Well I suppose we have all heard our parents argue from time to time, or more often like mine. What do you do while they are fighting? I always seem to find solace in listening to music until they are done. It sux but it's part of life no?
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not to be bother bout it, cause it happens, Just staying out the way works.
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My parents tell me its how they communicate and just how they are with each other.
so i dont really have a problem with it, just as YourShadow said " Just staying out of it works".
My parents dont fight and if they did I wouldn't give a rats ***
Most parents have squabbles. Mine do, but nothing to get all worked up about. Arguing is a part of life, A part of life I embrace to it's fullest.
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I usually just listen to music. And sometimes leave.
Unfortunately, it happens a lot in my house. x_o
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mine don't argue that often but when they do i just go into my room until they're done & fine again.
The fighting in the house I live in is minor squabbles. And I don't get very upset about them. But with My father and step-mother.. Ugly **** happens there.. Fighting, blows, blood, shattering glass, you name something they have probably broken it and I can 't help but wish that my Step brother and half sister didn't have to go through that. I'm afraid they will have problems once they are grown.
My parents fights were like that. I would hold my brother and listen to them. When I was older I would sometimes try to help them solve the problem--which don't do that because no child can solve their parent's problem. Unfortunately being adult does not mean you can effectively cope with life's issues and rationally resolve each difficulty that arises. If it becomes abusive...violence is a symptom of a deeper issue and usually requires outside intervention. Aside from calling the cops or reporting abuse--and I am not there so I cannot say if it warrents that, so please don't think I'm saying that is what you should do--maybe help them find a way to ignore their aruging? If it's really terrible you really should be asking a teacher or doctor about it, not a forum. No child should grow up in fear. (Keep in mind they are obligated to report abuse however.) It is often damaging to grow up in that environment, but ultimately it is up to them if they decide to let their parents' issues become their own. Just make sure you are setting a better example and try to help them find better influences in resolving issues in their lives. The problem with parents who do this is, they aren't going to change unless they decide they want to change. They are so focused on trying to cope and not understanding why their coping is ineffective that they are not focusing on what it is doing to others in their family. In survival mode, your survival is often the most important and everyone else comes after. You could try sitting down and speaking to them about it, but that often comes accross as "a child telling an adult what to do." The biggest thing I would say is to help your siblings find other role models/examples for resolving issues. The good news is, there is a lot of evidence that outisde influence can overcome such issues as a child grows up. Non-familial influence sometimes has much more effect on a person's life than influence within the immediate family.
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i leave the house... when my parents fight they throw stuff... i almost got hit by a plate once...
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Yup, I know how that is.. My dad got so mad once that he made my little brother sleep in the closet.. all he did was spill juice.. Maybe chastise him and spank him.. but put him in the closet? later that night he picked him up and put him in his bed, but sill it is sad. I think he is just getting too old to be a parent.Originally Posted by Kurama_the_spirit_fox
It is very natural. Sometime arguements leads to a deeper or worst relationship.
My parents argue all the time, at least once in 3 days. It used to be annoying but now im actually used to it. Now i know why my sister left home.
Eh really. Is that true Aki-san? That happens to my friend having problem to her parents arguing and her real mother got divorced from her husband. A lot has happened to my friend all the time and I always encourage her not to upset. *sigh*Originally Posted by -akichan-
By the way. Well my parents can argue sometimes. I can't remember yet since pastly 17 years ago well my age is 2 year old. Very young eh? I always get used to it never blame them for what they did. My mother always raise to be a good child. Just some past way. I have no siblings but, I had a step brother named Ken, he always visit rarely. That is all I would tell it from my words.
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yeah my parents fight like crazy. Yelling and screaming and such. I just eaither turn the music high or leave the music and do stuff for a couple of hours.
The fighting has grown on me it doesnt bother me as much, but when it doesI just sometimes listen in, sit in my room and draw, or listen to some mellow music.
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Mine don't tend to argue. Too old. There about as hot headed as my grandparents. But sometimes they decide to flip out at eachother, or more likely at me. People enjoy the act of agrument, its just a fact.
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Well, the folks aren't together anymore. I suppose that's a result of a little to many of those types of arguements lol. Yeah they like don't see each other ever cause the padre lives in Kansas City, but when they talk on the phone about plane tickets and expenses they are very civil towards each other. They both always have nice things to say about each other and hold each other in very high respect, they're just not in love anymore. Oh well, it happens.
But when one of those arguements is going on in the next room, just with any old couple, I always try to ignore it, usually thinking about various things.
for me, whenever that happens I would always interfere. I live w/my stepdad I always take my mother's side cause I know how life has been for her between my stepdad. If she ever gets into a fistfight I'm there to protect her even though, no matter what>_<(can't tell anymore than that)
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im sorry but some of you go through worse than me others have no clue
man im really close to telling my parents to(well i cant say it here)
they dont listen to me
they drown money and stress problems in cigarrettes and beer(oh yeah that helps the situation)
and then just get sick of eachothers company until they argue
i have younger siblings and my older sis is out of the house so all i can do is just try o keep my little siblings out of it
and aki i do not believe most arguements in my house are natural
but i grew up with it and im fine .... right?
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My parents only argue A LOT when my dad is drunk... and well, the only thing I can do is try to talk to MOM since dad is drunk and will just forget everything I'm saying... Geez, I hate it when they argue. The social workers had to take care of me once because my dad was drinking too much and I had too much problems at home. =/
I hate it when my parents fight. The fights usually take their places when my dad's drunk. Mom hates it when my dad drinks and she gets pissed off, and doesn't try to hide it and the fight begins. Usually I'm there when they start it, but really soon I find myself in my own room, trying to read and listen to music, I don't even wanna think about my parents fighting. I hate it. Mostly I listen to music with a lot of volume so I don't have to listen to those two idiots.
Do I look like I'm in the freakin' mood..?
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I will go to my room and listen to music and I'll either go on the internet or play video games. Sometimes I just leave the house. But that doen't matter they stay angry with each other for a while, and they fight a lot.
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