Before you get married you'll probably have one. But would you go "traditional" and hire a stripper, or go to a strip club with your entourage? Some weds-to-be are perfectly fine with it. Some get extremely upset, including the significant others of other individuals in the party, not just the groom/bride.
Would you consider it "last minute cheating"? Does it make it okay for men/women to go to strip joints because its "tradition" or a "rite of passage"?