Hi Im New And Need Help Using This Site

[mosherkai]

hi im new if any one can help me id be pleased hopefully i can maybe get help from spikey hes my best mate outside this site but inside this site im helpless and could do with a couple more friends hope you can help me even if u have no idea who i am also how do you get a pic next to your measage

[Kewii]

I think you're looking for an avatar.

Click on My Controls (it's beside your name at the top of the page)
Once you're in there you should find a link that says
Edit Avatar Settings.

That will lead you to the galleries where you can choose from the many images.