Can we please get back on topic?
As for myself, Ive been in a few relationships and am currently in one. Ive been happy both in and out of them. Ive also been miserable in relationships...I guess it depends on who youre with really.
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Can we please get back on topic?
As for myself, Ive been in a few relationships and am currently in one. Ive been happy both in and out of them. Ive also been miserable in relationships...I guess it depends on who youre with really.
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The best advice I can give you is we are social sentient beings. We love company and to be around other people (but the few exceptions to the rule). Having someone at your side to share things with and get intimate on a lvl not that of friendship is something we should always strive to have. I understand you are probably happy where you are now, but you should stop and think a little. Maybe the reason your so happy where you are now is b/c you didnt like the person you had previously, not b/c your happy being "alone". Two heads are always better than one. Same can be said for being in relationships.
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You seem like a very social person :] (otherwise you wouldn't be posting on a social network such as a forum). So knowing that I am sure you will find someone new who makes you even happier than you are now. I always loved being in new fresh relationships. There is something crisp and clean about them. They are always exciting, just remember tho relationships are like caterpillars. They only start out looking ugly (or cute if you like caterpillars) and then once you give them time it will blossom into something beautiful. Dont go looking for those butterfly's to start off the bonds. They tend to die very quickly.
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Same could be said for relationships. You may think you would want something "better". Then later down the line you realize you really do care about this person. Not because of how attractive they are, or if they have lots of money to support you, but for the little things like the time you shared together. It is possible to grow to love someone, not all love is "at first sight".
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I'm not with anyone right now but there is someone who i love and want to be with but he doesn't want to be with me.
I guess im not good enough so i made up my mind that im just going to give up on the whole damn thing.*sigh*
Awww im so sorry to hear that. Keep your chin up and dont be sad. I am sure things are going to work out for you in the end! Always remember there are a billion fish in the sea to choose from. If it doesnt work out with him, there is going to be someone els coming along shortly after!
GOOD LUCK!!
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I am in relationship with at the moment...it's been and year since I last had a girlfriend. =\
I sort of got back with my boy again a few days ago. Eh... I thought this time we'de be closer. I really like him, but I'm still not so sure about us and sometimes I feel like he ignores me, just like before. But it's only been a few days back into it, also I've been a little occupied and my mums still strict, So idk, haha.
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Probably the last one. There is one person, when they came by it felt like he pushed me away immediatley, and now that she's been hanging around us he hasn't made any move around me. He seems distant from all of us at times. Also, his mom works at school so we did have to be a little careful before.
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If she already knew, then chances are he probably still wants to show her that he's "semi available". Or he wants to send her the message that he's not really into you as much as he is into her. I know that might sound horrible but thats the way I would look at it.
One thing you don't want to do is get jealous (openly) and start acting weird. That tends to push people away. You dont want to do that just in case the signals arent what they seem to be. So what I would suggest is for you to act like you normally do around him when you two are around anyone even her. That way he doesnt get the sense of being smothered (usually when men find out women especially gf's are jealouse they tend to feel like they are being controlled). So that is one thing you dont want him to find out.
When you do have some problems, just talk it out with him in private. Tell him your concerns and ask him if its true or what he thinks about it. Communication is always the key. But remember dont be so hasty to raise your voice or point the finger. Calm is the best way to go for things like this. Relationships are very sensative and you need to handle them with care. :] Hope this advice hellps you!!
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