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-akichan-
04-09-2005, 04:53 PM
Well this is a very big problem to me, its no big deal watching animes or reading mangas, i dunno why but my parents are having huge problem with me with animes.

Waist of time?
Bad education?
Ratings?

wut about you guys. Is this a big deal?

-or maybe im in the wrong forum? lol-

Kiba'
04-09-2005, 05:03 PM
First of all dude you posted in the wrong part of the Forum bad kiidy. But no it isnt a problem screw your parents lol. If you like it stay with it thats what i say.

-akichan-
04-09-2005, 05:06 PM
First of all dude you posted in the wrong part of the Forum bad kiidy. But no it isnt a problem screw your parents lol. If you like it stay with it thats what i say.
Haha yeah its a big problem that they have problems with me watching animes.

and yeah i mentioned that i might posted this on the wrong section, screw the one who told me to post it here lol.

Tsuna Kadiri
04-09-2005, 05:14 PM
Yeah, this should have been put in the Misc section. But that's ok, I'm sure a mod will move it. ^___^

Problem with you watching anime? That's strange.. maybe they think your watching cartoons?

-akichan-
04-09-2005, 05:19 PM
Oh yeah, its very strange to other pplz.

and yeah please mod, please move this to the right section for me, thankie thankie^^;;-sweats-

Tsuna Kadiri
04-09-2005, 05:24 PM
Well I don't see anything wrong with it. Sure, some animes are really "out there", but for the most part, it's harmless.

Heh, I think your parents need a rain check. ^__^

[BlackDeath]
04-09-2005, 07:41 PM
I dunno on this one guys, the topic relates to animes, it's the general problems that parents have, i think this falls into this criteria.

Well i think parents have probelms with it cause they associate it with cartoons, normal cartoons like Looney Toons and etc. it's animation and animation is all the same and meant for children they think, or something along the lines, but some parents don't mind animes.

-akichan-
04-09-2005, 07:45 PM
I dunno on this one guys, the topic relates to animes, it's the general problems that parents have, i think this falls into this criteria.

Well i think parents have probelms with it cause they associate it with cartoons, normal cartoons like Looney Toons and etc. it's animation and animation is all the same and meant for children they think, or something along the lines, but some parents don't mind animes.
yeah i know, you're right, but my brother posted it anyways. Its related to the animes i suppose, like you said.

Benitora_shadowman
04-09-2005, 07:53 PM
If your parents have a problem with it, then talk to them. They dont watch it like you do, so they dont know why you like it. Some animations have nudity and too much gun shooting and that stuff. Those can be problems that your parents think about. Talk to them and assure them that it doesn't bother you in your studies or anything.

[BlackDeath]
04-09-2005, 07:57 PM
Well we'll just have to see what the mods say really.

To address your first post, you are entitled to do what you want, it's a hobby like anything else, like going dancing or etc. It can't alone be blammed for changes in your education, you alone are responsible enough for that and no blame can be put on that and well can't say anything about ratings..

Tiggit
04-09-2005, 07:58 PM
Hmmm... this is also some part of the thread "ban Anime!!" but it should be the parents choice to let you watch anime

Doomsday082
04-09-2005, 11:22 PM
Whoa, Dude,

Anime can be good, but Your Parents are important. Plus, let's just say Parents don't view Anime as clean, wholesome family entertainment!
Careful what You do.

Sincerely,

MentalSnake4
04-09-2005, 11:33 PM
my parents have a problem with anime because A: they think its a little adulty u no like on some parts. B:they think it a wast of money of the anime and manga i buy and C:they say that i can never get a job in makein mangas (which i am good at) so dude i no what u are goin through (by the way im a dude i just perfer and girls as pic)

mimiruchan
04-09-2005, 11:36 PM
My parents think that anime is ment only for children (from the days i wached sailor moon ^^; ) they think i should "grow up" lol but they're a lot of different genre out there, some are ment for teens some adults, you just need to show them... but when it comes to violence and stuff like that well you can turn on your tv and watch any show and find violence (which can be worse and be in real life) i try to tell my parents its an art form of life -^.^-

-akichan-
04-09-2005, 11:37 PM
my parents have a problem with anime because A: they think its a little adulty u no like on some parts. B:they think it a wast of money of the anime and manga i buy and C:they say that i can never get a job in makein mangas (which i am good at) so dude i no what u are goin through
Those are exactly why my parents have problems with animes, they also think that animes are the weirdest thing in the world cos they dun look human-like haha.

MentalSnake4
04-09-2005, 11:42 PM
Those are exactly why my parents have problems with animes, they also think that animes are the weirdest thing in the world cos they dun look human-like haha.yea it gets.......weird........at some parts but they look at it as like the only bad thing on the plant take like.........american pie my parents laugh at that movie but they watch my anime like azumanga daioh etc. the talk crap about it

Ashminigun
04-10-2005, 01:24 AM
*joins in the fray...

hmmm... my parents have no problem about me watching anime... I think most parents will understand it that you like anime with a bit of explaining, just you don't overdo it like spending all your pocket money that supposed to last about week, to buy anime -related stuff i.e. DVDs and ask pocket money from them the very next day, they sure gone ballastic 'bout that or watching anime until your tend to ignore your responsiblity at home, your studies or them completely. Try to control yourself, try set time limits to watch anime or if you're a DVD boxset collector freak, set which anime you want to buy, saving your money and when you have the sufficient money, buy it and enjoy.

'nough said...

Gizoku
07-10-2005, 12:59 AM
my parents dont mind that i watch it, but they think im somewhat too old to watch it on some cases

bakakame
07-10-2005, 01:06 AM
Eh, my parents just kinda complain about everything I do. Don't spend tour money on food, get something that will last longer!!!! Don't spend your money on movies and games, they won't help you in the long run!!!! Don't spend your money on your friends, let them make their own money!!!! Don't spend your money on books, you can borrow them from the library!!!! Don't spend your money on new hockey equipment, it'll only break as well!!!!

I mean seriously, What am I supposed to do with my money then????

The Wing Man
07-10-2005, 01:14 AM
My dad thinks i am stupid to watch anime because the animation is alot like old animation from way back.

pyrothunder336
07-10-2005, 01:44 AM
as long as they don't cut you off somehow from anime or manga then it goesn't sound like a problem.

VRini87
07-10-2005, 02:49 AM
Most of you guys say that parents associate anime with American cartoons which target a younger audience. I think it's the opposite, because I can't see why anyone would have a problem with his or her kids watching American cartoons. Anime is so diverse, there's something for every age group. You're parents may not like anime, because they saw you watching an anime with adult content or something. Like two or three years ago my dad saw me watching Hellsing, and he didn't like the language. If you're parents do think that you're too old for cartoons try to explain that all animes aren't meant to be viewed by kids. If you're not a socially active person, your parents may think that you have some obsession with fantasy, or that you're not able to function in the real world. Then again, you didn't say why you're parents aren't fond of you watching animes. You probably should ask them what's the problem, then ask for help.

-Batman-
07-10-2005, 03:06 AM
My mother always wanted me to keep a diverse outlook on things as a child....so she has no problem with it now, or has she ever.

If your parents trust you than they will trust you enough to make your own desicisons on shows appropirate to watch as per their wish's.A parents realation ship with their children is based upon Trust, compensation, and understanding.
Just because your an otaku does not mean they should change that either, i don't know how old you are, however communication is important so you can come to terms with them and earn their trust.
Just ask your parents to hear you out and respect your choices as a young adult trying to learn responsability, they will most likly come to some agreement, like previewing an episode of an anime that you want to watch, or limiting the ratings.

My advise may be right, or wrong, it depends on your parents.

Uchiha Ulquiorra
07-10-2005, 03:32 AM
I dont see why a parent would Not let a child watch anime or read manga. I dont see anything wrong with it.. parents should let their kids watch anime, it could give them a good imagination...

-Batman-
07-10-2005, 03:37 AM
Parents have a right to be concerned, because there is anime that is sent twords the adult crowd (Why do you think theres an adult swim)

Deathbyspartan
07-10-2005, 05:37 AM
nah anime is good well for me anyway makes me happy watching it and if something makes you happy then why must it be bad

Priest the pacifist
07-10-2005, 05:43 AM
Yeah,but still some snimes you must whatch out for.I mean it's you're parents job to protect you right?

Taikyo
07-10-2005, 12:00 PM
well...it depends i guess. My mom and dad doesn't approve of animes that are..err...R rating..but they allow me to watch the other type of anime. As long as it didn't interupt my school work too. But i think thats why your parents don't like it, that you watch anime, plus my friends said that you get these ideas. @_@ but im not one of those type of people.

Chouji
07-10-2005, 12:06 PM
my mom caught me watching hentai( sad i know) and she started yelling at me. She questions ever anime i watch even hamtaro.

bakakame
07-10-2005, 12:35 PM
my mom caught me watching hentai( sad i know) and she started yelling at me. She questions ever anime i watch even hamtaro.
Um..... no offense but that kinda sad watching Hamtaro at the same age you're watching Hentai.......

yamibakura
07-10-2005, 01:06 PM
my parrents dont mind me watching anime cos im gonna be a great anime drawer one day,

yamibakura
07-10-2005, 01:14 PM
my parrents dont mind me watching anime cos im gonna be a great anime drawer one day,

yamibakura
07-10-2005, 01:44 PM
my parrents dont mind me watching anime cos im gonna be a great anime drawer one day,

Scion
07-10-2005, 03:50 PM
Ha I'm very lucky because my parents don't know the difference between a cartoon and anime.

Most anime is just fine. It really depends on what your parent allow and don't allow. Besides that there should be no problems.

ssj4gogeta
07-17-2005, 10:33 PM
My parents dont care if i watch anime. I know 3 big major reasons why some parents dont like their kids watching anime. Ill take some exapmles from different shows
1.Death and blood. For instance when Goku gets shot throght the heart by Vegetas powerful beam them dies with blood every where.

2.Pictures of girls in showers etc.. (I wont go too in detail) Like when in Inuyahsa sees kagome bathing he immediatley looks away.

3. Too mature or story line too adultish.What if a little kid watches any adult animes?

Mousie
07-18-2005, 03:59 AM
well i thinks its a stupid thing to keep
ur kids away from the things they love
it will jst make them more unhappy and rebel

animeseishi
07-18-2005, 05:33 AM
i quite agree.. they shouldnt keep their children from what they love.. besides anime are great! why cant they see that??

Mousie
07-18-2005, 05:49 AM
exactly it might be a bit violent but its
so much fun and can also help u make friends and know people with the
same intrests
like this forum 4 example

sanzo's lover
07-18-2005, 06:06 AM
My mom thinks anime is just a waste of time and I can't learn anything from it. She knows the difference between anime and cartoons! I have this urge to tell her how much she is so wrong and answer her back but I can't! waaahhh!

Mousie
07-18-2005, 06:17 AM
they r basically the same thing just 1 is newer cooler and alot more interesting
LOL

princess_comit
07-18-2005, 06:42 AM
dont know what u r talking about?

Engi no Juushichi
07-18-2005, 07:36 AM
It's very strange to parents for some reason I don't know why, my dad doesn't really like it but I watch it anyway.

Mutsumi Anami
07-18-2005, 07:57 AM
My dad always hated anime...and still don't know why he hates it so much...though my mom does like some anime series specially Lain...she really liked it! ^ _ ^

bakakame
07-18-2005, 11:26 AM
One of the big differences between anime and american cartoons is value. Most american cartoons are about one thing, comedy. Anime has a wide variety of genre's in which most hold some type of moral or meaning. For instance in a lot of the anime's I like there is a strong emphasis on family ties and values, like in siblinghood. My sister and I were at each others throats most of the time until we each started watching anime. I think anime is a great tool for teaching those kinds of family values to anyone old enough to watch them.

Wandering Samurai
07-18-2005, 11:32 AM
My dad's ok with it but my mom thinks every thing I watch is related to porn so every time I watch an amine my mom says"what are you watching? It's porn isn't it!? Bad boy!*starts to hit me*"

Shizzy
07-25-2005, 12:44 PM
Yeah... parents suck.... I don't think they should give a damn if anything tell them some bs like 'it's only a phase' or 'it's a trend' and they usually leave you alone...

shinju hoshi
07-25-2005, 12:53 PM
my parents dont care

evangelion2008
07-25-2005, 01:30 PM
my mom doesnt care she likes watching it with me but my dad hates it

Sword
07-25-2005, 01:33 PM
They fail to see that anime is an actual culture of Japan. I mean there are lots of people who study different cultures around the world so why can't we take an interest in one? Sometimes my dad MAKES me turn whatever anime I'm watching off. If you ask me I think he is abusing his power as head of the house. I don't take up the T.V. that much! :mad:

evangelion2008
07-25-2005, 01:36 PM
They fail to see that anime is an actual culture of Japan. I mean there are lots of people who study different cultures around the world so why can't we take an interest in one? Sometimes my dad MAKES me turn whatever anime I'm watching off. If you ask me I think he is abusing his power as head of the house. I don't take up the T.V. that much! :mad:thats how my dad is but i usually watch anime movies so he just comes in and turns it off so he can watch whatever he wants

shinju hoshi
07-25-2005, 01:41 PM
my mom doesnt care she likes watching it with me but my dad hates itsame here

Amaya_Michiko
07-25-2005, 01:56 PM
My mom has problems with it too. Gosh. I hate it. She's like "Honey you can't watch that, it's T.V. MA."
Me "So..."
Mom "It must be rated that for a reason. Sex, drugs. It's like an R movie."
Me "Mom anime is rated very wierd. some of the ratings are bizarre and shouldbe rated much differently. You have never even seen the show. You wouldn't know."
Mom "I don't want to watch the show. You aren't allowed to watch the T.V. MA ones. Okay."
Me "But....Okay."

OMG I HATE IT!!! Ahh the TV MA ones really aren't bad at all. It is ridiculous.

Ahh

I watch all of them anyway. Just when shes not home.:ninja:

nivek5
07-25-2005, 01:56 PM
I say hell with them and keep watching anime. It's your choise that you're watching it right? then keep watching it untill the wolrd blows up inot many pieces

harakiri
07-25-2005, 06:21 PM
my parents don't have a problem with it.my mom could care less what i do.and my dad watches anime with me.but i do think it's a problem if they cut you away from it.

white_lotus27
07-25-2005, 06:40 PM
My parents don't even care, what kind of anime I'm watching.

Ami~chan
07-25-2005, 06:44 PM
My grandmother watched "Grave of the Fireflies" with me once, and cried her head off (I did too, but that's not the point ^^...) But I doubt they would approve of me watching "Hellsing", or something extremely gorey. But I keep pretty much what I watch to myself.

It's really what the show is rated, I guess.

WhiteReaper
07-25-2005, 10:47 PM
My parent's case with anime is exclusively one of pure, unrestrained ignorance.

Basically, they compare any anime that I watch with the old Sailor Moon dub. In other words, that all anime is for children. Oh how I'd thoroughly enjoy the day that I show them how wrong they were....

Sake
07-25-2005, 11:09 PM
My parents just think it's weird, and my Mom thinks I'm weird 'cause I watch them in Japanese, my Dad's commented on the language, but I don't think he really care's either.

Suki_Chan_19
07-25-2005, 11:20 PM
my parents dont have any problem of me and my sis watching anime -_- and I dont think parents should have problems with kids watching anime..

BurningBlazeX
07-25-2005, 11:25 PM
hahaha! thats a good one...i watch Maburaho all the time which is a pretty mature anime with my parents and 12 year old sis...they watch it with me...so no i dont think i agree

BurningBlazeX
07-25-2005, 11:27 PM
My mom has problems with it too. Gosh. I hate it. She's like "Honey you can't watch that, it's T.V. MA."
Me "So..."
Mom "It must be rated that for a reason. Sex, drugs. It's like an R movie."
Me "Mom anime is rated very wierd. some of the ratings are bizarre and shouldbe rated much differently. You have never even seen the show. You wouldn't know."
Mom "I don't want to watch the show. You aren't allowed to watch the T.V. MA ones. Okay."
Me "But....Okay."

OMG I HATE IT!!! Ahh the TV MA ones really aren't bad at all. It is ridiculous.

Ahh

I watch all of them anyway. Just when shes not home.:ninja:
Hehehe...good, but i believe it is very stupid...i agree with you, anime is rated very wierd and thats what misleads parents about what we are watching...most of it isnt even that bad!

Yumi Chan
07-25-2005, 11:39 PM
I dunno why my parents don't care that I watch anime.

evangelion2008
07-26-2005, 10:41 AM
i dont think parents are the ones to punish the most there are ppl i know at school that u know think of anime=porn and i hate it cause i'll be walking down the hall with an anime freak shirt on and they would be like '' u only like it cause its porn'' i hate that

samuriagent
08-09-2005, 02:11 PM
My parents caught my older brother wantching henti and i tryed to tell them that regular anime is different but they wont listen. So this sucks for me. But i have a secret stash of anime that i watch. Take that you anime nazi's.

ThaiCat91
08-09-2005, 02:14 PM
I do agree! I have the same problems whit my parents.... sorta

teed
08-09-2005, 04:03 PM
ya! they think animes r 4 kidz! and they say im 2 old 4 animes! but i love them and cant stop watching them:p

Sinnaku
08-09-2005, 09:06 PM
anime doesnt appeal to youngster bcuz in japan parents are not too strict about well..... anything!

Most anime's are meant for the 18 and older audience and not some 11 year old kid with no life.

80% of animes have bad language anyway so thats gotta be the reason that parents hate it so much.

there others that have cencored nuditity like inu yasha. every episode someone is naked.

and then there the violence. Every anime has some type of violence in it! dont even try to tell me that you know of one thats not violent!! cuz ill know of the small pinch of violence in it!!

-Kiyoshi-Ren-
08-10-2005, 09:40 PM
Parents have a problem with their kids watching anime cause they believe its "bad" for them. Mine believe that... Some people have said in the past anime has lead to killings, drugs...All that crap. That their kids do whats on Tv. But, I think its a bunch of lies... Look at the american cartoons, its really no better than anime.

Maiden Serenity
08-10-2005, 09:45 PM
:(My parents think I'm too old for anime and say it'll never help me out in real life.

Sinnaku
08-29-2005, 08:02 PM
Well anime is nothing like american cartoons. Americans think cartoons are meant to be funny and have lots of wierd looking characters. And all anime is meant for a more mature audiance than some 11 year old sitting there giggling at some characters having sex. Although it has to be cencored of course, it's still not for those 11 year old kids. In fact the true age requirement for all animes (except for the crappy ones) is 14 years. But even the kiddie animes have concorship on them. Even pokemon had 5 episodes removed from the originol series because it didn't make sense to have guns in a show for kids.

Parents are only concerned because I know 100% that they caught you watching an anime with swearing, or violence, or sex. They only hate it because 1: It's realistic and 2: It's not for kids. That is why just about all the animes (good ones) you see are on adult swim. So it's not the parents fault you want to watch animated porn. It's only a problem if they LET you watch that stuff. Actualy then it's a crime, but it's still a problem.

And if you think I lied about the crime thing, I wasn't. It really is illegal to let your kids watch porn. You will be charged with distribution of pornographic material to minors. You can be fined $400 and your children will most most likely be taken into custody of a foster home.

But that is only if you KNEW they were watching pornography and just let them watch it without a care. If you didn't know then you won't have anything done with the police. I'm against the hentai thing but I guess pervs need a reason to live too. I just think they should keep it all in Japan where sick american perverts can't get to it. (Unless they have $500,000 to move to Japan)

Tragedy
08-29-2005, 08:09 PM
well it helps if they care
mine don't
it helps if they know what you o
min don't
but i can see why its a problem
but ask them why
ratings are for some but i mean its animated come on
education???? wth who watchs anime just for education????
all other problems
who gives a damn

Sinnaku
08-29-2005, 08:15 PM
who gives a damn
yo momma
lol

The Governator
08-31-2005, 02:20 AM
well im ok, my mom use to watch anime so i dont have to worry, heck my mom and dad bith know im obbssed with it

.Kuro
08-31-2005, 03:10 AM
My dad thinks anime is for children...hahaha. The day I watched "Serial Experiments Lain" with my mom was really cool , I mean she liked it!!! But know my dad says that there is too much violence in anime!!! I donīt think I understand him....

The Governator
08-31-2005, 03:57 AM
My dad thinks anime is for children...hahaha. The day I watched "Serial Experiments Lain" with my mom was really cool , I mean she liked it!!! But know my dad says that there is too much violence in anime!!! I donīt think I understand him....
tell ya dad to watch overfiend, that would change his mind

Havana
08-31-2005, 12:39 PM
My parents think that anime is ment only for children (from the days i wached sailor moon ^^; ) they think i should "grow up" lol but they're a lot of different genre out there, some are ment for teens some adults, you just need to show them... but when it comes to violence and stuff like that well you can turn on your tv and watch any show and find violence (which can be worse and be in real life) i try to tell my parents its an art form of life -^.^- Lol. you just need to watch more anime with them around so they know its
not as bad as they think. But i would show them anime that is suitable .O_o. yeah they think its for kids to, but my other cousins watch some anime as well. I think some parents have trouble with accepting othercultures, especially mine..to canadian..>_>.

But it shouldn't stop ppl from watching anime though.^^