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lol, you don't have to worry about me waiting. I haven't been in a relationship in my entire life. >.<Originally Posted by MercenaryMERC
Exactly why I said my opinion shouldn't matter . . .
I suppose we can all wait, but if we wait too long . . .
I also think it depends on how mature the person is. if they are immature then they aren't ready. Im sure some else has said this and agree's with me. I belive there is true love between teenagers. Ive known more than one couple thats lasted 3 years they are both are teenagers well now there both 18. Ive notcied people say something about hormones and just wanting sex. Those are the immature ones. The mature ones want nothing more but to be toghether and hell ive know another couple in wich they both belive in abstinence.
"Groovy"
That's no way to spread the message of abstinence
I do believe I'm in love though, even if it's my first relationship, and possibly my last. I've been through a lot with my boyfriend. We've encountered cops since the beginning of our relationship and his parents are quite abusive. We trust each other and know each other more than anyone else and he's honest when it comes to other girls. We've talked about kids, our future, our personal issues, our dark past-everything. I'm mature enough to know that I might get heartbroken, but it's going to be my fault because I said "I love you" and I won't place all the blame on him.
heh heh, abstinence...
<----doesn't get any----<
virginity ftw?
I suddenly feel like typing, but now I don't know what to say. boo. I love a friend of mine, does that count? It's a different sort of love, like a really deep friendship...
Either way, an online IQ quiz I took said I was at least 25 mentally. So if I wasn't a sociopath I could totally be in love, the internet told me so.
EDIT: forgot to mention, said friend is female. Perhaps that can deter the onslaught of gay jokes I set myself up for.
Last edited by Alkazor; 07-14-2009 at 03:03 PM.
For some the word "love" is just being thrown around, not really knowing how powerful it is.
Right after my so called boyfriend told me "I love you", something felt a little strange. I wanted to wait until I could say it with more meaning but at the moment he said "Say it back to me", so I did, didn't regret it much but it was a little early. Guess what, we broke up a few days ago. Ugh, some 15 year old boys.
Like everything in a teenagers life, it is a learning experience. Having a teenage romance allows you to see what you like in a woman/man. And like all things that you learn, you need to give it time.
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I wrote a blog on what love is, and how powerful it was. i would give a link to it but my blog is private so I'll put it here(Taking out explicit words)-
Warning: Really long. This is only a opinion, I'm not saying give up in what you believe in, but I am saying that what you guys are doing is seriously stupid. I am also not a psychologist or think I know everything, but you guys are so desperate! Maybe this blog doesn't sound like me, but this is me. You don't know me. Only two-three people know me better than anyone else. Learn a lesson ,kay?I really hate it when people say "I love you" on the first day they are going out. The only person you really need to love is yourself before you love others. Love is not a word to play around with.
Yeah, it is a amazing feeling, to give and recieve love is like complete bliss. It gives you a feeling that you never want to leave it alone. It's gives you a new moral and hope, and it boost your self esteem and you feel like you can do anything, overcome the impossible. It is one word, four simple letters that contain so much emotion and power. It has the power to supress all other emotions, yet unstablize the balance of a human being. It blinds others, thinking that is what we should aim for, and everyone wants to fit in and go with the flow, and it makes you feel superior that you captured another heart.
How many feelings can you put into this one word? How much pain can you suffer after everything you've been through?
Okay so yada yada I'm in love with Cisco. I wasn't in love with Cisco at first, because I was still crushing on someone else. I liked him as a friend still. I even said "I love you" when I didn't mean it, because I didn't know what else to say. It felt so common to say I love you. I say it to my family and friends, so why not to him? I don't know how much it meant to him, because he was a guy after all(I know guys have feelings, I'm around them 24/7) I didn't realize how much it meant until the times we always hang out, and he would do everything to keep me happy and smiling. I rarely said I love you and if I ever did, softly, hoping that it wouldn't be too strong. I started to fall in love him for his efforts: He snuck out of his house to see me, stole a bike and gave it back, met my sister and my mom(who were pretty *****y to him. They still scare him today), waited for me after school to hang out, cajoled his family and friends to spend time with me a little longer. I realized I really loved him when one day, i looked at my phone and a picture he secretly took for me made me feel fluttery and light. I felt like never before, and all I wanted to do is smile, and cry. I couldn't thinking about him. Despite that my crush was next to me, I still wanted to cry. I gave up crushing on the guy, and thought pretty deeply why I liked him in the first place. I realized he's pretty negative and depressing and I hate his comments that he made about my tomboy-ness
Point is, love takes time. You can't suddenly love someone at first sight, or say you love them just because you're going out with them, even though they say they love you back. Love is a very strong affection for one another, family or friend. Being in love is completely different. They are special in a unique way, and if you have no doubt that they love you back, I mean absolutely no doubts, then go ahead. It probably won't be true love, but it was love. Be prepared for heartbreak when you say "I love you," and don't blame them for the pain that you started by your own words. If someone says "I love you," and you don't know what to say, just say "Thank you." It lets them off lightly and they will know that you're not ready to suffer again yet, or now. Trial and error, you'll never learn if you don't learn from your mistakes. Love doesn't have to give you butterflies, but ask yourself, was it worth it? Was it everything you sought after?
I just really needed to type this out. People just really irritate me with just one-three words. The same people think that they are in love over and over and over again for like, the 50th time, then they complain that it was all a lie. Goddamn then stop saying you loved them in the first place! Don't blame others for what you said and believed in! I'mm prepared for the tears and pain if I ever break up with my Cisco. At least I know
One thing to really know though: The only person you really need to love is yourself, otherwise you are taking advantage of others and using them as a crutch
Thanks for reading, I was thinking a lot about this and I finally made the effort to type this all out.
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Hmm. . .tl;dr much?
The part about loving yourself first makes sense.
This guy was insecure and wouldn't talk much when he was upset.
Lol, you basically described how I feel about myself. It's like, I can be sad, and then I remember I'm me, and I remember how awesome I am, and I know that anything I do, I'll be ok with. Whatever decision I make is the right one. A feeling of pure bliss...ah...me...
Narcissism for the win! ^_^
It can work really well if both parties are mature enough.
Then again most teens aren't. Examples: see teens on their natural environment or the media (especially TV shows).
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I honestly can't take the idea of it seriously.
feed your monster
Sometimes it happens to be true love but other times not. And the "other times not" is huge!
I see on the court shows they have "high school sweet hearts" fighting over their kids.
Then again, it depends on the couple's attitudes and morals.
But short term, it's sooo worth it.
This.
14....W-W-WHA!!!!!! Honey your are a KID!!! You should be out doing kid stuff like out with friends and jumping around whatever kids do these days!!!! Jezz!!!! 14 why would you wanna be with somebody at that age? Don't shackle yourself down to somebody already. Go out and have fun with your life, love is.......meant for (in my views) 16 and up. 14 yrs old.....NO. Just be free!!!! That's why so many yough kids get into trouble cause they are hanging out with some girl/guy and end up getting the girl pregnant and I don't think at 14 you have a job or have a way to take care of a baby. So please (my opinion) At 14...stay away from relationships. That's just me though.....
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I'm actually pretty mature for my age. Besides, I'm a honor roll, sophomore student with a reputation that no one cares about. Every "friend" I had abandoned me for something better, and even though I have "friends" now, they don't do much to include me in their little fun activities, so I'm stuck here alone with a laptop and my phone.
Don't worry, I'm used to be lonely. Being with my boyfriend actually makes me feel free for the most part. Kids are so clueless because they don't take precautions and decide on what's right and wrong. I have my standards.
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Dropping your belief in something just because there was a book, movie, etc. that badly portrayed something is kind of weak.
Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you immediately start having sex. Also, I'd much rather be with my boyfriend now than beating myself up over it and trying to convince myself I don't like him.14....W-W-WHA!!!!!! Honey your are a KID!!! You should be out doing kid stuff like out with friends and jumping around whatever kids do these days!!!! Jezz!!!! 14 why would you wanna be with somebody at that age? Don't shackle yourself down to somebody already. Go out and have fun with your life, love is.......meant for (in my views) 16 and up. 14 yrs old.....NO. Just be free!!!! That's why so many yough kids get into trouble cause they are hanging out with some girl/guy and end up getting the girl pregnant and I don't think at 14 you have a job or have a way to take care of a baby. So please (my opinion) At 14...stay away from relationships. That's just me though.....
Last edited by Memento Mori; 07-15-2009 at 10:55 PM.
On this day of days, most epic and prideful, you were born 15 whole American years ago!
Through the odds and by doing the impossible, you beat out hundreds of thousands of siblings in the great sperm race for the coveted egg.
Probably via hax.
Regardless! You won!
So remember, whenever someone picks on you or calls you weak or small.
Just remind them that you beat out a few hundred thousand other wimps.
And the grand prize was not dying!
hmm, wow. I'll be your friend.
I mean . . . I'm an honors class student,
and though I don't have a boyfriend,
I do have friends.
Wait, that sounds weird . . .
well, whatever. <.<
Oh, and if your boyfriend makes you feel "free", *thumbs up* congrats. XD
Well, teenage love can be rather confusing because it's caught up in so much idealistic fantasy that it often ends up not lasting.
It's possible for anyone to mistake lust for love. When it works out, then it's a rare occurance.
Last edited by Miss Moonlight; 07-16-2009 at 12:48 AM.
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There is more to a relationship then sex -.-
I aprove of Teenage love. Even if it does not work out its practice for the future. Merc with all do respect i dont think you really understand relationships and being social. -.- teenagers have all the right to fall in love, and it is a beautiful thing when 2 people love each other.
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Falling in love, you can't really help that. That is something you learn on your own and in life, you grow and learn.
I don't want to type anymore than this.
xD
My logic is... long to type and might be confusing. So Confucius saves you all.
But no, it is not a waste of my time. =]
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teenage "LOVE"!? surely youre kidding!
no offense to the under 20's on the forum, but one day you'll look back and say "man, i was RETARDED!" pure fact
Seiko I cant agree with you more. rayshiritto must there be a define line for adulthood huh? I dont think its an age but how you act. And you could be an example of trial and error. humans learn from there mistakes. I am sure if you did not act the fool then. You may have done it later in life.
My teenage years of love were utter lies and deceit, nuthing really meant anything and in the end school always came first so i am all for there being no such thing as love for teenagers, only in novels or storys
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