I'm really kind of neutral on Valentine's. When I was single it was just another day. Though, I rather liked seeing how happy couples around me seemed. When I was dating long distance it was somewhat harder, simply because the extra PDA meant I missed him that much more. Now that I'm married and with him every year, I fall somewhere in the middle. We do sweet affectionate things for each other all the time, so I don't feel an obligation to shower him with gifts on that particular day. Add to that the fact that we have birthdays literally a few days before and we tend not to do much on the 14th. This year I was sick, so we just spent the day together quietly at home. What more do you need?