Judging Others

[Hamashimura]

I really hope this isn't against the rules...
If it is...Mods,accept my apology,and close this thread...

Here's the deal:
I started this thread because I'm curious of what everyone will say...
Please,if you're going to answer,be totaly honest^^

Well,this is what I wanna know:
Do you judge about people based on how they look and their attitude?
Do you really care about what people thinks of you?

Well,this would be my answer:
I dont judge about them...I always wait to know them better,and then making my judgements...
Still,many people I know are making wrong judgements that are based on look and attitude of the person they're watching...
I had these kind of experiences too-since I'm having longer hear(till my shoulders),people are constantly calling me with bad names(cuz many of them hates those who listens metal and rock music)...I was even called drug dealer >.<
Anyway,I dont really care what others are thinking of me,I'm fine by my own(still,my patience has it's limits too)...
I believe it's the best way to get through everything,since,if you dont care for what people think of you,you cannot lose anything...But,you can gain something...You can gain true friends that are with you cuz they accepted you the way you are,not like the rest...

Well,these are only my thoughts,I wanna see what everyone else thinks???
So post your answers,will you?

[black26]

i will answer your question

sometimes i judge people based in their look and their attitude
and i really dont care what people thinks of me

rock is so cool!!! it make you ROCKS!! haha
just let them judge you (dont think about what they say) i hate judgemental people !!!

we can't avoid the others people judgement
because we live in judgemental world

thats all

[Manhattan_Project_2000]

I really hope this isn't against the rules...
If it is...Mods,accept my apology,and close this thread...

Here's the deal:
I started this thread because I'm curious of what everyone will say...
Please,if you're going to answer,be totaly honest^^

Well,this is what I wanna know:
Do you judge about people based on how they look and their attitude?
Do you really care about what people thinks of you?

How the heck else am I supposed to judge people? I'm not a mind reader.

[unspun]

i'll be honest and say that I do judge. Probably harshly actually. If they look like they haven't showered in weeks, then I don't talk to them. If they look like gang bangers, geniuss or like they're on crack, then I won't give them the time of day. And I don't do the cheerleader type girls either, so yeah, but that's because I don't like rap, drugs, hookers or unnecessary violence. And I like my nose to not make me sick. It's about who you hang out with, and who you consider your peers to be.

Do I care about what others think of me? To an extent. But only slightly. Do I care if someone dislikes my piercings, tattoos or odd clothes? no, do I care if my B.O. offends someone else, and would I refrain from swearing when children are around? You bet your bottom I do. But that's more respect than anything else.

[Tsuna Kadiri]

I judge them to an extent. But even if I don't like the person's attitude or appearance right off the bat, I still try and make it a point to give them a fair chance. Until they prove me otherwise.

I care what people think about me. But I don't let it govern how I act.

[Kiss of Death]

ummm... ok. my turn (we all are waiting for it, dont we?)

1. first when i see someone looking totaly different i jude them. like today this girl with no fashion taste... anyway, if it fifferent and i like what i see, i try to get to know the person
about their acting... yes. if person dont respect me, i wont respect him/her too. simple

2. well, i do care what my parents and what my teachers thinks about me. but if people who dont know me, i dont. if they lying, thye will be punished by God

[Acnologia]

Do you judge about people based on how they look and their attitude?
Yes, I dont like hanging with ugly people, got a problem with how I think? Too bad. And the attitude one is a no brainer, I don't make friends with idiots.

Do you really care about what people thinks of you?
Yes, its ignorant not to.

[Aleyna]

i try my best not to judge someone unless they are constantly rude or nitpicky around me
i may strike back and disrespect them pretty harsh if they constantly disrespect me so its even
im not the kind of person to go talk crap about if i felt someone was disrespectful to me, even if they were totally rude to me
cause that is just rude in my eyes
usually ill just write it out or vent out my anger exercise
if that doesn't work ill pretty much say it to the person's face
if that doesn't work i may do something
if they are stupid enough not to still get it through their head ill just leave them alone
cause im not going to waste my time on them after ive done te best i could to try to stop the whole situation
they can go and be immature and say junk about me
i don't care
it doesn't have to do with me anymore but their own selves
as for if i care about people r not, i care about lots of people
i care about people who prob don't care about me cause i hope that my caring and trying to be nice will help them somehow or teach something to their life
you never know what's going on in another person's life so its best to care enough to respect someone as a general being

[Andros36]

I agree but some people you know are defiantly bad you know it immediately they throw stuff or start fighting. :0

[royal_ken]

I've always had the tendency not to change no matter what people think of me or say about me. When I meet old friends, they tell about how I never change. I'm always me.

There was a time when I was a young teenager and I went to a camp in the States. I was surrounded by a bunch of mindless girls that only thought of how they looked. At the time, I was sorta bothered that I didn't think like them but that wasn't enough for me to get pressured into changing. I spent the rest of the summer hanging out with guys who don't care about such things, meh I didn't make one girl friend throughout the whole time lol

Anyway, if you can withstand peer pressure and stay the way you are and keep friends that like you for who you are, you're good to go. How can you have fun with a bunch of artificial friends that would diss you the moment you turn your back or won't be there when you need them?

With respect to judging other people? Well, as I've grown older, I have started to get picky about people I guess

[Masali]

Of course I do. Everyone does. Anyone who says otherwise is LYING. You see someone walking down the street wearing fishnet pantyhose, a hockey mask splattered with blood, and a syringe sticking out of HIS arm (Which makes the fishnet panties even more creepy) are you gonna look at him and think to yourself "Wow, he looks like a swell guy!". No, you'll probably call the cops. But maybe this psychopath dresses like that because he can't tell what he put on in the morning because he's a blind business tycoon who gives most of his money to charity and the heroin needle is actually an epipen because he was having an allergic reaction and couldn't find the needle afterwords. However unlikely that may be, it's still a possiblity but we wouldn't even consider it because we already judged him to be a serial killer crossdressing junkie. We ALL judge people, it's only until you get to know them that your judgement is either proved wrong or right....or something like that.

[Day]

Yes, I do judge people, everyone does on the inside. It could be what they are wearing, or just the way they act. Every normal "Human" judges people by the way they look, dress, talk, act, and so on.

And no, I dont really care what people think of me. If they think I look like a killer from mars, then let them not like me. Ive just gotten to the point of not really caring anymore, for my good reasons to. Ive also had some weird looks from other people, people talking behind my back and so on. To tell you the truth, itdoes not bug me anymore. ^^

[Sienna Cental]

I don't like to judge people by how they look but sometimes it's so hard. It's even harder when you find out your right. I have found exceptions though. I can make friends with anyone but I'd rather hang out with guys. I'm bias to girls even though I am one. it's kind of weird. sometimes I want to talk about the latest UFC match I've seen where a guy gets his head bashed in. Not make up.

I don't really care what other people think about me though. If you don't like me don't look at me. It's that simple.

[-akichan-]

We all should have different opinions in different things and people. But for myself, i wouldn't judge them as in judge-judge out loud.

I seriously don't care how people think about myself, because different people should normally have opinions about me and why the heck should i care. The more i care, the more of the bad feelings i have for myself.

[CrimsonMoon]

Honestly, I do judge people for their looks but in the end, personality matters. I admired this guy because he's friendly and, well, handsome. However, once work with him, I can only say that he's a lazy pig and always finding the easiest way out. It annoys me. So my judgement isn't always correct. As for how people think of me, I do care but only to a certain extent. I don't push myself hard.

[smile1010]

Do you judge about people based on how they look and their attitude?
Yes I do judge people before I meet them, alot acually, it's really my fault, I look at them and judge them in an instant. Either I like you or don't like you when i first meet you, sometimes I do like you, but someones i don't, and then like you once I get to know you a little bit more. It's usually with girls only. With guys not so much.
Do you really care about what people thinks of you?
SOMETIMES, i do care what people think of me. But at other times, I screw them, and tell them to screw themselves, but then again, sometimes I really hope you hate me.

[MissBunBun]

Lol I always loved topics like this but anyway heres my point of view. Sometimes I tend to judge people by the way they look. Heck! Everyone does But can we stop it? No, because the Earth is made up of nothing but Stereo Typist. So for example if someone was to..wear something all black with chains your most likely gonna be condemed as being Gothic.

And to answer your last question. Do i care what others think of me? Actually no I don't I could care less of what they think of me, because regardless of what i do someone will always judge me as being something.

[███]

The appearence of oneself defines a lot about someone, you can hardly deny that. Of course people will judge on appearance, we all do. But when you get into a friendship or something else with someone that is when things change, you notice personality and based on their personality their appearance changes also, someone who might have looked ugly before now seems slightly more attractive, or visa versa.

Do I care what people think about me? Well I don’t want people thinking I am a paedophile if that’s what you mean.

[Beast]

I really hope this isn't against the rules...
If it is...Mods,accept my apology,and close this thread...

Here's the deal:
I started this thread because I'm curious of what everyone will say...
Please,if you're going to answer,be totaly honest^^

Well,this is what I wanna know:
Do you judge about people based on how they look and their attitude?
Do you really care about what people thinks of you?

I never judge people based on looks or attitude, because looks is just appearance and attitude varies on mood. *You might catch someone on an off day and think they are an angry person for example* As for what people think of me, I could really care less. I've been ridiculed my entire life and so far it hasn't done anything but make me pity the ones who judge me.

[zyronet]

honestly..?
yes.. but sometimes.. I judge people based on their appearance.. but sometimes you cant help it.. Appearances, really yes.. but attitude, no..
what people think of me..? yes and no.. Yes, if it really means something.. No, if its just bothersome and not worth to care for..

[Gizoku]

Hmm I usually never judge by looks, attitude...yes big deal for me.
Dont care what people think or say about me, we all die someday.

[MomijiTMO]

I try not to judge people because I don't want people to judge me. The most interesting people do not appear interesting at first and are easy to give the flick to. Plus I have a thing for weird people so I cannot afford any hasty judging.

I care about external views on myself. If people don't like me, I feel a tad sad as they haven't even got to know me and yet are prepared to ignore such a fun person.

[~Sakura Haruno~]

Hmmm sometimes i judge peopel but not always
And no i dont care what people say and think about me i am who i am and i will be how i like to be

[_CTA_]

Im serious and I swear, that I judge people by their manners and inner side, not looks. Only jerks judges people on their looks.

I mean...think about it. What is that person is you? What will you do?

[Howling Star]

If I hate one thing it people who judge people. I really can't stand it.I got arthritis but cause you can't see it. No one scolds me. But when your in a wheel chair or you walk very strange. People laugh at you that makes no sense. Another thing that is annoying is that people don't respect it if I can't do one thing.

Then I hate it about looks. Even if there are ugly people saying hi or helping them when they are searching something. You can help it really won't hurt. Today I even helped a guy in my class who no one likes. But I got something like it won't hurt me if I help the poor guy. So in my opinion some people are just to spoiled. And can't think of how it would be for those people.
I don't judge I need proof. I only don't like people when they're not thank full Or push me back. Or are cocky/etc that's all.