Let's talk about Relationships

[saunawarrior]

I had a girlfriend, she dumped me 29th of december (with a text message) i cried more than I ever have. I watched all of the episodes of tengen toppa gurren lagann few days later because I just didn't feel like doing anything else... So it was kind of her fault I started watching anime... But yeah, things are a little awkward as we share some friends, and her big sister is a good friend of mine... And how in the hell am I supposed to go to a party where she has been invited too, when even seeing her still hurts

[mrpineapple]

I had an on and off relationship for one and a half years until i finally decided to end it.
Since then, I've never really felt the compulsion to get back into one.

That was about a year ago. I think im cool by myself though

[Jasanime]

Thanks
Maybe its just at my Region. Most of the girls are very heartless, the 3 most important things are Alcohol, Lots of shoes and tons of Cosmetics at the face...
My Ex-Girlfriend was a very friendly and normal girl. But she was born in another country, all of the few friendly and kindly girls i know are from other Regions and Countries. So its hard to "find" love at here.

You don't happen to live in Jersey do you??

[Jacob's Ladder]

There is a guy I know I'm physically attracted to.

This won't work..not to mention you say he has a female roommate that he's very comfortable with. Plus, you make it sound very one sided. A relationship with no emotion, is only a fling.

[sassyfairycassy1]

Pop my bubble. I get where you are going though. I said physical because that is what drawed me to him. Now as I get to know him more and more it may become more. At the moment I agree it may just be a fling, but I've only been texting him for about two months. His roommate is crazy, he's just too nice to kick her out. At least thats the vibe I got when I was there.
I guess what I'm trying to say really is time will tell if there is any emotion in this little relationship thing, what ever you want to call it.

[Jacob's Ladder]

Wishing ya luck...and pocket full of faith and hope.

[okazaki2]

You don't happen to live in Jersey do you??

Haha no, i dont live in Jersey ^.^
Today it happened again, Francois, a friendly and funny 18 years old friend of mine, told me he was falling in love with a blonde heartless "Party Girl".
But there was another friend of mine, she told me that Francois is her big love. This Girl is maybe the only nice Girl for the next 100 miles around my place. Thats why she is Francois´ best friend.
I think the Story is really sad for the Girl. I wont write down her name here, but i think there are more Persons who cant see the friendly people near around them.

[Token Black Guy]

Well i never had a relationship, and i highly doubt that i would ever manage to get into one in my current status. I'd figure i'd just wait 10 years before i even bother to try to date someone.

[Yurika]

There have been a few guys I was interested in over the years. It either wasn't returned, or nothing ever happened. I've pretty convinced I'm doomed to be alone forever.

[CrimsonMoon]

There have been a few guys I was interested in over the years. It either wasn't returned, or nothing ever happened. I've pretty convinced I'm doomed to be alone forever.

I, for one, believe that people are never meant to be alone. Be patient, someone will come along in your life.

As for me, we've been together for more than three years. All I can say is I'm hoping for the best out of this relationship.

[Yurika]

I, for one, believe that people are never meant to be alone. Be patient, someone will come along in your life.

Patience has never been a strong suit for me. The older I get, the more likely remaining alone looks. People keep telling me someone will come along. Did they, and I missed them?

[Shadowhearts]

Well I want to tell this girl that I've liked for about 7-8 months that I like her but she is dating someone. I just feel that I will be able to move on from her if I let her know because frankly I don't think she does. I was planning on just casual asking her "Hey I was wondering if we could maybe go for a walk" and just casually walk around campus while I start telling her everything but I'm afraid she might find it weird and I don't want things to be awkward between us after this I don't think they will but I can't get her out of my head and It's hard for me to move on. I think once I get it all off my chest It will feel like a weight was lifted even if in the end it causes awkwardness well I guess i'll just have to cross that bridge when I get to it.

PS: I also i'm not sure how to go about asking her because I see her ever day but were always surrounded by our friends and I wanted to ask her in private I'm just nervous so it's hard for me to pull her to the side and just say "Hey can we go for a walk" She also has a job on campus and is constantly busy like she will be busy tonight and all of the weekend so it's always hard for me to find the right time. I care for her deeply and well I just don't want to ask if you she wants to go for a walk right after she comes back from work because I understand that she will feel tired. I've never asked her to walk with me before so I'm sure she will find it strange I just need to catch her alone or something.

[BluGru Mitsuo (Tori)]

for me right now it sucks being single becuz life sucks without someone in my life!

[CrimsonMoon]

Patience has never been a strong suit for me. The older I get, the more likely remaining alone looks. People keep telling me someone will come along. Did they, and I missed them?

Someone will come along. Anyway, my aunt married last year, and she's never married anyone before, and she's 49. The guy she's married to was also single, and he's 50. My point is that it's never too late to love someone and to be loved. Don't worry about age. We will find someone along the way.

[Yurika]

My point is that it's never too late to love someone and to be loved. Don't worry about age. We will find someone along the way.

That was a nice story. It just seems unlikely that I will find anyone because I haven't yet.

[Shibito]

Well since were all oozing hormones I was wondering if anyone on here is in a relationship or if you just want to talk about being single (Like Me Q.Q) (Forever Alone Unite!!! Q.Q) Anyway I do like this one girl >.> but she is dating this other guy and I think she would be better off with me but that's just my jealousy talking and I mean she seems to like me more because he is such a !@#!@#!@#$!@$ *cries* Q.Q Anyway enough about my terrible relationship life let's talk about everyone else's and don't feel bad if your not in a relationship because.....i'm not either Q.Q

I love hearing about people's relationships or how that's going but this might open up old wounds for a lot of people. I can't tell you how many people I know who have either been scarred or traumatized from a relationship (Man I need to get with the times >.>) anyway thankfully i've never had such a bad relationship before anyway please begin the conversing xD

Hehe this made me giggle. ^^ But Yeah. I asked a Mod about something like this. I guess its ok but I will wait for her to reply anyway. But my self. I am single as well. For 2 years now. But The reason why is my own reason. I wanted to rebuild my self after what a Ex did to me. But I am back on my feet. Great job. Got promoted to Supervisor just yesterday -fans start cheering- Oh yeah XD. -cough- But I do hope I can met a special girl one day. one that can watch anime with me. one that can make an attempt to beat me in video games and actully make me try -still searching for that one >.> <.<) Just a cool girl to be with. (secretly I kinda also want her to be a bit like Asuka Langley from Evangelion XD I know im crazy for wanting a girl like that But i can see when she can be cute and loving so yeah.) But either way. I work and play video games and watch anime but now I can add that Im on here as well ^^

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Pop my bubble. I get where you are going though. I said physical because that is what drawed me to him. Now as I get to know him more and more it may become more. At the moment I agree it may just be a fling, but I've only been texting him for about two months. His roommate is crazy, he's just too nice to kick her out. At least thats the vibe I got when I was there.
I guess what I'm trying to say really is time will tell if there is any emotion in this little relationship thing, what ever you want to call it.

Well You just gotta trully ask your self. Is it just his looks or what he says to you that can play your harp with ease and swift motion. You must trully see what you want. With your heart and not your lust. Maybe he might be the one. But whats to say. Nothing ventured. Nothing gained.

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Patience has never been a strong suit for me. The older I get, the more likely remaining alone looks. People keep telling me someone will come along. Did they, and I missed them?

Well as bad it may seem hun. Patience is not easy for anyone. I my self have had them slip by. But look at it like this. Maybe they werent ment for you. The one ment for you is just there. Just the journey is a bit longer then others. I am only 22 going onto 23. I havnt met my love yet. But One day i know I will meet her. Maybe you can met him here or heck he might be down the street or right in front of you posting in this Epic site. The thing is Keep holding onto hope. And Hope will come. Trust me. This much is certain. Happyness is coming. So when it does come be ready to answer it ^^

Love your Otaku friend Shibi-Kun ^^

[Shadowhearts]

So the girl I like is dating someone but she hangs out with all my friends like were all friends with each other and her boyfriend hangs out with us too. We sort of all chill at this guys apartment and she basically sleeps there but I do too and sometimes my friends have to like kiss her on the forehead when saying goodnight and that gets me so mad when I see it. I mean if she was my girlfriend I wouldn't let other guys do that **** I feel like I would be overprotective of her or selfish like I wouldn't want to share her I don't mind if she talks to other guys I just don't want them like you know kissing on her, flirting..etc ugh RAGE!!! >__>

[Konkulf]

I've never been in any relationship whatsoever, and i don't plan to get into one in the near future either. Relationships at this age just tends to be way too unstable and shortlasting, only caring about the exterior side of eachother (there are exceptions, don't misunderstand me here), which is the reason i've postponed it until i've grown a few more years in age (i might of course find someone i like before that time).

Right now i guess i'm just enjoying what time i have left of my easy going lifestyle, before i start looking for work

[Shibito]

So the girl I like is dating someone but she hangs out with all my friends like were all friends with each other and her boyfriend hangs out with us too. We sort of all chill at this guys apartment and she basically sleeps there but I do too and sometimes my friends have to like kiss her on the forehead when saying goodnight and that gets me so mad when I see it. I mean if she was my girlfriend I wouldn't let other guys do that **** I feel like I would be overprotective of her or selfish like I wouldn't want to share her I don't mind if she talks to other guys I just don't want them like you know kissing on her, flirting..etc ugh RAGE!!! >__>

Shadow you sound like a Anime character lol but I see where your coming from.

[BluGru Mitsuo (Tori)]

there is no hope for me!!! D:

[Shibito]

there is no hope for me!!! D:

Don't say that. If anything you should have Hope. There is love in this world. Just some have to look in places you wouldnt expect. I mean look at Shinji and Asuka o.o they have a weird way of showing the love but it's there. Or Starfire and Robin o.o. It's out there. you just gotta be strong and have faith. I'm still looking for my Otaku to hold and be with me. But she wont come if I give up so neither should you. stay strong Freind He or she is out there for you (don't know if your bi or straight so i posted both :3) Stay strong ^^ -hands you a cookie-

[Yurika]

Where am I supposed to meet these people?

[Shibito]

Where am I supposed to meet these people?

just let life flow. he will come hun. I promise. You might met him when you go out today. or might met him here on this site. One may never know. You just need to hold onto faith. That much I can assure you of. trust me ^^

[okazaki2]

Where am I supposed to meet these people?

People?Which people?

[Shibito]

People?Which people?

She wants to find her soul mate is the best way I can put it. Some ppl are blessed with theres while others are still searching still waiting.