pplz are dating online?

[Marie2007]

never ever trust online dating

[Annie Hall]

I've dated online, trust me...It's not all that bad...I mean I had a few fun 'relationships' but yea they all end the same ~.~ just like the ones I have irl so I say if you find someone nice and fun online go for it! I mean you mine as well.

[Ran11]

Dateing online is kool at times but most of the time it's a real pain in the back.

[-akichan-]

Dateing online is kool at times but most of the time it's a real pain in the back.

True that, cos at the end if you dun see him/her, it hurts ><;

[Renaki]

carmii what do yu expect? people start dating in the 3rd grade. sooner or laters its going to get a little boring?

anyways...isnt dating online hard? like forgetting who your dating? a diffrent sn...

man.

but i did date someone over the internet...STALKER. lol
hes the reason i dont use yahoo msg.

[-akichan-]

carmii what do yu expect? people start dating in the 3rd grade. sooner or laters its going to get a little boring?

anyways...isnt dating online hard? like forgetting who your dating? a diffrent sn...

man.

but i did date someone over the internet...STALKER. lol
hes the reason i dont use yahoo msg.

Hahahahaha xD are you serious you did? never told me oO;

well yeah wut do i expect eh, its just wut i think about dating online. Cos...ive tried many times when 2 years ago, i dated 10 dudes on AG before xD

[Ninja Hatake Kakashi]

Lets lay this down....Everyone in this thread that had posted in here has done it...dont even lie we all have done it and i know it.Heck ive even did it..Its idiotic not that i think about it.You dont even KNow what the person looks likes,how they really are,or if there some guy.Seriously its pretty dumb.Jus date in real life.Honeslty.And again i knoew FOR SURE EVERY ONE HAS DATED ONLINE. Heck theres even people in here that r doing it right now! So dont lie...if u lie..then ur lieing to yourself for deniing the truth...

[Nocturne]

As long as online dating stays within computers, I don't see too much of a problem with it. It's when things go offline...then it's time to be wary...

[Havana]

but unless its serious and not short term, than its silly that the relationship isnt going anywhere. But my relationship with wolfy isnt gonna stay online forever, since we love an long to be together one day.^^

plus in a few days, its gonna be 9 months that we been a couple. true it still wise to be wary. Kind of depends on how well u trust others.

[Kloud_Seven]

People who aren't looking for an internet relationship,are Usually the people who end up getting into one.It's something that you really don't expect to happen but it does for some people,over time.

I myself had dated a girl online a few years ago but now we're just good friends.I have dated plenty of girls in the"real world"as you people like to say,but a peice of my heart still has strong feelings for my ex that I met over the internet.

[Havana]

thats true since i thought i came here to only makefriends didnt expect a b/f by surprize though.^^

[Wolfwood]

i never expected to find a g/f online ^^
everything happens for a reason i believe ^^
so i guess i was meant to click onto the sites i did to find Maggie ^_^
almost nine months. and, we're planning holidays and stuff to visit each other ^^
soon as i get my part time job, i'll be trying to spend every holiday with her.
for now web cams, mics, digital cams. they're all useful when you're a serious couple.
i think the hardest thing will be meeting, spending time together, then having to go back to just an online thing till next visit.

[Fabala]

A story in which it WORKS:
I met my boyfriend here. Right here on this forum. I was 15, he was 16. He was dating someone at the time, and we became friends almost instantly. Now, up until then, I'd had little to no interest in dating. I'd been attracted to people, had a long-term crush, and so on...but never dated. And I certainly never thought about dating online. So it was as big a shock to me as anyone when I realized I'd fallen for that friend...really fallen.

The problem? I live in the United States, and he lives in Australia.

Less than a year after first meeting here, we "got together." He'd broken up with his girlfriend, and developed returned feelings for me. About a month after that, we had our birthdays (I turned 16, he turned 17...both in February). After two more years of keeping in touch via IMs, e-mails, letters, and phonecalls, we met when I traveled out there the summer after I graduated high school (I was 18, he was 19). I stayed with him and his family for a month.

Being separated after knowing what it was like was one of the hardest things we had to do, for we were as perfectly compatible in person as we had been elsewhere. And we were separated for another two years. Then, just this past June (I'm 20, he's 21), I went back to stay with him for TWO months. Parting was...more than a little difficult, but we ARE confident that we'll see each other again, and for much longer. And, of course, we are still in touch via e-mail, IMs, letters, and phonecalls...just as we've always been. This coming January, we'll have been dating for five years. This coming April, we'll have known each other for six.

My point is, while you should be wary of people online...you should know that sometimes it DOES work, sometimes that person you're talking with IS who they say they are. Just like the people you meet every day on the street. An online relationship can work, and I'm only one of the many success stories. Heck, I don't even consider my relationship online anymore. Why should I? Once we'd met, it became a long distance relationship (long, long distance). I'm not ashamed of how we met, and there's no reason I should be. Without the internet, what are the odds that I EVER would have started something with a guy in Australia? Low, eh? And that's where the internet came in. Helping me to meet him, where I otherwise wouldn't have.

I don't think that's a bad thing in the least. It isn't easy, but its been worth it.

[-akichan-]

Wow Reiako, your story is soooooooo touching T.T;

hey Reiako, wut about me? am i your crush now? xD <3

[Chi#1]

I'v done it before...And i don't suggest it b/c long distance relationships don't work out most of the time.....and i wondered...why the ^%#@ did i do it the first place b/c a girl like me doesn't need to do some thing as dumb as that to get a guy....i guess i was just curious????....(why do i think that pple onlien are ugly????...lmao....No OFFENSE to you guys out there...)

[Missy]

I'm really happy for the happy couples who are dating online ^_^ I think it's a great thing that they've found someone they love and are really truly happy together... If they want to be together and things can work out, then more love to ya ^.^

So Reiako & SGI.. I'm really happy for you guys <3 <3 You guys make a cute couple. (I saw the pic of you both together and I just thought "awwww") ...And Wolfy and Vampy(now Magnolia)... I've been around you guys both together (in lil chats) and I can tell you both love each other ^_^

And yes I believe online relationships can work if you really want it to work.

[Chi#1]

online relationships are sorry!.... it just mostly shows that you can't get anyone offline...lmao....XD!...But do wat ya'll do...w/e makes you happy...-_-'

[Chi#1]

the only reason i put financee on my family is b/c i actually kno him in REal life...lmao

[Fabala]

online relationships are sorry!.... it just mostly shows that you can't get anyone offline...lmao....XD!...But do wat ya'll do...w/e makes you happy...-_-'

EXCUSE me?? That is one of the single most shallow remarks I have EVER heard.

I'm not even going to go with the argument "I can get someone offline, if I had wanted to." There's no point. I shouldn't have to justify myself, and I won't. How DARE you judge someone for who they decide to date, to fall in live with?

[-akichan-]

Its been a secret lol....2 years ago...i dated like...10 dudes on AG chat lol!

it was before i knew BD so yeah. And then...the guys i met were all bad guys, so thats why i dun date online anymore.

[Missy]

Chi... honestly...just because yours didnt work out doesnt mean you have to go around saying online dating is stupid and wont work for anyone. -_- seriously.

[-akichan-]

100% agree with Missy, even i mentioned dating online couldnt be a good idea. But if you and the other half tries the best to work it out, im sure you can.

[Sinnaku]

Stick to reality.

Even though I never did, I still say reality is more truthful.

I mean you could meet someone you really really like, talk a lot and like, fall in love and then find out you're talking to someone 5,000 miles away.





Real Life is so much easier.

[Fabala]

Easier...but the alternative is not always so easily prevented. I wouldn't have chosen a relationship with someone on the other side of the planet. It chose me ><

[Wolfwood]

i believe a life long love is easyer to find online then offline.
online, mostly all you can do with each other is talk, and from talking you learn so much about each other. i always love to hear what Maggie's been up to in her day, how she's feeling and everything else thats been going on.
and if ya think about it. as you get older, talking is all you'll really have with ya partner. so a relationship started by looks or something pysical would turn very sour after awhile.
the reason i'm dating online is because i found someone i love to talk to and have so much in common with. i think about her every moment of every day and i want to spend my entire life with her and never be more then a foot away.

i had many g/f's offline before hand, and they were a huge disapointment. its was all started by pysical attraction or maby an overheard comment that made them think we might have something in common, and after a month or so, we really started to see there was nothing there.

simply dont go for looks. go for someone who you could spend hours talking with and never get bored. someone you always look forward to seeing and never try to avoid for any reason.