Do relationships need to have sex in them or is sex just an excuse for love?
Does sex come first or do you need to know the other person better in order to have sex with them?
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Do relationships need to have sex in them or is sex just an excuse for love?
Does sex come first or do you need to know the other person better in order to have sex with them?
Ok now this is annoying . . . . .
Yes sex is important as it is an act of love.
Now stop creating threads.
I honestly don't believe in sex before marrage. I don't find sex a vital part in a relationship. My boyfriend bugs me about it, sure. But relationships and love isn't just about sex. And it shouldn't revolve around it, either. I also think you should know your partner really well before you decide to have sex with them. But, honestly, I think you should only have sex with someone when you're ready for a family. In my opinion, if you're not old enough to take responsability for a child, you're not old enough to have sex. Accidents happen, ya know.
Sure, it is an act of love, but there are a lot of people in this world who don't do it for that purpose, if you know what I mean.
Last edited by Maledictis Voca; 06-06-2007 at 08:05 PM.
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Uh..interesting..
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Ok this question is kinda weird, just a wee bit.
But not to me, I mean sex is nice i guess but..you know what i wouldn't know cause i haven't experienced such things O.<
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Sex is not necessarily a vital part of a relationship. And yes, you need to know the other person well in order to have sex with him or her.
Last edited by Sobriquet; 06-06-2007 at 08:09 PM.
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Yes I know it's a weird thread. I'm a very curious person and I tend to ask many questions. I know my questions are weird and I'm sorry if they offend you. I just try to see everyone elses veiw point.
Last edited by Maledictis Voca; 06-06-2007 at 08:11 PM.
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O.O ok let me answer again.
Yes sex is important. But this action has to shared with a person YOU LOVE.
In my opinion sex isn't something to play around with.
After you're married go ahead and have a sex spree!
But you have to be careful before you are married.
Because there are long term results that you can get.
[such as any sickness/disease. and of course theres always the part when you can get pregnant. ]
So..my answer would be
In a married relationship, sex IS important..
In a relationship..
Sex can be important..
but [to me]shouldn't be.
Once again, amazing props to the talented Paprika!!
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It all depends on what you believe, and what you are comfortable with.
As for me, I don't think it's necessarily vital, because you can have a relationship/love without sex. But it is a very strong way of expressing a feeling, and some people can't get that across easily in words. However, I am strongly opposed to giving it away to someone you don't even know. I feel you really need to understand the other person, and love them, before you do something as such.
And I don't feel you need to be married to share this experience because, if you love someone that much, why would you need to wait or hold yourself back just because your love isn't justified on a legal piece of paper? But that's just my opinion.
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1.) The paper provides legal and federal protection to couples and families that wouldn't be provided otherwise
2.) It provides both parties with certain rights and privileges, legally and otherwise.
3.) It reminds the significant other the consequences of breaking his/her vows (my favorite one xD)
I'm not a lawyer or anything, just answering the question ^^
Ah, I see. Those are the benefits of marriage. But I believe that if you're getting married for legal reasons, instead of love, there's something wrong. And also...why would you be thinking about that when you want to show someone how much you love them? I'm a bit confused.1.) The paper provides legal and federal protection to couples and families that wouldn't be provided otherwise
2.) It provides both parties with certain rights and privileges, legally and otherwise.
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And when the day arrivesI'll become the skyAnd I'll become the seaAnd the sea will come to kiss meFor I am going home.Nothing can stop me now.
Whom we Are:It is said that the cursedwere once seekers of truthand wisdom, blinded by powerand hate, who were then judged andsentenced to an eternity of life.Never to fully die, never tofully live and never to find tranquility.
I have to agree with you.
I would never have the heart to marry somebody for financial interests only.
;.;..
Once again, amazing props to the talented Paprika!!
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Whom we Are:It is said that the cursedwere once seekers of truthand wisdom, blinded by powerand hate, who were then judged andsentenced to an eternity of life.Never to fully die, never tofully live and never to find tranquility.
This counts for all kinds of marriages.
[gay marriage straight marriage, it's all love, it all counts]
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Just cause I haven't gone out doesn't mean I'm a gold-digger, matti D:<
Yes, it shows that a relationship is going well if you love eachother enough to have sex.
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Oh, hell no!!
Sex is not the end all or be all of a relationship. And rightfully shouldn't be. Not to be pessimist but: just because a couple has sex, doen't mean that relationship will last.
"This is Grand Theft Auto 3. The object of this game? WHO CARES? I'm too busy randomly hitting an old lady with a bat, carjacking a station wagon, and running over people. Or my personal favorite, running over the person whose car I just stole, WITH THE CAR I JUST STOLE! Now THIS is a videogame! Rescu-rescuing the princess is for P***IES" - Lewis Black on The Daily Show
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Sex is as important as you make it. And US culture tends to make it important.
I, on the other hand, need to be crazy about the other person to have sex with them (which has only ever been the case once in my life). I mean, sex is good, but sex with the person that is "the one" is uncomparable to anything else. Yeah, it's that good. ^^
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In my perspective, i'm seeing that sex is another important sign to show how much a couple love each other. It is not the problem rather sex is necessary or not, but once a guy and a girl seriously falls in love and they are together in some "alone" situation, "sex" automatically appears to be their next step.
Of course you need to know if you're having sex with the right person or not, because you may fall in love with a person in just a few hours that doesn't mean you guys should have sex to prove feelings. Basically, sex is like a proposal, giving each other the bodies, and taking out the feelings on each other, combining as one, and to be together.
Somehow, this is also YOUR choice to have sex or NOT to have sex, because this is the most considerable thing to do in a relationship AND in your life =]
Last edited by -akichan-; 06-06-2007 at 09:28 PM.
Yes, but i prefer it to call it making love not having sex, for me having sex is making out with some one just for the pleasure of it, cause it feels good (yes it does feels good i lost my virginity at 14 because of it). Yes making love is very important, not bacause it feels good but beacause you share deep and powerful emotions with that special person.....but just for the record, sex does feels really good......
Just keep it "GROOVY"
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