I know this isnt something new and im sure this has been talked about before here, but i started thinking about this yesterday when i was talking to a friend about it, and today i was thinking more about it.
What do you think? Looks or personality? how much is one important and how important is the other? what does looks have to do with love at all, and what does looks have to do with love?
Some people say that looks doesnt matter at all, that they first look at personality. when people talk to me about this and they say that they dont care at all about looks then i always think theyre just not really being honest. when me and my friend talked about this i asked her if she could fall in love with a guy she talks to on the internet, and she said "yes of course, i dont care what he looks like". but then i thought, what if they fall in love but then the guy turns out to be a girl? would she still be in love with the girl she thought was a guy? after we talked about this she said that she would love her like a friend. but i wonder what that means... why would her love change suddenly just because he turns out to be a girl?
when i talk to a person online i dont care what they look like because when i talk to people i want to listen to what they say, not look at them when they talk. but i know that i always look at a guys looks first. i mean, i dont date a guy just because he looks good, i have to know there is something about his personality that i really like so much that i think hes "right", but i dont think i could date a guy i think looks bad. i think this is a good saying: "the outside gives the inside a chance. the inside gives the outside its shine".