Well... How do I start this? But I had a boyfriend his name is Chad [removed, please don't post other people's full names on the internets - Eris] and well... as of the Moment hes in the military he left on the 11th Of January and We've been together for.. almost a year.
but to get to the main point...
~ He broke up with me And he says its because we were in a distance, Hes in Kentucky im in Illinois But the thing I was thinking about was that With his other ex's he Visited them and he really didnt have much of a problem.
~ He said He was done with me Long time ago but He kept trying to get ahold of me.. or like kept trying to talk to me or somthing then one day on Xbox while i was on xboxlive ( Mrs Broly - its like that because Chads Gamertage was Broly sooo.... yeah. ) He sent me a Message at like 3 in the morning telling me to call him so when i called him he forwarded my call.. once again.
~ Then 2 days before he left which was on the 9th.. Sunday he called me unexpectedly and when I Picked up the phone i was really really happy to hear from him so I started laughing a bit but next thing you know like 5 minutes later .. I started to cry because i missed him so much and Im not ready for him to be leaving off to the military.
Like we were talking normally like how are you, how is everything, so we were talking and such but then he was saying how he Loves me and still cares for me then he said " you know your making it hard to be your friend " But when he said that I didnt quite get what he meant then he said He wanted to be my friend but i told him... " Im sorry.... I cant accept that.. " because what if I see him with someone else thats basically my heart getting shot at. Then he said "then this is where we go our separate ways and this is my goodbye to you then... Bye. " But the next day he Added me back on xboxlive.. why? I dont know.. didnt he say We go our separate ways? he said he was done? he said goodbye.. ? Now what?
Im so Lost because really I just dont know what hes trying to do.. All I want right now is to be with him and also In that conversation that we had he said he wanted to see me happy with someone else.. but I always told him I didnt want anyone else.. That all I wanted was you and when I say ILove You i stick by on what I say and I mean it. Then he said how im acting as if hes the only guy out there but he wouldnt let me talk.. then I was thinking... Yeah theres other people out there.. Yeah im young still but really.. No-one else did the things that you did.
( Such as... When my mom was beating on me and my brother Chad was the one who called the cops on her.. because he was scared for me and my brother and he was worried.. Thats something I cant forget. The way we Made Love... How we talked about our future.. kids.. a family.. marrage... and he was also the first person Ive mentioned to my family..)
But I really dont know what to do anymore I tried being with someone else but I couldnt because for one Inside it just didnt feel right by 95% and basically its like I dont want to be in a relationship and I dont want to be with anyone else other than Chad... and yeah For him I do have the patience to wait for him... Because after everything I just cant let him go and As for him I feel It and Its like I know hes not done with me I just have that feeling.. I know hes not and another thing Im scared for when he comes back because my friends say that when people come back from the military they tend to become more strict and their personality changes.
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