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kayita
03-29-2005, 07:27 PM
Teenagers should not obcess about older married men even if they are only slightly older

Tsuna Kadiri
03-29-2005, 07:32 PM
You mean people that obsess over Brad Pitt and David Beckham and stuff like that, right? Well, if it's that, I really don't see any harm in it.

~Raye Hino~
03-29-2005, 07:43 PM
I should think that would apply to everyone, not just teens. If someone is spoken for, is there really any point in obsessing.

But who am I to talk...I so love Johnny Depp!!

/Aifa|
03-29-2005, 07:46 PM
SHHEEESH!!! I dont obsess over married men!! Not me!!! *gets hit by a hi-heel*

But brad pitt is so cool in oceans 11 & 12!!! I want a suit like that!!! :P

animeadmirer
03-29-2005, 08:28 PM
Well, at least they are real. Unlike anime characters.

Ninja of the Night
03-29-2005, 08:31 PM
I think its stupid to obsess over celebrities period -__-

what ever happened to the days when an actor was admired for his, oh lets say....acting talent?

Im not saying Brad Pitt isnt a good actor, but come on, when was the last time you saw a teenage girl go on and on about his acting talent???

animeadmirer
03-29-2005, 08:34 PM
Offf the camera they all look bland.

robofighter
03-29-2005, 09:42 PM
as a dude, i must agree that i HATE it when girls fantices about Brad pitt and guys like that. i just roll my eyes and tell them i'm sure the'll met him and he'll wisk her away with some kinda romantic gig.

Die Tod von Euch
03-29-2005, 10:26 PM
I'm not entirely sure this was created to be a Brad Pitt thread... Then again, I have no real idea WHY this was created... o_O

Kayita, care to explain your um...reason?

Ninja of the Night
03-29-2005, 10:35 PM
I was just useing Brad Pitt as an example XD

Taikyo
03-29-2005, 10:51 PM
Brad Pitt....David Beckham? What happened to Johnny Depp? And yes i'm a big fan of him. But i can't help it! >.<; I wish that he wasn't married!

/Aifa|
03-30-2005, 03:44 AM
Well, its kinda obvious that kayita feels strongly about what she said, perhaps a bad real life experience.

A big eye roller for me is: "Which anime chick is the hottest?" ><

Missy
03-30-2005, 04:00 AM
Are you talking about Celebrity-wise?

*sarcasm*
OH ORLANDO BLOOM, YOU'RE SO HOT!! .... JOHNNY DEPP, YOU'RE SO FINE!! .... BRAD PITT, *DROOOOOL*.....

hehe.. no matter what you do, young female teenagers will obsess over married men.. theres just no stopping it... ^^;; ... i personally dont "OBSESS" .... I admire some male actors and such.. because they're fun to watch in movies and yes some of them are good looking but i dont go around obsessing about em.. :D

Karel
03-30-2005, 04:07 AM
Pretty soon I'll be in that old Category, not sure about the obsessed category but far from dating younger women and off from Teenagers.

Not sure what the topic is talking about though. x_x

Die Tod von Euch
03-30-2005, 11:53 AM
MsAeris, Orlando Bloom is married? Really? Since when? o_O I'm pretty sure he isn't...

tenshi_hime... I think at least 75% of the world's population wishes Johnny Depp wasn't married so they could go after him themselves. Men and women alike. Because, I have found, Johnny Depp is among the few men that straight guys will admit to being willing to turn gay for.

Princess Minako
03-30-2005, 12:20 PM
Orlando Bloom is not married but he is still with his recent girlfriend Kate Bosworth. They are back together.

Other than that, I just obsess over my man. I mean come on he's hawt! ahaha. We're all allowed our fantasies. What does it matter? The probablility of these people even knowing you exist is next to none. ^^ Its all harmless. But I do agree that the OP of the thread needs to clarify what their intent for the thread was.


The Goddess has Spoken

Karel
03-30-2005, 12:44 PM
Orlando Bloom is not married but he is still with his recent girlfriend Kate Bosworth. They are back together.

Other than that, I just obsess over my man. I mean come on he's hawt! ahaha. We're all allowed our fantasies. What does it matter? The probablility of these people even knowing you exist is next to none. ^^ Its all harmless. But I do agree that the OP of the thread needs to clarify what their intent for the thread was.


The Goddess has Spoken
And where have you been hiding? Although you're on you never seem to be around much. *huggles* and how can anyone not be obsessed with the goddess.

Me, I'm not a fan of Celebs as to be obsessed. I like regular beauties.

The Rebel
03-30-2005, 12:45 PM
It is natural to Obsess over things you can't have, cause if you could have it then you wouldn't care one way or the other. But remember, Obsession can go TOO far, remember the movie "Misery".
I agree with everyone else, you need to clearify your purpose for this thread. Do you obsess about the married guy next door or what?

Karel
03-30-2005, 12:46 PM
I think girls handle Obsession better, since guys get bored easily with theirs.

The Rebel
03-30-2005, 01:08 PM
I think girls handle Obsession better, since guys get bored easily with theirs.
I don't know about that. I still drool over a couple of the young ladies that work in the library here. Although I'd be lucky if they're in their first year of college, but I think they might be Seniors in highschool. But I still drool alittle whenever they walk by, and it's been 6 months of me coming here and seeing them. Fine, call me a dirty old man, I'm just being a male.

Karel
03-30-2005, 02:01 PM
I don't know about that. I still drool over a couple of the young ladies that work in the library here. Although I'd be lucky if they're in their first year of college, but I think they might be Seniors in highschool. But I still drool alittle whenever they walk by, and it's been 6 months of me coming here and seeing them. Fine, call me a dirty old man, I'm just being a male.
Well think about it this way, Guys like all they see is pretty.. thus meaning they'll drop their current obssession and start a new one. That happens more frequently than it would with girls. But there are some girls who are like that too.

En Svensk Tiger
03-30-2005, 02:28 PM
Jesus, I obsess over married men all the time. People spent their entire life fighting for the right to obsess over married men. Have some respect for that, will you be so kind?

Mistress Koneko
03-30-2005, 02:56 PM
Girls obsessing over married men and/or married men obsessing over other girls is just wrong and stupid. Don't say "where's the harm?" in it because there is harm. It does no good for the one doing the obsessing to have that kind of "relationsip", I guess you could call it, in their head and while the object of that obsession, who might not know about it, is still kind of damn creepy to think that someone out there could be thinking weird things about you.

If I know a guy is married he is off limits to me. I don't want to make myself sick dreaming about things that can never be.......cause I've been there, done that and am now dealing with the fall out......

kayita
03-30-2005, 03:42 PM
I posted this on this site because there are some young ladies here who will not leave my husband alone. They know who they are and I have not contacted their parents yet, and I do not want to.:(

The Rebel
03-30-2005, 03:54 PM
Girls obsessing over married men and/or married men obsessing over other girls is just wrong and stupid. Don't say "where's the harm?" in it because there is harm. It does no good for the one doing the obsessing to have that kind of "relationsip", I guess you could call it, in their head and while the object of that obsession, who might not know about it, is still kind of damn creepy to think that someone out there could be thinking weird things about you.

If I know a guy is married he is off limits to me. I don't want to make myself sick dreaming about things that can never be.......cause I've been there, done that and am now dealing with the fall out......
I have to agree with Mistress Koneko as far as the Married part goes. If someone is married or dating someone, then they are officially off-limits. I do my fair share of tongue-wagging, but I never entertain thoughts about someone I know is spoken for. I prefer to obsess privately, myself, and only about people I can actually see. So don't worry Mistress Koneko, your safe from me. LOL

Lon
03-30-2005, 05:27 PM
I posted this on this site because there are some young ladies here who will not leave my husband alone. They know who they are and I have not contacted their parents yet, and I do not want to.:( Umm.. There is no way FOR you to contact their parents. And its a website. You have the option of blocking them on any instant messager or email provider. And I highly doubt that these kids are honestly that much of a problem... I would suggest you talk to your "husband" first.
With out user names the moderators hands are tied and to be honest, this probably should be delt with between you and your "betroved." Possibly the offending parties as well. This really isn't the forums problem.

As for the first post... I see no problem with girls dating older men. Providing that they are over 18 at the time, and or the families involved are okay with it.

Die Tod von Euch
03-30-2005, 06:15 PM
Wait, like real husband, or online husband (like how I'm married to three other women on the forums...we aren't really married, we KNOW we aren't really married...it's just for giggles)?

Because if you're serious and this is something involving you and a real husband, then yeah...like Lon said, you should talk it out with him. And the girls. Not start a thread about how girls shouldn't obsess over married men... This sounds like a private matter...

Kyo Kusanagi
03-30-2005, 07:00 PM
Ah, thats an interesting backstory to this thread.

If this is over an online marriage, then I'll laugh now. Everyone's fair game in those. Take it from one who knows.


If its not, I'll still laugh. Only at myself.

Dr.McDoom!
02-26-2006, 04:29 AM
GEEEZ LUIS!!! :shocked: Like, a real husband u mean?
If yes, then these are matters that can hardly be solved in the web
If it's just 4 giggles, then, PM me to beat some sense in to your "husband".