enough to me i guess
royal? uhm.... i hope that was a typo -_-;
...
We're in 2005 dood... so even if you are royalty, it doesnt matter if you marry non-royalty... its no longer an obligation... (thank god!)
Kurumirina
09-06-2005, 10:49 PM
I thought the question was what do guys look for in girls?@_@
anyway I think all guyz wat is the lookz and the heart and loyalty.......that wat I noe...
Keitaru-san
09-06-2005, 11:53 PM
loook? well there was a man wondering in ruins then he reached and old broken house when he intered to stay for the night a young man was there and he greeted the stranger and gave him food and water, then the stranger said this house may look broken and destroyed but it keeps a pretty treasur inside it and that treasure its you young man, so do get the point? or do i have to explaine?
Deathbyspartan
09-07-2005, 01:49 AM
nah guys know what there doing, they know what is right from wrong, i actually really like long hair girls, quite nice bu it really dosent matter people have there own tatse in what they like and people just saying what they did was sterotypical just as always, i must admit i like girls better looking aswell tho but i dunoo i hope you get the point ">"
S_C_L-1
09-07-2005, 03:26 AM
nah guys know what there doing, they know what is right from wrong, i actually really like long hair girls, quite nice bu it really dosent matter people have there own tatse in what they like and people just saying what they did was sterotypical just as always, i must admit i like girls better looking aswell tho but i dunoo i hope you get the point ">"
care to rephrase 0_o?
that is some of the most jarbled english ive ever seen... (no offence, just astonishing)
Charliee
09-07-2005, 12:07 PM
Um...Personalities, have to be good. Can't be a boring person. And they have to be smart, or a little smart. Don't want a girl that can't remember your name. >> As for looks....I think that the better you are friends with someone, the more you start to like them, or maybe even love them. So looks don't always matter.
the_last_spawn
09-07-2005, 01:49 PM
well i go for personality and look a little bit and i like funny girls and outgoing and i hate girls who hide their feelings its just do my heading.
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