Bully or bullied?

[Hideki Motosuwa.]

Are you bullied constantly everyday at school? Or are you the bully that picks on people? And if so, do you regret hurting people that you've hurt?

I think people need to speak out even more loudly about this issue, especially in my school. I am bullied, but learn to face my problems directly. I don't settle things with violence, but with words, and believe it or not...kindness.

[prototypetetra]

i think people can easily guess what role I played at such an age...

cameron... will you show me kindness if i bully you?...

-A

[Aizmov]

It is all about the people you know. There were times where I was sort of a bully and other were I was bullied. Now I try best to stay out of trouble.

[Hamashimura]

I was never bullied,and I was never a bully...
There were times when I hurted a person on purpose,but only through verbal beating,for words can hurt much stronger than any hit...
But that happened only once,and he really,really deserved it...
Other than that,no...
I'm very against violence,because it leads nowhere...

[unforgivenhope]

I'm both, I get made fun of a lot, but I also return the favor by doing things to them. Thanks to one fight I got in and won I am not left alone. So although it is the first time violence was the answer it did work.


For some reason this comment gained me some major bad rep ouch.

[XxTaintedxX]

Uhhhh...
I'd like to say both...
I am a bully in a way
but i'm bullied more than being the bully...
I'm more like a playful bully to ONLY my friends...
but i'm bullied by the (sorry for sterotyping here) Preps and jocks...
It almost seems like they want me to be a bully to them...
and i will be if that's what it takes for them to stop messing with my friends...(action means more than words)

[Aizmov]

I'm both, I get made fun of a lot, but now I return the favor by doing things to them.

verbal is nothing, we are talking about physical bullying. you wont know how much bullying is fun until you are bullied yourself, just like you wont enjoy summer if you haven't been through a cold icy winter
I verbal bully all the time, just for fun

[Hideki Motosuwa.]

cameron... will you show me kindness if i bully you?...

-A

Yes, I am that type of passive person, and will not fight back physically, unless it's a life or death situation. You can call me a teacher's pet, but I do tell the teachers, and that usually ends the conflict. I know what i'm capable of, and others do to, and they know that I hold back a little too much, thats' why I'm bullied. I hold backall the time, and I know my opressers hold back too. Like today...

[MissChelly]

I was never bullied in school, nor was I a bully. It is quite sad though that some people have to go through that. My little cousin was bullied at school a lot... kids can be so cruel sometimes.

[Brewmaster]

I have never been any of them and i don't want to be.Sure people tried to bully me but they found out that that was not such a good idea because i did like Hama said verbally deal with them and they leave you alone only once i had to intervene with my fists and that was when they attacked my really good friend.I beat the hell out of them.I just avoid aggression and try to talk it out.Thats the best way!

[Perpetual Specter]

During my earlier school years (until 8th grade) I was bullied quite frequently.Usually it was verbal, but sometimes the bullying got physical.However, I never really did anything back to them, just kept my mouth shut and ignored them.I have never gotten physically defensive either, nor did I plot revenge on them in part because I'm afraid of hurting people.I typically just thought of them as simple-minded retards who wouldn't get too far with their lives in the future as my bullies' grades were well...not good if I do say so myself.Since then I haven't been bullied, just basically ignored.I suppose they got bored of it.Lol.

[prototypetetra]

alright then cameron...


smash smash smash smash smash

not enough...


squish.. squish... squishhhh....

now cameron... you may shower me with kindness by screaming in pain for meeee!!!!!....


smash smash smash smash smash

honestly cameron... i cant think of a sure way to end bullying... i mean no one was able to stop me when i was young... i mean if you can make it stop at school it will simply move out-of-school and into the streets...

i guess when i used to bully people i never really wanted to hurt the person you know its just for the fun of it... at one time i locked this guy on the mens bathroom and he was screaming for help... it was so hilarious... he was so mad when he got out and reported me to my homeroom teacher... but thats it.. if you want things to stop. sometimes you have to make it stop yourself by confronting the problem... at times if words cannot reach the person... brute force will... it often does... oh my god i sound like some savage brute...

cameron.. at such an age. i think i would interpret the action of reporting me to a teacher... well... i dont know.. chicken-like... note that i am talking about me when i was young... i mean i think thats whats more important in this story than the me NOW...

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i feel odd... being a bully and being surrounded by people who were bullied...

-A

[NovaStar]

I was bullied for years because of my Disability and I know what pain that can bring a person, so I know full well how it feels, it's not a good feeling and it doesn't make you feel any better.

I've been out of school for two years though. so that's overwith for me.

[Kyokuns_true_Love]

I was bullied for all of my Elementary school years, and I think that some people are still trying to bully me, but I've become immune ^.^

[Raidou Kuzunoha]

Neither, I was one of those people in the background.

[Luigifamous]

Well to tell you the truth I was bullied, it was pretty bad

[Jose]

I have never been bullied (Not to my face anymore)
I guess I would be more of a bully not I am really I guess just more than the bulle rather than a bull'er'

[jewel2sparkle]

I'm neither as well. People can't boss me and I don't make a habit out of bossing others.

[CroSsplay!]

I was bulled although primary school and year 8, then i moved to america then i was the 'cool new Australian kid' life was great. then i moved back now back to the bulling, cant complain though i got some good friends.

[Kawairashii hikari]

Well I'm a fake bully. People say I'm mean but yet they say that i can't be mean for real because even when i'm saying something mean or laughing at someone's misfortune (like if someone was to fall down, especially if i was the one to trip them) I'd always end up smiling.
They said a bully can't smile all the time and be crazy. But some of my friends care to disagree with the people who say I'm not.

I just make fun of people. ^___^

But playfully... sometimes with mean words, but by me messing with someone everyone knows that they shouldn't take my insults of them to the heart. lol.

[KP4]

I've bullied and have been bullied on. Now that i think about it what i regrated the most was bulling other people. I guess i kind of went with others and to fit in i did stupid things like bulling others. Now i just find doing something i'm not to be really stupid. And i really look at the myself that bullied to be pathatic. As for being bullied, i could careless. It seems like people bully to make themselves fit in or to make themselves feel good about themselves. So being bullied by someone doesn't really make the person being bullied inferior but perhaps the opposite in some cases.

[Hideki Motosuwa.]

I've bullied and have been bullied on. Now that i think about it what i regrated the most was bulling other people. I guess i kind of went with others and to fit in i did stupid things like bulling others. Now i just find doing something i'm not to be really stupid. And i really look at the myself that bullied to be pathatic. As for being bullied, i could careless. It seems like people bully to make themselves fit in or to make themselves feel good about themselves. So being bullied by someone doesn't really make the person being bullied inferior but perhaps the opposite in some cases.

Very good point. I admit that I am a bully sometimes, but never anything serious.

[Shia_san]

sadly, I'm bullied....people-for some strange reason-think I'm wierd...but that's there problem... :]

[Tres-Cross]

I was always bullied when i was little...and now i bully people back cause i'm sick of being treated that way, i was also always getting beat up and stuff too.

[genericusername2]

alright then cameron...


smash smash smash smash smash

not enough...


squish.. squish... squishhhh....

now cameron... you may shower me with kindness by screaming in pain for meeee!!!!!....


smash smash smash smash smash


-A

I think you have spent too many of your school years taking drugs.