if you're hated by someone do you have to counteract it with hatred as well ??
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if you're hated by someone do you have to counteract it with hatred as well ??
Actually to be honest, counteracting it with hate would only show that your human there is totally nothing wrong with it. If you would explain not in detail if you dont want, but what is the reason this person hates you, I can help you to understand where they are coming from and give you some tips on how to deal with it :3
NOTE: I go to school for psychology planning on getting my doctorates degree so this is normal for me to have people ask questions such as this, but i need a little bit more info before i can give you an answer.
No you counteract it with your indifference to their opinion. Then you move on and they can continue to hate you.
That's what I do at least.
You don't have to counteract it with anything.
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This is what you do..
You walk up to them and give them a hug.
With that.. you whisper this into their ear.
"It's okay.. Jesus loves you."
That is all.
That is how you counter hatred.
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just ignore that someone who hates you.that's what i do.
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Just go with my suggestion. You can't go wrong from there.
Yeah, I have carpal tunnel.. So what?
Its better to keep silent about it. If you counteract it with hatred, doesn't that mean, you are letting yourself into trouble..?
And for good, why don't you try to learn the reason of hatred before jumping into any conclusions.
A quote I would love to apply here is: "Love me or hate me, either way you are still thinking of me" I use that quite often referring to myself :3 I know your think "who could hate eiri" but turst me >.> they are out there and there are a lot xD
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To be honest, I would just automatically hate someone who hates me. ><; But I wouldn't show it.
Weather most people like to believe it or not, and no matter what books, tv's, or even famous writers say, not everyone is as strong as others, strong shouldn't really have a scale or measurement to it for everyone has their own strength and pattern. You dont make people feel a certain way its caused from the actions you take, so therefore the person wouldnt really have control over the others emotions, its just that they haven't learned to understand their own. That is what they need help with, not learning how to keep other people from controlling them. Once they learn to understand themselves they can accomplish almost anything when it comes to situations such as this.
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hehe...i think il agree with that method...counter attacking someone who hates you, with hatred, then you'd only be adding more problems to this world and to your life...but even if you show them that you forgive them already and they still hate you, then the best thing to do is just plainly ignore them...dont hate them all the more...i usually pity the person who hates me...he/she wont be able to study coz of me in their heads all the time...lols... ^^
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I don't bother about ppl that don't like me or hate me. It's their problem not mine. And if i did something for which they hate me, than i would apologize. If they forgive me, good, if they don't, bah with him.
But since i am a cautious person i probably wouldn't hurt anybody on purpose.
Blow kisses at them everytime you walk pass them. Whenever you two happen to be in the same with with other people say in your loudest voice "OH! MY LOVE, WOULD YOU COME HERE A MOMENT! I LONG FOR YOUR TOUCH!!!" (Or something similar. xD) If they insult you ("You're so..." "You're such a...") reply with "Yes, and you love me for it." It'll drive them crazy and it's so much fun.
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I dunno, usually I find someone hating me amusing. Take my old boss.. Let's call her MCpl S. (the S is also for Stupid). I hated her with a passion. Damn near just about attempted to kill her.
In the end, I got the last laugh, the system sided with me in my case, and the RCD and her in particular got a big middle finger and I managed to jump ship to a new and better unit. Everyone is finally discovering what a retard she is - thanks in large part to me. She has had a huge fall over there, and she's crumbling. Even now, if I can I will find some way to blade her a bit more. It's simple revenge at this point though.
She hates me now with a passion. I mean, she really hates me. But now I look at her with amusement. Why bother to hate her back? She's so petty now, so small, it would demean me to actually hate her back. What I do now .. is just for my own amusement.. dance lil puppet, dance!
She doesn't realize just how much she is being controlled through her emotion. Doesn't realize she's being used as easily as an on and off switch. Eris is right about the control over your emotions being a weakness, because it's easily exploited.
Last edited by Sagat; 06-04-2007 at 07:38 AM.
i usually ignore them and continue my life
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x3 Me too! But the situation depends, if I did something to provoke it, I'll apologize and if that person still wants to hate me, then I let it and ignore him. When the situation gets out of hand and ignoring is not enough, I'll pass to the stage of feeling pity, and pity is oh so much worse than hate becuase you're considering that person below you, like an inferior being... and that's just sad.
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For me, I really don't be bothered by people who hate me and if it is someone that I care about that hates me, I'll still always love them but I need to move on and get on with my life.
Not everyone is going to like you in this life time so be happy with the ones that care about you and like you for you, then be bothered by someone who hates you, that's how it always works for me. ^0^
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Well
If somebody hates me..it's usually because i want them too.
But if somebody hates me for no reason.
I really couldn't care less.
Waste your time hating me.
It doesn't seem I did anything to you so I don't have to apologize.
And i'm very sure you have better things to do then hating me.
So just keep on hating me.
It'll probably make me famous one day : D
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