Originally Posted by Bucky Katt
1. You are 14.
2. Sometimes people don't want to move on, which is fine.
3. Forgetting someone is worse then never getting over someone.
4. Some people get strongly attached and that is very hard to loose.
5. It's more morally fitting not to get over them, and respect their memory.
I know that it causes a lot of hurt and pain to grieve over a loss. The better way obviously is just to get over someone and move on, I am pretty sure mostly everyone would agree. However it's part of being human.
So please keep your belligerence and criticism to yourself. It's only going to make someone feel worse. Maybe in a few years you'll understand.