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    Default I'm really depressed and lonely right now. Can you guys please help me out?

    I think I have bipolar depression. Sometimes I feel really happy. But for almost all of the time, I feel extremely depressed and lethargic. I am so depressed and lethargic that I spend much of my time lying in bed, not being able to do anything. I spend all day on the Internet, looking and downloading porn ...that's the only thing I got the energy to do. I sometimes watch anime, but I don't get much enjoyment out of it. In fact, I hardily get any enjoyment out of doing anything...I dropped all of my classes for this semester because of the amount of time I was wasting posting on forums and looking at porn online. I feel like a total loser all the time. I feel even more depressed that I got banned from A4. I don't want anyone to make condescending remarks to me right now, because I feel extremely depressed and unhappy all of the time. I have problems falling a sleep...I typically sleep at 5 to 6 am every morning. And I don't wake up until 2 to 3 pm in the afternoon. My sleep cycle is totally out of whack. I also eat and drink compulsively. What should I do to make myself feel better and become productive once again? I want to be able to start taking courses next semester, finish university and start a productive and happy career.
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    Default Re: I'm really depressed and lonely right now. Can you guys please help me out?

    you have to do things.. work.. you have identified obvious problems there, that's the first step

    start by fixing your bedtime perhaps, go to bed earlier.. get up early. Obviously you will get depressed if you spend all day at the internet watching porn.. I mean come on, you need to stop that, at least lessen the amount of time you spend doing that

    You're just going to have to force yourself to do all of this, if you don't you won't improve. Simple as.

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    Default Re: I'm really depressed and lonely right now. Can you guys please help me out?

    Thanks for the help. I also need to figure out how to get unbanned from A4. I don't want to be banned on that site forever. I think it shouldn't be too difficult to figure out how I can get unbanned from that site.

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    Default Re: I'm really depressed and lonely right now. Can you guys please help me out?

    If this is true, you go to a doctor. You don't sit around posting about it on an anime forum and looking for people here to respond and pity you. How is that helping? GO TO THE DOCTOR. Most people suffer from depression at some point, and when they've realised it, that's when it improves because they do something about it.

    It's the people that don't admit how they are feeling that just go deeper and deeper into it. Again. Go to the doctor.

    I don't like you, but if people have a genuine problem like you're saying, you have to get off the internet and do something to improve your life. I mean if you're watching porn all the time, it explains a lot about how it's affected you socially, and why you've said some things that led to my opinion of you.

    As for A4, you're not getting unbanned, so I suggest that you stop posting about it on AF. You know what you did there was pretty serious... It's not AFs problem. My advice is that AF have similar rules, just don't ever do what you did there. Simples.
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    Default Re: I'm really depressed and lonely right now. Can you guys please help me out?

    Well-ehh, watching porn all day? .. How is that .. ehh nvm.

    I won't tell you to exercise because you seem to dislike it, you should find another hobby. And thats just an advice for the porn issue, i don't think you've tried doing everything you know you could do. Sleeping badly and eating compulsively are things you can work on yourself. Or like suggested earlier ask a doctor about.

    ... You probably can't ask a doctor about the porn habit.. im quite you can actually. Buuut i don't know how they'll respond.
    Ah well, you'll figure something out.

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    Default Re: I'm really depressed and lonely right now. Can you guys please help me out?

    you can ask questions to doctors online as well

    I think it was kinda ridiculous to post a personal question like this here, no offence

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    Default Re: I'm really depressed and lonely right now. Can you guys please help me out?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bulma_Briefs View Post
    Thanks for the help. I also need to figure out how to get unbanned from A4. I don't want to be banned on that site forever. I think it shouldn't be too difficult to figure out how I can get unbanned from that site.
    Forget A4 and focus on the problem you should be dealing with. I will not pity you as you have obviously done numerous things wrong and depression or a porn addiction is no excuse for such behavior. Depression is tough, but you need to be strong and remember you only live once. Now, seek help and take a break from AF as it will only help your cause.
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    Default Re: I'm really depressed and lonely right now. Can you guys please help me out?

    Psychiatrists and psychologists are generally useless based on my own personal experience. Read some self-help books yourself and chatting with people on forums like this is the best way to deal with psychological problems like depression.

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    Default Re: I'm really depressed and lonely right now. Can you guys please help me out?

    ....yes, because youre a doctor and you know best

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    Default Re: I'm really depressed and lonely right now. Can you guys please help me out?

    Look here. I have a load of problems and crap wrong with me, but Severe Depression is the biggest issue I deal with. For me, psychologists and psychiatrists don't work, neither does medication. Sometimes I feel there is nothing that can help me, but I try to focus on the good things in life, even if it's just the small stuff. Don't make it a pity party and brood over it; it will only make things worse, I guarantee that!

    Even if you dislike exercise, I admit it does help A LOT. Me, I hate exercise and I force myself to go on walks or a short work out. It will make you feel good about yourself. Sure exercise is hard and probably boring, but it's necessary to live a happier life. Find things to occupy yourself instead of just dwelling on whatever makes you feel like crap.

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    Default Re: I'm really depressed and lonely right now. Can you guys please help me out?

    woah, get a psychologist. i have bipolar and that sounds a lot like me before i was medicated. see a psychologist AND a the-rapist, they'll give you way WAAYY better advice than people on an anime based forum. also, if you indeed have bipolar it's important to get on medication right away. i used to have major mood swings like you describe, medication had all but eliminated them.
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    Default Re: I'm really depressed and lonely right now. Can you guys please help me out?

    Dealing with crapyourself is the worst possible advice you could give anyone. I have a friend with bipolar and she got treated for it. Now she's completely fine.

    I know of a guy who told me he had manic depression. You know how he got it? He didn't treat his clinical depression. Work got on top of him. He woke up in the middle of the night and his wife thought he was having a heart attack. He ended up in a mental hospital. He regrets not getting it sorted. He came in to talk at my school about it. DesuMaiden may have me blocked, but honestly, if anyone has anything like this go see your family doctor. They will sent you in the right direction. You don't have to tell them about internet habits, but you can tell them you have an internet addiction and don't go out. If they send you to someone, you may feel like opening up to them since they are used to hearing these things.

    just because one person says doctors don't work for them, doesn't mean you shouldn't get your butt to one as soon as you recognise a problem. It could be the difference between treating simple clinical depression which can be treated with a course of medication and something like developing manic depression which you live with for the rest of your life,
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    Quote Originally Posted by Darkandiel View Post
    Dealing with crapyourself is the worst possible advice you could give anyone. I have a friend with bipolar and she got treated for it. Now she's completely fine.

    I know of a guy who told me he had manic depression. You know how he got it? He didn't treat his clinical depression. Work got on top of him. He woke up in the middle of the night and his wife thought he was having a heart attack. He ended up in a mental hospital. He regrets not getting it sorted. He came in to talk at my school about it. DesuMaiden may have me blocked, but honestly, if anyone has anything like this go see your family doctor. They will sent you in the right direction. You don't have to tell them about internet habits, but you can tell them you have an internet addiction and don't go out. If they send you to someone, you may feel like opening up to them since they are used to hearing these things.

    just because one person says doctors don't work for them, doesn't mean you shouldn't get your butt to one as soon as you recognise a problem. It could be the difference between treating simple clinical depression which can be treated with a course of medication and something like developing manic depression which you live with for the rest of your life,
    Ok thanks for the advice. I have removed you from my block list, because I realized you genuinely care about my mental health issues. And you want to help me cure myself of these mental health issues.

    What do you do? Did you studying psychology or something? I think your help was very useful.
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    It depends on the doctor. Some will take all your money and won't fix a thing. Some will take all your money and help you. The doctor generally is the best bet. Some things are legitimate metal disorders and some things are can be sorted out by attitude adjustment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wio View Post
    It depends on the doctor. Some will take all your money and won't fix a thing. Some will take all your money and help you. The doctor generally is the best bet. Some things are legitimate metal disorders and some things are can be sorted out by attitude adjustment.
    People on an anime forum and not qualified to decide this though, only a medical practitioner is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wio View Post
    It depends on the doctor. Some will take all your money and won't fix a thing. Some will take all your money and help you. The doctor generally is the best bet. Some things are legitimate metal disorders and some things are can be sorted out by attitude adjustment.
    This is why you have to know how to use the Internet properly and know how to use non-big pharm drugs to diagnosis yourself.

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    What is that picture even suppose to mean?

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    You can't just treat yourself. You have clinical depression. When you see that you have lost joy in the things you used to like and find yourself removing yourself from society and staying inside or sleeping all day are the huge signs for depression which isn't something you can fix on your own. You will need to consult a doctor and express your symptoms of depression. You will most likely be prescribed Zoloft or Paxil mainly because of the sexual symptoms you just described which deal with serotonin levels which are peaking for sexual activity. Please see a doctor. You can't help yourself in this situation nor can your friends.

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    jerk it off lol

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    I think people had wise opinions here but I have mine too. Some will say to go to the doctor and that is a good choice, the doctor is there to help you, but this is the fact.. the doctor WILL put you on meds since it is his job to prescribe medication, and the pharmaceutical industry needs money. This is what I think - anti-depressants do more bad than good and I believe that unless you have extreme mental problems, You should NEVER take them. You need to FEEL depression because you need to wake up and realize that life is depressing n you need to move on. I believe that everyone experiences some sadness in their lives and it can happen at any age.. Most of the time; older age. You have to accept things and just keep doing what you need to do and move on. If you feel as if you really can't control yourself with this porn thing and bipolar feelings then go see a doctor about it..

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    Isn't the guy who made the gif, a hentai flash maker?

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    Hi guys! Long time no see!

    Humans are highly hierarchical creatures (exactly like chimpanzees). They perceive their own social hierarchy and constantly assess the hierarchy of others. In modern capitalistic society the hierarchy depends mainly on income level (and, of course, power). If your income is many times less than the income of people you interact (or just see on the street) you are bound to be unhappy, depressed, dispirited. That concerns people of all social levels, even oligarchs. It explains why any business tries to maximize profit including at the expense of workers. Notice that working time hasn't been reduced over the last 100 years, and labor unions and strikes are the only way to get wages to rise.

    I am sure that you are absolutely mentally healthy. Your problem is the lack of money and motivation. I bet that if your doctor gave you 10^6$ you’d be cured instantly. However, considering that you won’t get money soon you can’t hope for high spirits. Forget about them. Your only task now is to get motivation. And the only way to do that is to begin to interact with other people in real life. As you are creative and ingenious, ask your professor to be your scientific adviser (never tell him about your past). Good doctor (PhD) will give you motivation. And I agree with darksky967.

    While Japanese youth escape from reality with anime, games and pornography,
    Russian (where inequality is enormous) do it with drugs and alcohol. More than 7% of population is drug addicts, and who knows how many alcoholics.

    I wrote about drugs
    http://www.animeforum.com/archive/in...t-113119.html?

    In detail the cause of addiction is described in Psychology by Peter O. Gray 5th ed. Chapter Mechanism of Motivation and Emotion. p.179.

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    A support group would surely help you. I have been in one myself, and though it might seem pathetic to some, it did help me. If there is something you like, I suggest you start there, I mean if you wanna get productive again. First of all, you have to think of yourself in such a case, you can't possibly make other people happy while you're not. Loneliness can be a killer, and I do understand being alone, but I imagined all my problems as chains holding me in place from reaching what I really wanted, what I needed, but those chains can go to hell! The world is ours, all we gotta do is take it, eh?

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    If you think random anime forum users can help you get over depressions then there is really something wrong with you.

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