Things that you will never say to your kids

[*Kayako*]

You were an acciedent.
I wish i never had you
I didn't ask for you
Well you wanted ..... to bad!
Your grounded because i SAID do
Leave, i dont want to see your face

[zyronet]

hmm.. Things I would never say to my kids?
- I don't know you.
-You're so stupid!
-You're so worthless..

Anything that would ruin them. Its like wasting my effort and time in laboring then ill just ruin them like the.. ugh. No way.
OKay. Its like say those things you want to say to you too, and dont say things that you dont want to say to you too... get it? Sorry for the poor explanation..

[S o l o]

"As soon as your 16 your getting a job"

>_<!!!

[Itachi22]

things that mine parents said to me i would never say too mine child:

- you where made by mistake
- hate you
- I am going to kill you
- you are not good for any thing
- go kill your self

and things i would not say:

- you are ugly
- your fat
- why are you here in the first place
- nobody likes you

[Maledictis Voca]

"I will never tell my kids you can't have icecream. Cause it's always a good time to have icecream."

Quote from a friend of mine who's sitting next to me. She wanted to stick this on here. Lawl.

and thus far, I am agreeing with everyone's idea's on what never to say to their kids. Same reasons I mensioned in an earlyer post.

@Santa exists comment- I know! I was totally mad when I found out my parents were lying to me. How utterly awkward. @.@

[Zero Bullets]

Some of the things I got when I was a kid.

Go to bed. (its like 5pm -.-)
Kid "whats for dinner?" Parent "I dunno what are you making?".
Heres some money I'll be back on Monday.
Bathroom door opens "Hey can you hand me some tiolet paper?".

[RockStar]

that's not exstacy that's a laxitive pill...

one of my friends told me they look similar (close blue colors)
if i ever found out my kid was doing drugs that's what i'd give them.
they sure wouldn't want to do drugs anymore...


(i'm sort of half kidding, i'm sure if it actually came down to it i'm not that mean... but that would be so funny.)

[FierceFeli.]

(As said by Mikey, I would never say anything to harm thier self-esteem)

Son:
-NO you can't play with barbiedolls, you should play with cars!
-You should become a lawyer not a hairdresser. I know the best because IM an adult. End of discussion.

Daughter:
-NO you can't play with cars! Girls play with Barbiedolls!
-Go get a boyfirend.
-When I was your age I had sex.

[Chazity]

Well I've never been told things like 'you're worthless' and such (Thank god), but I won't be telling my kids that. It would ruin them

I would never tell my kids that they are worthless, but I will praises them when they do good. I would never do anything to anything to harm their self-esteem

My Mum tends to say to me

'If you want money, get a job' - I'm 15 and you can't get a job yet &#172;_&#172;
'Tidy up your room' - eh? Mum, my room is tidy
'Don't smoke!' - I had no intention to start smoking in the first place
'Work reeeally hard at school and get a reaally good job, cause you don't want to end up like me' - Yes Mum, I already know that, you told me sooo many time

God, it soooo annoying to hear the same thing over and over again

But overall, me and my Mum are like best buddies, but she does get on my nerves at time, especially when she's on a rant &#172;_&#172;

[Jakiao]

While I may think it, I wouldn't say it:

You're worse of a mistake than I was.

[Famahama]

Things i would never say to my kids
-Go die in hell
-Youre really starting to piss me of
-who are you (thatll really hurt)

Cant think of more things at the moment

[~Sakura Haruno~]

Things i would never say to my kids
-Go die in hell
-Youre really starting to piss me of
-who are you (thatll really hurt)

Cant think of more things at the moment

I totaly agree with him

[Ruki]

I wouldn't tell my kids anything insulting or degrading.

If they're doing bad at a subject? I'd help them, not get all angry on them.

I'd let them make their own choices. If they want advice? Good, as it isn't wise to make a decision without something. But in the end, it'll be their own choice.

If my child ends up being homosexual/bisexual, I'd give them the support they need to come out and cope with any crap they might get.

And like a person a few posts back, I would never compare them to another kid.

[Koshiro]

One thing I will absolutely never say to my child is

"I do not love you"

[unspun]

"you were really a boy"

roflmao..

[Schrodinger6]

heres one you dont want to here

your mother was once a man

[~SakuraHaruno~]

-you should be more like....
-your grads are not good. You are grounded
-I would rather you dead
-you're worth nothing
-come on slave...
Horrible things

[Aulos]

Well, I'm not going to have kids, but I'm sure I can still answer this question.

- Everything is possible.
- Go to church. (basically I wouldn't tell them to believe in a religion, in fact I'd strongly encourage them to be an atheist... Yes. I'm anti religion. )

I've been told both of those things by my family... and they're still trying to encourage me to keep my faith. Ha. What they don't know is my faith is long gone now.

[UrusaiSevera]

- do you want to get grounded? *Used to hear that one alot*
- don't you have anything to study?
- Get of the computer... NOW!!! *have been hearing that one alot lately*

[Tetsanosuke]

-You can't date until you're 35!

Though my Darling has said she'd tell our children that. >.>;; Lol

As for the un-jokes. (Note: The bad speaking skillz.)

-Never tell me what you feel, I don't care
-Your hugs annoy me
-Mistakes are also my responsibility, so don't mess up.
-Drop that activity, you'll never get any better

And the list goes on. I was raised with restrictions yes, but never without freedom of my own beliefs. Though I learned when to keep my mouth shut by the age of 10. I never want my children to be afraid to talk to me like I feared talking to my father when I was young.
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[Abstract Me]

Throughout my childhood, I was always told things like "You worthless [insert expletive]" and "Get out of my sight you [expletive][expletive]." So...

- I will never cuss at my children or demean them in such a way.

I never had (and still don't have) much connection and communication with my parents.

- I will never drive my kids away and I will always tell them that I'm there for them.

I was forced to grow up in a religion that, by the time I was 15, I was absoultely disgusted with. My parents hounded me when I didn't want to go to church or join in on religious activities. I was forced to make confirmation, go to CCD, and make all the rituals of my church against my will. When I spoke what I feel about it, they held the upmost contempt for my decisions and spoke with the vicious fury at my 'disobedience', assuring me I'll burn in hell.

- I will never tell my children to follow a specific religion.

Grades are important, but have nothing to do with actual intelligence. I can understand that people struggle with certain subjects and excel in others. As long as they try, I have nothing to be ashamed about.

- I will never get after my children for grades and such.

And being compared to others is the most horrible thing I've had to endure. I felt ashamed as a child because my parents wanted their kid to be "the best". I knew that their pride in me was not because I achieved something, but because they looked like good parents to other adults.

- I will never compare my child to anyone else.

And also...

- I will never say "I am always right". I will listen to my child, and I can certainly learn from them.

[.Lovebeat]

I would never EVER say: I wish that you were never born.

[Pleiades]

Here's my list of things I'll never say to my kids:

*Can't you do anything right?
*Why are you so clumsy?
*Go away, let me concentrate for a second!

Words can definitely scar one's mind. Tsk tsk.

[Gizoku]

Hmm I would never say degrading things to them, as my parent[s] do now.
I wont get on their back about all of the things they've done.
I wont tell them anything that breaks their self-esteem.
I'll be lax about most topics.

[razzen88]

I would never give "endearing" nicknames to my kids. ick. Or names that would get them beat up in school XD that may be a bit hard since nearly everything rhymes with a bad word