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Online Dating?!?!?!
i have nothin against online dating and i sometimes do it 2, and my cousin has a gf in like every state, but i want to know others opinion on online dating. so wut do u think?
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What do you mean by on line dating?
Like meeting you GF/BG on line then dating in real life?
OR
Having a relationship in cyberspace only?
I think that i find enough psychos in real life for me to consider my self obligated to someone on line, whom I don't even know.
as for meeting one on line, I will take it any way I can get it i guess.
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the cybersapce oneOriginally Posted by demonplight
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Ah, I don't like it. I don't think that you can have a real relationship on line. but if people do it like on a forum just for fun then it's all good.
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It's okay by me. I never tried it b4, and I probably never will. It's a great way to meet new people though.
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Complete god damn waste of time. It will almost never work out, I don't care what anyone says: Distance is a killer.
A relationship can only progress so far online, at which point it will stagnate until the distance is resolved or it will begin to gradually regress to the point where a break up occurs.
How do you ask someone out on line? What do you do?
for example
"Miss Chii Motosuwa would you like to goto Oversock.com with me, Friday night. After that we will go to Pizzahut.com." not kidding, seriously.
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I don't do online dating but I guess it's okay.
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So long as both parties agree in what the relationship is from the start, I have no issues with it. What I detest is when someone leads another person online with no intention of having a serious relationship...but never clue the other person in on that. That's low.
Personally, I was never interested in online-only dating. I fell for my now-husband after meeting him online, but we treated it seriously from the start (met when he was 16 and I was 15). After many years we've married and I've moved out to his country permanently. That's certainly not for everyone, but it worked for us. I always saw online dating as an opportunity to meet people I would not normally meet in person. To me it was always going to be taken as serious as any other relationship, online or off.
The meeting online thing is pretty sketchy to me , but okay. As for the dating in cyberspace that just desperate to say you have a gf/bf. I know a relationship isn't purely physically and you can love someone even if you haven't met them yet, but you can't really date them.
This is why. I shall use the image as an example. The bear, being some crazy pedo or rapist guy who says he/she is a great person. The candy, innocence. That is why i don't do it. To creepy. I like to meet in person.
I really don't think that I have to worry about a pedophile. For the most part I have to worry about the nutty women who like stalk you, and then obsess over you. I seem to attract the Nuts.
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I don't believe online dating is anything serious whatsoever, my theory is; if your relationship with that person online is strong and serious enough, you would have met already, otherwise why are you still talking over the internet?
Give yourself an hour to get as many online girlfriends/boyfriends as you can. I never bothered to do it myself but my friend managed to get 34 or some weird number like that.
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I personally think that online dating works for some of us, like me, but it's a complete and utter waste of time for others.
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It can work, but you must have a total and complete trust for whoever you've with. If you're hundreds of miles away and have no idea what they're doing with other people all day you have to either trust them or decide that they're a cheating loser and dump them, just like in any other relationship.
However, I dont think that online dating works if you never go past the internet. If you date someone for like 5 years online and have never heard their voice or seen their face, its not worth much. Eventually you should move to talking on the phone or meeting in person. Internet dating is a good way to begin a relationship, but not necesarily to sustain one forever =/
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I agree with Fabala. It's not for everyone, and if you intend it to be serious, treat it as such. The same rules still apply, even though it's over the internet.
As for Blasphemous's statement, I only have only minor thing to add. Sometimes, circumstances get in the way of meeting your boyfriend/girlfriends, and it's not always distance. Sometimes it's a financial issue. I had to wait almost two years to meet my boyfriend in person because of it.
Anyway, works for some, doesn't for others. It all depends on what you need, and when you need it. If one of your highest priorities in a relationship is the ability to be in personal contact with the person right away, or frequently, then online dating may not be for you, and that's fine. If you can hold off, and you're considering having a serious relationship via the internet, and all other signs point to yes, go for it.
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I think most online relationships are pointless. If you are serious about the relationship you will do something other than chat with the person. I think it can be a valid way to meet your bf/gf but you need to webcam/talk on the phone and such and try to make real efforts to spend real life time with them. People who go around on the internet asking for an "internet boyfriend" or an "internet girlfriend" are absolutely stupid. That's not a boyfriend/girlfriend, that's somebody you want to practice flirting with.
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I think only relationships are dumb just get a real life and find a real girl friend and dont go act all sad and start a internet relationship.
Online dating is fine to me with the right conditions. I agree with what Fabala and Kitsune~girl said. If you plan on an online relationship, it needs to be taken seriously and you should plan on making more progress with the relationship, especially make a goal to meet the other person in real life.
I think online dating is mere frinedship but on the premise that they r 'dating'. Like when you say "He/she's my online bf/gf," I dun think they really mean, "He/she is my bf/gf n i love him/her!"
Though some did turn out to be reality.
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No offence to anyone here that does that stuff but it is one of the worst things that people can do in this day and age and anyone that does should be ashamed of themselves. The only time I think online dating is even half acceptable is if you start dating after actually meeting the person otherwise you never know who is on the other line. I know you saythat you can see them with web cam but can you????
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on line dating....
on line dating for me is fine but it must have limits and always remember not to give private information's like passwords, where you live and private life or info.
It's just another one of those situations that depends on the individual. People can use it for evil/boredom but I've also seen good relationships form over the net. I've also seen happily married couples find a third party <_<
When I think about it, online dating may not help our over population problem at all ._.
If you don't take it serious, I'd say let the fingers of it.
Such relationships can so easily fail, actually as any others.
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