relationship help

**lady_jesika** · 02-28-2009 09:39 AM

so if ur bf doesnt write to you for an entire week and wont answer your calls...um..does he want to break up?

**Datenshi** · 02-28-2009 09:49 AM

Tell me; how should we know?

Ahem. What I mean is, the only person who knows the answer to that question is your boyfriend; if you sincerely want to know, my advice is to ask him, or maybe a mutual friend of both of you if that's too awkward, instead of asking total strangers on the Internet who know nothing about either you or him.

*And... er, good luck?

**Magical Soul** · 02-28-2009 09:52 AM

He might be busy that's all.

**Sagat** · 02-28-2009 09:53 AM

Yes he does. It means you disgust him.

**fyereen** · 02-28-2009 09:54 AM

i don't have any boyfriend so i don't know..
but based on my bestfriend's experience, yes, he want to break up..

**Magical Soul** · 02-28-2009 10:08 AM

Originally Posted by Sagat

Yes he does. It means you disgust him.

That's unfair.

And fyereen not always the case.

**Sagat** · 02-28-2009 10:10 AM

Originally Posted by Magical Soul

That's unfair.

Your point?

**GFx** · 02-28-2009 10:15 AM

AWHHHHHHHH...

He shouldn't make a beautiful lady wait.

**Kalila Chan** · 02-28-2009 12:27 PM

Maybe hes just busy?

**sa5m** · 02-28-2009 12:31 PM

Maybe he has something else going on. Doesn't necessarily mean he wants to break up. You should give him some space and try to contact him later.

(Btw, personal issues are supposed to go in your blog.)

**Foph** · 02-28-2009 12:46 PM

Originally Posted by Datenshi

Tell me; how should we know?

Ahem. What I mean is, the only person who knows the answer to that question is your boyfriend; if you sincerely want to know, my advice is to ask him, or maybe a mutual friend of both of you if that's too awkward, instead of asking total strangers on the Internet who know nothing about either you or him.

*And... er, good luck?

I agree with this one. We don't know him, or at least most of us don't, Though we can assume and/or guess his reasons behind this, we don't really have any clue.

And some guys I know don't like it when you send a friend to them, whether it's also their friend or not. If you think he's one of those guys who wouldn't really care, go ahead and send a mutual friend or yourself. If you think he would care, it'd be best to just do it yourself. Most people I know and have talked to about this prefer speaking face to face when dealing with relationships rather than through another method.