What's the hardest thing you ever had to do?

[Kurai Ha]

What's the hardest thing you ever had to do in your life? The most difficult predicament to get out of. Was it something from home, or from school? Was it your best friend? Just tell me what you think was the most toughest thing you ever had to do, or go through, in your life. If you managed to get through it, tell me how. Did you learn anything from it. Bad experiences could have good endings.

[Taikyo]

well, i got banged by a car, when i was only in 7th grade (first one ever in my school). So, anyways, during the accident, i didn't get the lisecent plate on the guy who ran me over. So the police and the teachers, were asking me, who did it? What he looked like? And things like that. Fudge! >.<; How am i supposed to answer that question, man, I got runed over! >.<;; So i was taken to the hospital and stayed there for awhile. When i got back, my classmates and friends were like, are you ok? Let me walk with you for awhile. I'll write your notes for you. Did you find that guy yet? darnit people! I just wanted to be left alone after that inccident! When i was geting my year book, i was supposed to sign something, so instead, they signed it for me. I'm not crippled or anything, i know they're being nice and all, but that made me feel somewhat annoyed. Later on, my mom and dad said i can't go with my friends to anywhere. Not even on a date! ;.; how sad... They even got mad at my friends..err...they did say it, but i knew that my parents were mad. So my friends stayed away from my house for a very loong while. It was a hard time for me and my friends..it was soo hard... And I still didn't find that dummby, who runed me over yet! But i surely will find him! >.<; And yea, i pretty much managed, after that inccident, still can't go with my friends anywhere. But at least my mom and dad aren't mad at my friends. ^^;

[Blood Angel]

breaking up with my girlfriend. we were together for 3 years and i found out shes been going out with some other guy...i wanted to beat the hell out of both of them but i couldnt do it bekuz i loved her so much they are stil going out im still pissed and will never forget it...but time has passed and got a new girl but i will never forget what happened..so thats all im gonna say i dont want to say to much

[Chouji]

i came home from school one day.......while i was playing me GB SP i heard my sister crying i went in her room and i saw her on the floor with her leg twisted
so i shouted for my parents but they were out so i called 911 and they came in 10 minutes.I stayed up all night thinking of my sister

[Link-Kun]

Me and my friend had a race with scooters down a steep hill.I kept telling him I didn't want to do it but he said he'll play video games with me if I did.We raced down the hill. I went so fast I flipped and hit a green car and I left a dent in it.

[kaisen]

Hmm... probably the fight me and my brother got into. We were fight over a fan (yeah... it sounds pretty stupid to fight over a fan) i got his hand into the fan and he got into the hospital. So the hardest thing was to face him and say sorry to him. I felt so bad ><

[Kurai Ha]

Wow, those are hardships. My best friend got hit by a car once too, but he managed to get the liscence and all. It was at my high schools parking lot. He won the case and got ten grand out of the deal, but after that a lot of people treated him like a cripple. Maybe that's why we're good friends, we do a lot of sparring and I don't see him as crippled at all, especiall when he uses a staff >_<. He always beats me at staff, oh well, i beat him at sword, back to the point though, those are all reall good, well bad actuall, but interesting hardships. So just to be fair I'll add one of my own. After my mother died when I was five, I was sent to a foster home with one of my brothers. We were the two youngest. When I was six we moved houses and by the time I was seven my brother was kicked out of the house. (a reason why I have a lot of bias towards catholics; no offense to anyone) I stayed with this family for seven years, in the mean time I had a lot of random memory of what had happend before I was five, but my memory was all scattered. My foster family kept telling me that I was just imagining the stuff, that it never really happened and that for a kid I had a wild imagination. The sent me to psych thearopists as well as physical thearopists, physchiatrist and the lot since I was six years of age. i hate phych's. So, by the time I was 12, I had it well in my head that these people, though not my reall parents, were pretty much all I had ever had. You know how hard it is to be a foster kid, the parents are not allowed to touch you. Imagine a six year old boy crying and the only thing you can to is say comforting words, no hugs. Anyway, when I was 12, my "family" found a better paying job down in Las Vegas. As if the people weren't loaded already. But sense there isn't a foster care agency located anywhere near where they were going, I couldn't go. In one single day, after 12 years, I was dropped off like a bad hat and sent to a different city with a new home. Oh, and those memories I had that was just "imagination" I found out were true after all. I had family elsewhere and they verified my own memories for me.

[Faroelove]

Porbebly to lie to my mom for the first time and never feel any regret and then lie to her again.

[JustAGirl]

The entire year my boyfriend was in Iraq. Every day was stressful because I never knew if he was ok. And then finding out that he might have to go back for another year.

[Faroelove]

that is hard....

[JustAGirl]

Things could be worse, I just see it as the way life goes, others have much worse things happen to them. Luckily I'm an optimist!

[The Rebel]

I have found the hardest thing I've had to do was put up with Kurai ha. Really, I hang out with him daily, and all I get out of it is him picking on me. LOL

[Kurai Ha]

Then you must have had a very easy life Rebel. I guess since I have plenty of time today to while away the hours I could post one more hard ship I went through. Total rejection. My birth family disowned me after they found out I was gay. After a years worth of them telling my I wasn't. As if I don't know what I like, come on now!

[Daenerys]

Hardest thing..


You do know that I have to read EVERYTHING people post in fanfiction right?

[g0d_of_death]

Long story short, I let go of my gf. It was like two weeks ago. It was by far the hardest choice I ever had to make. We're not good for each other, and I don't think she understands that. I had to hurt her to do it (not physically) because I don't want her to come back to me. I hate myself for it, because I love her... but I only made her life worse.

Ok... I didn't wanna have to get into it, but I sound like a bastard now. If any of are clinically depressed, and you've gone to a shrink, they may have told you that you'll be attracted to people that are as depressed as you because you can "help" each other. Well me and my ex are both clinically depressed. I realized that all she was doing was dragging me down when I was getting better. I realized that if I kept letting her drag me down, she'd never get better, 'cause she would always have me there with her. For her benefit, I had to let her go... If I didn't leave her, she'd keep using me, and never see a reason to get better.

I love her... I really do. I'd do anything for her, and I think the best thing for her is not having me in her life. "If you love something, let it go." I let he go... and it's killing me... I just hope it'll help her.

[Kurai Ha]

Sorry Princess Ai, that must be a very long annoying job. I know I'd get bored doing it. The hardest job I had was watching little kids with behavioral problems for a summer. A good reminder that I don't ever want kids. Sorry if this is considered spamming, just responding to Princess Ai's response.

[The Rebel]

The hardest thing I ever had to do was help my mom take care of my dad until he died. It was hard watching him dying.

[☆l2emix☆]

hardest prolly parents divorcing and just my life period is just hard

[[Boolean]]

Let's see...what is the hardest thing I've had to do? I know! When I was asked to draw over 7 pictures from all my friends...I still haven't drawn those pictures...and if you see this ____, you should be getting my point!

Anyways, another hard thing was to actually get my site popular! Now it's got I believe...80 something users? Whatever...it's still just hard to moderate it...especially without internet at home XD

[hameht]

I was staying the night at a friend's house when she got a call...Her sister got into a car crash. She was really worried and started to cry..I reassured her it would be fine and she'll come home soon....Later that night after we've fallen asleep, at 3:32AM Cathy(her mother) said "Jess died..." Her grandmother, mother, father, and her were crying...They are so close to me it really hurt to see them cry and I joined them in crying...It was terrible...Then about a couple months later Morgan(my friend) her older brother's dog got hit by a car...He was very upset...His sister then his dog...He isn't really the same boy any more..It hurts to see them all...In so much pain.

[Bushidowarriord]

My fathers suicide attempt and the divorce of my parents that followed it. But i dont really want to talk about it that much, so yea...

[Darrmyth]

i had to leave hogwart's school of magic (Sobs Loudly)

[Negi]

Having to choose between guys. It is hard desision if I have to hurt some one but an even harder desision if i love them and i hurt them. I am curently in that situation too. ><

[Daenerys]

Long story short, I let go of my gf. It was like two weeks ago. It was by far the hardest choice I ever had to make. We're not good for each other, and I don't think she understands that. I had to hurt her to do it (not physically) because I don't want her to come back to me. I hate myself for it, because I love her... but I only made her life worse.

Ok... I didn't wanna have to get into it, but I sound like a bastard now. If any of are clinically depressed, and you've gone to a shrink, they may have told you that you'll be attracted to people that are as depressed as you because you can "help" each other. Well me and my ex are both clinically depressed. I realized that all she was doing was dragging me down when I was getting better. I realized that if I kept letting her drag me down, she'd never get better, 'cause she would always have me there with her. For her benefit, I had to let her go... If I didn't leave her, she'd keep using me, and never see a reason to get better.

I love her... I really do. I'd do anything for her, and I think the best thing for her is not having me in her life. "If you love something, let it go." I let he go... and it's killing me... I just hope it'll help her.

I can understand. You don't sound like a bastard at all. I hope it was the right decision, for both your sakes.

[Lady V]

Wow. Some of ya'lls stories are so sad

Except for the Hogwarts one..now that just made me laugh. yes..i laughed at your sadness o.o

The hardest time I've experienced (so far) was being let go by the person I deeply loved b/c of the mistakes I've made. (No cheating involved fyi..but it was still immature what I did). And having to get over 2 years of a fun relationship. Then having to watch him change his personality and in the arms of someone else. =/

And during that time, my grandmother was dying. I had to endure my mom screaming and crying at like 2 in the morning on a school day..And then I had to listen to how she died b/c ..Idk..I just had to. And it wasn't very peaceful at all... It was much harder on me b/c I loved her a lot and the last time I talked to her was on the phone,telling her that I'll see her some time soon. The last time I saw her was in the Philippines, telling her that I will be back again..but I never did go back. My school was going to make me re-start senior year if I leave for more than a week. My family is really close, and it just feels different without her here.

Right now, my grandfather is super depressed and I've never seen him this sad before. He's always happy-go-lucky and makes me smile. My mom said he seems empty now.

But yeah..I have heard more stories that are way sadder than that. But I think we all should try to look on the brightside, despite the turmoil we have in our lives.

Life is just a wave after another to see who can survive.