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    Default how to have better relation with younger brother?

    Talk. Older brothers
    must find common
    ground with their
    younger brother, it can
    be girls/boys, sports,
    art, music. Especially, if
    you have not spoken
    in a long time, this
    serves as a good ice-
    breaker. Also, do not
    be afraid to share the
    meaning of
    brotherhood, or what
    your brother means to
    you.
    Spend time together.
    While talking is good,
    spending time with
    your brother is also a
    good thing to do as
    well. Keep in mind, that
    you should set a
    specific day and time
    for hanging out,
    especially if you both
    live hectic lives. Try to
    alternate ideas on
    what and where to go,
    so that everyone can
    be happy.
    Create emotional
    bonds . Learn ways to
    show an emotional
    bond to your brother.
    Although this may be
    strange to hear,
    emotional bond, think
    about it clearly. Some
    younger children, as
    well as older children,
    often feel as though
    they are alone, and
    that no one loves
    them. This gives way
    to the younger sibling,
    and/or the older
    sibling, finding outlets
    to persons and groups
    that they should not, in
    an attempt to find the
    all important "love"
    and "acceptance," that
    they already have, yet
    do not feel.
    Acceptance. Many
    Families, and many
    cultures do not accept
    certain things from
    their children, and/or
    loved ones. This could
    be as simple as
    piercing, tattoos,
    sexual preference/
    orientation, etc.
    Someone wise once
    said, "It is not what we
    are that is important,
    but who we are that
    is." Children who often
    find difficulty in being
    accepted will go out of
    their way to
    experience acceptance
    for others, and not
    their family. As a big
    brother, it is your job
    to show acceptance of
    your brother, no
    matter what.
    Keep your word. A
    man's spoken word, is
    who they are.
    Remember that in
    many ways you are a
    role model for your
    growing brother. If
    you say you will do
    something, or give
    something, keep your
    word and your
    promise. It may not
    seem like a lot now,
    but down the road it
    helps build a strong,
    healthy relationship
    with your brother.
    Offer advice when
    needed . At times, your
    brother may come to
    you asking for advice
    about a particular
    problem, the key is to
    be open to different
    possibilities that you
    did not see before. You
    have to listen, and
    think about "what is"
    versus "what you
    think." Speak clearly,
    and do not give advice
    that is what your
    brother wants to hear,
    but give more of a
    heartfelt tough lesson
    if necessary.
    Be friends, not just
    brothers . Many people
    think that just because
    you have a younger
    brother, or an older
    brother, you have a
    built-in eternal friend.
    This is not true, a large
    number of brothers do
    not even like each
    other. This is not to say
    that they do not care
    about on another, but
    merely that along the
    road of life, they
    walked a bumpy path
    with one another, and
    complicated things
    have happened. Having
    a brother, a real
    brother, should always
    be a blessing. Learn to
    keep the paths of
    communications open,
    and clean. Learn to be
    the guiding light that
    shines upon confusing
    times. Be there for
    your brother, and
    remain sure they know
    you as a friend also.
    Smooth over rough
    spots after a fight .
    Every sibling
    relationship, is bound
    to have a fight or two.
    One important thing
    about fighting with a
    sibling, is learning to
    take blame, where
    blame is due. Another
    is to learn to apologize,
    and move on after
    these events. Do not
    hold onto something,
    when you know deep
    inside you should have
    let it go. Do not keep
    getting aggravated at
    something that already
    happened. When it's
    done, it's done. What's
    best is to apologize
    and not let history
    repeat itself. Believe it
    or not, at times, one of
    the most important
    people in a younger
    brother's life is the
    older brother they look
    up to. At times,
    refusing to ask for or
    give forgiveness does
    damage
    subconsciously, and
    may lead to a false
    belief that, "My brother
    does not love me. Why
    would he keep
    fighting and arguing
    with me if he did?"
    Give. Giving gifts to
    your sibling may seem
    like an okay thing, but
    that all depends upon
    the type of gift, as well
    as the meaning behind
    the gift. Gifts should be
    meaningful, as well as
    a way for one brother
    to express themselves.
    It has been proven
    that males, are far less
    likely to express
    themselves emotionally
    for fear of being
    labeled. However, to
    have a healthy brother-
    brother relationship,
    expressing emotions,
    feelings, thoughts,
    ideas, and so on, is
    part of the process.
    Although different
    than the dating and
    marital process, these
    are still an important
    part of the
    relationship. So giving
    a gift, such as a
    Christmas gift, or a
    birthday gift, is a
    simple way of showing
    that you, the Big
    Brother, took the time
    and patience to
    choose something
    your brother may want
    or need. It also shows
    a level of caring.
    Understand.
    Sometimes events
    occur that play a part
    in changing your
    relationship with your
    brother, either taking
    away from it, or
    helping it grow. For
    example, breaking
    promises takes away
    from the brother
    relationship, and the
    brother bond.
    Sometimes, difficult
    things occur. The key
    is understanding. Yes,
    at times it hurts, but
    the point is you have
    to show a level of
    understanding. "I love
    you" versus "love you."
    Again, love is an
    emotion, and while
    many men clearly love
    their older, and
    younger brothers, they
    do not always show or
    say it. It is unhealthy to
    let negative and/or
    positive feelings reside
    within one's heart,
    without finding an
    acceptable way to
    express those said
    negative/positive
    feelings. Sometimes a
    simple "I Love you" can
    be the key to making
    one's day seem
    brighter. Pay attention
    - there is a difference
    between "I Love You,"
    and "Love You." "I Love
    You" shows deeper
    and more personal
    appreciation for the
    emotion. "I Love You"
    shows through word
    and action that it is
    one individual's love
    for another. While
    "Love You" is merely an
    agreement that love
    for a person exists, it
    does not show that
    that the love is
    personal towards
    another.

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    Default Re: how to have better relation with younger brother?

    I have an older brother. I have a mutual relationship with him and I would say hi and hello but nothing more, really since he lives far away.
    On the other hand with my two sisters, one I can tolerate her but the other one, I love her enough to almost consider her as my kismesis.

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    I have a problem of figuring out whether that wall of text is a guide of sorts or a question...

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