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Sega saturn x
11-10-2004, 12:33 PM
Well as many of you know my great grandmother sied recently. I have been pretty sad and have been looking for things to cheer me up. So i have been takeing hefty amounts of kirby and hellraiser (not at the same time of course. I have started to feel a bit better about it all i was just wondering what are some thing you do to cheer up? This is not an advice thread tho your free to give it i was just wondering what do you do when your feeling blue?

11-10-2004, 12:37 PM
Me? Well, sometimes I just lay on my bed with my bedroom door closed and all the lights out and think about dying. Then again, sometimes I watch some Kiddy Grade or some other cool anime, or maybe play Red Faction or MechWarrior or some other cool game. Sorry about my lack of imaginative adjectives, but I'm feeling a little blue myself just now.


En Svensk Tiger
11-10-2004, 12:40 PM
Listen to some chill music, that usually helps.. Stay away from suicidal goth punk though, that'll make it worse..

listen to happy music.. Whatever that may be..

Sega saturn x
11-10-2004, 12:40 PM
I now how you feel im in need of another movie fix maybe mean streets not hellraiser but whatever.

11-10-2004, 12:49 PM
Why can't you just get drunk like normal people do?

11-10-2004, 12:51 PM
Find a really tall building, go to the roof and jump down. Try to hit a car! or a person!

11-10-2004, 12:52 PM

Sega saturn x
11-10-2004, 01:48 PM
Wow noki you actuly made a positive post im in shock.

11-10-2004, 04:06 PM
I blow things up on video games, the bigger the blast the better.

11-10-2004, 04:19 PM
hmmmm... depends for me.....

usually i:

listen to music
talk to a friend and forget about what happened for a while.
watch anime or read manga
stare into space
sleep (and hopefully not dream of the bad things. >.< Xx; X_x X.x)
and that is pretty much it for me. i hope you cheer up soon. >.<

11-10-2004, 04:35 PM
Wow noki you actuly made a positive post im in shock.

My bad, I didn't know posting links alone were a positive thing.
I'll make sure I add some sarcasm in the next one :3

11-10-2004, 05:31 PM
Not really much i can do. Could try mailing a bottle of moonshine, but somehow i doubt it would pass customs.

Sega saturn x
11-10-2004, 05:31 PM
No noki thats ok i like it better when your positive then i have no reason not to like you. :)

11-10-2004, 05:46 PM
You can get over it and keep going. That's my advice.

11-10-2004, 07:39 PM
As I'm feeling a great deal better and can think somewhat clearer now, I would say this:

Just hang in there, and if you ever need to talk, well, feel free to PM me.


Princess Mononoke
11-10-2004, 08:06 PM
Hey I know how you feel. I've been really upset this past week. My friend and co-worker just got killed in a train/car accident. She was only 19, with so much ahead of her. Its so sad to think about and it's all over the newspapers its so hard to read about it. The funeral is tomorrow, maybe that can give some closure. I know i've been holding it in, but when I see her, the tears will run free.

11-10-2004, 08:08 PM
i'm so sorry to hear that Princess Mononoke. >.< that must be rough. just hang in there.

Sega saturn x
11-10-2004, 08:12 PM
Thats horrible its always worse when some one dies young.

11-10-2004, 09:23 PM
I'm sorry for both of you. I hope everything gets better.

The only person who ever died on me I never really knew. I was supposed to have a twin but there wasn't enough room and everything else for the both of us. It died. =(

Anyways, yeah, laying down on your bed works. I often turn on music (not very loud), and sometimes clear my head.

Sega saturn x
11-10-2004, 09:25 PM
Very sad im going to the funeral on friday im going to be a palbearer.

11-10-2004, 09:25 PM
Flame people on internet sites. It always cheers me... oh wait.

11-11-2004, 05:49 PM
Listen to goemetal, curse alot, and break stuff that always works for me.

Princess Mononoke
11-11-2004, 10:20 PM
so.. i just got back from the visitation... it was horrible

Sega saturn x
11-11-2004, 10:22 PM
I feel for you i hope this event is close casket for me.

11-11-2004, 11:07 PM
Im sorry about your loss.
Do what you would do to comfort yourself, I myself pray for comfort.

11-11-2004, 11:28 PM
I tried that a long time ago, doesn't help me much. Another thing I do is just to put on a very flowing yet loud song and just lean back into a comfy chair and close your eyes. It really helped me.

11-12-2004, 01:39 AM
things i cant say on here or beat the shnoz out of my punching bag and work out... agervating video games leave you more pissed then whence you came:<_<:

11-12-2004, 04:37 AM
well...I can't really help much as am really down right now.
I know how you feel tho, when I was 17 I lost a very good friend on a school camp and itt's something you never really get over.

I usually read a book or talk to friends...

11-12-2004, 07:46 AM
sorry about what happen but just think as it this way she is going to another place thats better than earth and and she will always be in your heart no matter what

11-12-2004, 09:05 AM
Tis sad - like losing my friend Faith - its very sad that many around die when they are so young.

I hope you cope with your grandmother's loss there Sega Saturn X.

I don't know my grandmother as much as I would like, but everyone else around her loved her so. If I lost someone like that, I would have felt mortified. I'm glad that people around who have lost their loved ones actually cared for them.

God's blessings and a hopeful future in the afterlife.

< I cannot give you any advice though - I'm sorry. You are destined to take this situation and cover it your own way...>

11-12-2004, 10:58 AM
i mutter a few cuss words under my breath, walk to my room, stay in it, pop in my fav. mix cd, and just listen to it while writing in my story.

Genghis Beatrix
11-12-2004, 11:07 AM
I had a friend pass on a couple months ago, and what got me over it was the fact that he's in a better place and that he wouldn't have to feel the pain of his epilepsy any more.

11-14-2004, 10:50 PM
I lost my uncle a while ago and, heartless as it seems, I simply got over it. None of this better place stuff crossed my mind. He died, and that's that. That's how I coped with three deaths in the same 6 months.