I REALLY am starting to think i can't do anything right.

**Vampiress_Of_Darkness** · 02-18-2009 02:36 PM

Ok, well, first of all, my life sucks, it just seems like i cant do anything right for anybody. =[

Well first off me and my friend were like BEST friends, but she seemed like she liked her bf more and talked about how she cant live without her and ****, and i try to help her everyway i can, but she blows me off, and the one time i didnt help her she calls me selfish and tells me that all i do is care about myself and to never talk to her again. ok.

Me and my x-boyfriend, are trying to be friends, but of course that never works out, anyways, my "sister" claimes she doesnt like him but we all know she does, and i am MADLY inlove with him still and its really hard for me, and me and him fight all the time, and everytime i try to help him, he tells me to **** off or something, and my"sister" keeps telling me to stop being selfish and stop starting drama with him, when i dont even start it! and now she wont talk to me because she says i start all the drama and im ruining her life, and he is being an *** and saying everything is my fault. =[

i dont get it, everytime i try to help someone, they dont want it, and when they do and i cant help them then they call me selfish, and ****, and its really pissing me off! I mean seriousley i dont hurt anyone and i try to help poeple the best i can. But serioulsy i really dont think i can ever make poeple happy. =[

**TheDesertFox** · 02-18-2009 02:40 PM

Sounds like youve got it prety rough and if you need to talk about it just pm me anytime.

**John Watson** · 02-18-2009 02:52 PM

You know...I'm having those feelings as well. Not the same problems but same thoughts exactly.

If you're being sincere and trying to help someone and they wont take it, you should just sit back and let them ruin everything all by themselves. Then later on you can have the satisfaction of knowing you were right. Real friends take other friends advice. Thats what I do. I give advice but it's their choice to take it, right?

And as for your 'sister' and x-bf...you should just brush them off completely. Why should you try making people happy when they wont accept it? It all sounds so selfish...but whose life are you living? Your own. That's a good enough reason all on its own.

My advice to you is to just worry about yourself for once. Try making yourself happy overall...then focus on making others happy.

**mitsuki tensei** · 02-18-2009 03:12 PM

i'm not doctor phil or any physcologist..but you shouldn't be stressing out yourself for people who wont atleast try to understand what you trying to bring about.....but since you seem like you really want this get over with....try to chillax and take deep breathes sit down with them individually and try to talk things out be bold and make them see where you coming from, your points...but if they are too blind to realise how hard you are trying to make things better....then they are not worthy of your precious time....right now you should be having fun and enjoying life not beating up yourself for people who don't seem to try and undertsand you.......any ways if this continues and you've seen you have reached you limits where you can't absolutely tolerate anything ..just drop this and carry on with your life cause it's not nice to be all gloom and stressed out when you've known you have tried your best trying to make others happy when they don't seem to care......

**DOOM!** · 02-18-2009 03:40 PM

Well I am! I'm an expertician in the matter! You problems will be solved in 6 easy steps:
1. Get a marker pen.
2. Go to kitchen.
3. Take fish knife.
4. Go in a dark alley where no one will find you.
5. With the marker, draw a dashed line from your elbow joint, down to your wrist.
6. Thrust knife into dashed line an proceed across it.
8. If possible, repeat steps 5 and 6 with other arm and neck.

Presto! You are now dead and troubleless. And your friends are guaranteed to regret not trusting you for at least an hour. If unsuccessful, repeat from step 1.

**Sagat** · 02-18-2009 03:42 PM

Remember darkness .. whether you think you can or think you can't ... you're right! - Stewie Griffin

Oh and, QQ more.

**Baka** · 02-18-2009 03:46 PM

This should be in your blog

**Eris** · 02-18-2009 03:48 PM

Your post was TLDR, but I suggest you run away and plot a horrible revenge in a solitary castle in the Scottish highlands while playing

on an organ.

**Watery** · 02-18-2009 04:22 PM

The fault may be comunicating to your friends wrongly. Try downright telling your ex-boyfriend you want to get back together and tell him why. He will think of an answer and whatever he will say it's better for you even if he says No. You at least cleared things up.

**Interpreter** · 02-18-2009 04:41 PM

Seriously, your point in posting is? To get advice or to let us listen to your story? I am kinda confused by this part and so I shall say this; these people don't deserve your time. Please ignore them and live on.

**Vampiress_Of_Darkness** · 02-18-2009 04:45 PM

i want advice, and i not trying to get attention! ><

this is what i mean!!

*sighs* please dont be mad at me or critize me for posting this, i just want to know what im doing wrong.

**Baka** · 02-18-2009 04:47 PM

Originally Posted by Vampiress_Of_Darkness

*sighs* please dont be mad at me or critize me for posting this, i just want to know what im doing wrong.

Things about your personal life go in your blog not in the forums.

**Vampiress_Of_Darkness** · 02-18-2009 04:48 PM

well im sorry jeez, you reall dont have to be rude about it.

**Interpreter** · 02-18-2009 04:49 PM

Originally Posted by Vampiress_Of_Darkness

i want advice, and i not trying to get attention! ><

this is what i mean!!

*sighs* please dont be mad at me or critize me for posting this, i just want to know what im doing wrong.

Sweetie, sometimes people have trouble getting past even themselves. I shall repeat what I say; ignore those people. You are trying to help them but they don't even want to help themselves and bring forth misery. You can't do anything for them, but you can keep watch.

**MetalIsEternal** · 02-18-2009 04:51 PM

Who gives a flying frikk what they think. You're trying to help them and if they're going to be that way, let them. Their is nothing you can do about it. You can't make everybody happy. What really matters is that you tried. Just leave it at that and it will work itself out.

EDIT: What's wrong with you people? She wants help; life's hard enough without pricks like you acting the way you are. This should be in your blog? Who gives a crap! Why don't you do something useful and give this girl some advice? Is it really <i>that</i> hard?

**Vampiress_Of_Darkness** · 02-18-2009 04:54 PM

^^

yes, your right, you guys are all right. and when they really need me and im not there, then they will realize that what they did was wrong. =]

thank you, and i know i cant make everyone happy, but i just want the people i love be happy.

thank you all for your advice ^^

its greatly appreciated.

**TheDesertFox** · 02-18-2009 04:56 PM

Originally Posted by Vampiress_Of_Darkness

i want advice, and i not trying to get attention! ><

this is what i mean!!

*sighs* please dont be mad at me or critize me for posting this, i just want to know what im doing wrong.

Your not doing anything wrong, your friends are to wraped up in themselves to accept your help and when things go wrong they want someone to put the blame on. The best thing that you can do is take care of yourself and if they ask for your help then give it to them.