Originally Posted by
Bucky Katt
... Seriously, I'd like for you to get over yourself. NOW. She left. She's gone for good. "What's done is done" as Macbeth said so wisely.
Yes. I have a story. My grandfather died last summer. But guess what, life moves on. I'm sorry that I'm not showing you sympathy, but thinking about her won't help your situation.
Step 1: Beat yourself black and blue if you start thinking about her.
Step 2: Make some new friends that are girls.
Step 3: Find one girl out of all the girls that shares the same interests as you.
Step 4: Go out on a date.
Step 5: You take it from there.
Now, please, do us all a favor and cheer up.
... God I am a b----. But when it comes to those who can't move on...Well, I get a tiny bit more than angry.
1. You are 14.
2. Sometimes people don't want to move on, which is fine.
3. Forgetting someone is worse then never getting over someone.
4. Some people get strongly attached and that is very hard to loose.
5. It's more morally fitting not to get over them, and respect their memory.
I know that it causes a lot of hurt and pain to grieve over a loss. The better way obviously is just to get over someone and move on, I am pretty sure mostly everyone would agree. However it's part of being human.
So please keep your belligerence and criticism to yourself. It's only going to make someone feel worse. Maybe in a few years you'll understand.
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